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 Jun 22 2004, 09:20 AM
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te quiero  Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678  |
i was talking to my friend and he sent me an email i wrote to him about a year ago when we were going out. (i put a fake name in). it made me realize that in most of the relationships i've been in ... i wasn't looking for someone to cuddle or to have around as a sex toy. i've been looking for... a friend.
(i left a lot of personal stuff out) QUOTE dear *billybob*,
remember back a few months ago when you were having problems with your parents and you came over to my house, then we walked to the park and at the end of the day, you were laughing like crazy? we had fun back then, didn't we? we could talk to each other, couldn't we? i just want you to understand that you are first and foremost my friend. i don't want our relationship to put an end to that. you can always talk to me and i'll always be there to listen. because i love you like that. love, melissa |
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Jun 22 2004, 09:26 AM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Awww, that's so sweet, Melissa.
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Jun 22 2004, 09:36 AM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
^^ i hear i can be sweet. =] i amaze myself sometimes
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Jun 22 2004, 10:34 AM
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 i'm too cool 4 school Group: Member Posts: 752 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,421 |
That is nice...I was just about to make a topic like this...I realized the idea of having a boyfriend is more appealing than having one. Then i relaized i don't want a boyfriend i want a friend. But the problem is guys now never approach you just wanting to be friends. And the ones who do just want to be friends don't approach you because they already knwo that you would think they were looking for more. Right now i just want friends in my life. Good guy friends
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Jun 22 2004, 11:59 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
aaaww very sweet!! are yall still talking or friends?
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Jun 22 2004, 12:05 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
^^ yeah, we're still friends. almost best of friends.
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Jun 22 2004, 12:26 PM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
awww... almost best freidns... thatz good! =]
your post made me wonderr... hmmm am i lookin for a friend?? hmmmmmmmmmm nah. lolll i guess im lookin 4 both.
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Jun 22 2004, 03:53 PM
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 dance starrie dance! Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,294 |
its good that a boyfriend is a friend.. well yeah .. i dont really want a boyfriend.. just a friend. a boyfriend is a friend.. so yeah ... i think im makin myself confused..
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Jun 23 2004, 04:46 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
aww thats sooo sweet. that must have made him feel happi
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Jun 23 2004, 10:10 AM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
aww, that's so sweet and so tru.....i think that's why it's called a boyfriend.... it's a boy..but more importantly he's a friend
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Jun 23 2004, 07:39 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
awww. that's nice. did he respond?
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Jun 24 2004, 12:37 AM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
QUOTE(x3_kelly @ Jun 23 2004, 7:39 PM) awww. that's nice. did he respond? yeah.. it took a while. a month or so after i wrote that, we decided it'd be better to be friends. |
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Jun 24 2004, 02:59 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
that was very nice of u writing that to him. yep, usually friends last longer than relationships, so its good to stay best friends.
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Jun 24 2004, 03:11 AM
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 Sharie. Group: Member Posts: 2,429 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 103 |
Yeah...I've been thinking a lot (of course, there's not many subjects I have not thought about) about that. Sometimes...I would get along with them so good, I would have so much fun. But then...I realize that if we really got to the next level, it wouldn't be the same. I know I wouldn't want that.
Guess that's a little similar? |
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