guys: would it be weird if a girl asked you out? |
 Dec 13 2007, 05:25 PM
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there's this guy and i want to make things happen before winter break which is starting next weekend. i don't know what to say though. we only talk at school and stuff. what do i say?! also we've only known each other for a few weeks, and i don't want to seem like a weirdo. and ALSO, if he says no then wtf, it's gonna be sooo awkward and blahh. how do i do it and would you think its weird to be asked out by a girl?
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Dec 13 2007, 05:28 PM
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 RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
I don't think that's really weird..it's happened to me once and it was actually kind of nice not having to put myself out there for a change.
As for how to do it...you just do it lol, wait for him to ask you out somewhere and make a move so it's extremely obvious you want to be with him, or ask him out...and do the same, or you could go the more direct approach and ask him at school...but make sure you do it in person either way. |
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Dec 15 2007, 04:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
ye it weirdd.. if you aint 6-7 in looks.. dont movee first.. let the guy do the asking n stuff..
if you a 6-7 and i like you.. but you happen to move first.. i'll be flatter.. but if you're 4-5 and move first.. i'll be flatter but dont really care much.. |
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Dec 15 2007, 04:47 PM
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 isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
flatter? do you deflate on command?
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Dec 15 2007, 05:05 PM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
i think that i have lost all hope in our generation O_o
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Dec 15 2007, 06:21 PM
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 Pokeball, GO! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,832 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,009 |
I always found it pretty attractive if a girl is straight up with me. Especially if I'm feelin' the vibe as well.
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Dec 15 2007, 08:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 600,172 |
if i were a guy id want a girl to ask me out haha that way she'll be more interesting
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Dec 15 2007, 08:48 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
uhh no.. most of the girlss nevaa make the first move.. well maybe they doo not sure what you mean by the first move..
smile../ stare../ like that or what../ but guys usually make the first movee.. |
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Dec 15 2007, 08:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 600,172 |
the first move like go up and talk to them? smile is not the first move lmao you can smile at anyone anytime they wouldn't think your attract to them
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Dec 15 2007, 08:58 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
.. most girlss smilee to the guys they interest so the guys would approach..
all guys fall for the bait 2.. HAHA.. but some girls do like the guys but bleh.. i dont approach.. i sit back and observe.. i'll move in when the time is rite.. |
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Dec 16 2007, 12:57 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 235 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,772 |
lol hahaha i did that once XDDDD thats because the guy whom i asked out long time ago is shy, i kinda felt weird though... so yeah i let the guys ask me out instead of having me asking them out
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Dec 16 2007, 01:03 AM
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 YUNJAESU<3 Group: Official Member Posts: 1,291 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,275 |
Usually, girls wait and wait and wait until the guy asks her out. Then she gets sick of waiting and tells him to f**k himself.
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Dec 16 2007, 10:13 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
^ see dat.. wat did i say about girls.. ^^
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Dec 18 2007, 09:32 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,574 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 555,438 |
The more I think about it, the more I don't know.
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Dec 18 2007, 04:31 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 600,172 |
QUOTE(superficial @ Dec 16 2007, 07:03 PM)  Usually, girls wait and wait and wait until the guy asks her out. Then she gets sick of waiting and tells him to f**k himself. this is true so the best way is to just be brave go up to him and ask him if he wants to come out somewhere with him.. it'll be a date =] or else you're just gonna wait and wait and wait.. and nothing happen |
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Dec 18 2007, 04:43 PM
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 in the reverb chamber. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,022 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 300,308 |
I don't give a f**k - anyone who does probably isn't worth the consideration.
Listen, if you like someone, let them know - it shouldn't be awkward. I've had plenty of girls ask me out and I've never really treated them any differently because of it - I just politely declined (or accepted) and moved on from there. In either case, it's almost always a flattering experience. Stroke the guys' ego you like - big deal. You're young anyways, you have your entire life to be rejected - start early or something like it. Relax. |
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Dec 18 2007, 05:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 115 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 600,172 |
people always says the guy or girl you are with while you're young you may love them so much it hurts when you break up but is it really turn you can find someone way better as when you grow older?
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Dec 18 2007, 05:11 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
No it wouldn't be weird at all. I would actually be very flattered if that happened!
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Dec 21 2007, 10:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,723 |
not at all =]
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Dec 26 2007, 07:11 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 604,228 |
I say go for it girly. First of all, waiting around and waiting for something to happen is so painful - isn't it? Second of all, I have a twin brother. He helps me out a lot when I don't know what to do about a guy. Some guys like the hard to get play, but I'm pretty sure 85% of them don't. My brother said he just takes it as a "I don't like you". Sometimes guys wait around just as much as girls do, and then nothing happens. So ask him to hang out sometime. If he says no, he's probably a loser ;)
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Dec 26 2007, 07:18 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
If you like the guy, don't wait for him to come to you--go for it! I'm no guy, but I'm sure itll be very
 straight forward and flattering.
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Dec 26 2007, 07:54 PM
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 CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
Why not? It just means she's confident enough to be assertive and if it's you she wants, what could be more flattering? Keeping it real. You just have to remind yourself that she's got some game and the guy's got to show her wassup. This one girl asked me out and we dated for almost 2 years back then and she's one of my closest friends to this day even though she's busy with a child of her own.
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Dec 29 2007, 04:12 PM
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 I am a ninja. Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 605,151 |
I know this topic is probably just for guys to reply to but... I don't see anything wrong with a girl asking a guy out. As far as I know, most guys like the assertiveness and confidence that comes with a girl making the first move.
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Dec 31 2007, 05:04 AM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 603,718 |
It depends. When I was younger, the first few times I got asked out I really shocked and didn't know what to do really and the whole conversation got uncomfortable to the point that both of us are shy to talk to each other the following days. She would have been better of she talked to me first casually.
If the guy looks like he's socially inclined then he probably would be much relaxed and won't get uncomfortable if you ask him out, but he would be much harder to actually keep because he has a lot of choices with women. |
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Dec 31 2007, 05:23 AM
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 mercenary on call Group: Member Posts: 926 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,606 |
QUOTE(iRock cB @ Dec 15 2007, 06:21 PM) I always found it pretty attractive if a girl is straight up with me. Especially if I'm feelin' the vibe as well. agreed. she doesnt have to ask me out, but she can at least tell me that she really likes being with me. It just makes the asking out process much easier |
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