is sex something special or is it just a load of crap? |
 Nov 22 2007, 11:48 PM
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i'm still a virgin, and i want to know if sex is really all that great. i mean people talk about it all the time like oh, sex, it's amazing, you have to wait until you've found the right person to share yourself with, blah blah. then there's some people who just do it with whomever they feel like at the moment, and i don't mean sluts, i just mean people who decide to have sex with boyfriends who they aren't madly in love with and think they're "the one". so tell me, to you, is sex something really special that you wait for, or is it something you do just for fun?
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Nov 22 2007, 11:50 PM
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yuu
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Nov 22 2007, 11:55 PM
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QUOTE(LianaIsTheShit @ Nov 23 2007, 01:48 AM)  i'm still a virgin, and i want to know if sex is really all that great. i mean people talk about it all the time like oh, sex, it's amazing, you have to wait until you've found the right person to share yourself with, blah blah. then there's some people who just do it with whomever they feel like at the moment, and i don't mean sluts, i just mean people who decide to have sex with boyfriends who they aren't madly in love with and think they're "the one". so tell me, to you, is sex something really special that you wait for, or is it something you do just for fun? Sex SHOULD be something special. It's not to most people, but it is to me. I will honestly tell you that sex with someone you're in love with is the most amazing thing. It could be the worst sex you've ever had, but because it's with that one person it's amazing. Sex is such a beautiful thing and it would be a shame if you just let any man have at it. |
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Nov 23 2007, 12:07 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
go have sex and find out.
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Nov 23 2007, 12:21 AM
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QUOTE(misoshiru @ Nov 23 2007, 01:07 AM) go have sex and find out. noo she'll have a baby then for sure 
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Nov 23 2007, 12:51 AM
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!~@*&+;$ Group: Member Posts: 1,033 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 579,371 |
hit it and quit it, is the way to go :).
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Nov 23 2007, 12:53 AM
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the first time is every other time its just hormones speaking. the first time may not be the most enjoyable but it will certainly be something special. im still a virgin and hopefully i will break the seal with someone special. !
that sounded really cheesy but its true. |
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Nov 23 2007, 12:56 AM
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Sex is better when its with the person you love.
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Nov 23 2007, 01:09 AM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
It is a heavenly thing, you just have to make sure its what you want and not what your hormones want. I mean, there's a fine line between sex and love making.
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Nov 23 2007, 01:29 AM
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QUOTE(Moderator @ Nov 23 2007, 12:09 AM) It is a heavenly thing, you just have to make sure its what you want and not what your hormones want. I mean, there's a fine line between sex and love making. Mhmm. It's something special. And don't have sex. You're thinking of a kid. 
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Nov 23 2007, 01:45 AM
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Nov 23 2007, 02:10 AM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 23 2007, 12:45 AM) Nice reply there... for a little girl.  "It's something special" OMGS!!!  Little kids shouldnt even be replying to this thread.  Don't be bitter. Wasn't it you that just called me mature? |
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Nov 23 2007, 02:32 AM
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Nov 23 2007, 02:34 AM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 23 2007, 01:32 AM) Yes, in a cute way. I didn't exactly mean it. HAHAHAH!!! . What i meant earlier is that i think it's funny/cute when a little girl tries to be mature n such.I'm not... trying. You're a strange one. |
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Nov 23 2007, 02:45 AM
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Nov 23 2007, 02:45 AM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 23 2007, 04:32 AM) Yes, in a cute way. I didn't exactly mean it. HAHAHAH!!! . What i meant earlier is that i think it's funny/cute when a little girl tries to be mature n such.What's your idea of a little girl? |
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Nov 23 2007, 02:49 AM
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Nov 23 2007, 02:55 AM
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It's no trick question. I want an answer.
If you can belittle the people here I would assume that you know what your talking about. If you can't give me a straight answer I guess I am left to think you don't know what your talking about and your posts are as worthless as you tried to make aestheticYOU's sound. |
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Nov 23 2007, 02:57 AM
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Nov 23 2007, 03:40 AM
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I guess it depends on the person you are. It can be special or the other thing you said.
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Nov 23 2007, 04:27 AM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 23 2007, 04:57 AM) Come on now, lets all get along. *nguoicasison stick hand out for a handshake* ....... Go to this website. It's Planned Parenthoods website for teens. You can also go here to find a Planned Parenthood near you. I think it would be best to ask the experts rather than random people on the internet. |
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Nov 23 2007, 05:13 AM
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*cough* relationships! JayKay. Backseat modding is what I do for a living. I keed.
Sex should be special, but hey I could say that it's fun and special. I don't know if that makes any sense, but if it's something that happens at the spur of the moment, yea it's fun. Of course, remember to use protection. And it's best to wait. I wish I had waited, but I guess I'm fortunate to still be dating the guy I shared those precious moments with, as cheesy as it sounds. Aw Zed.  You're so innocent.  QUOTE(MissFits @ Nov 22 2007, 11:55 PM) If you can't give me a straight answer I guess I am left to think you don't know what your talking about and your posts are as worthless as you tried to make aestheticYOU's sound.
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Nov 23 2007, 09:48 AM
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It depends on who it's with. When I am with my main girl, sex is something that I take seriouslly. If it is anybody besides her, then I think nothing of it.
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Nov 23 2007, 12:04 PM
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depends
i have had 4 partners and i've only had GOOD sex 1 time. sure i wish i was a virgin again since i'm celibate but i can't change it now and it made me realize i'm personally not missing out on much anyways lol. |
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Nov 23 2007, 12:09 PM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 23 2007, 02:45 AM) ^ O in that case, STFU n go to bed. I'm kidding, i'm kidding. Hahaha. OK, you're mature. Oh gosh, new Rico? Anyyyway, I wouldn't say that its a load of crap.  Some people sleep with a ton of people and some don't.Just wait until you're ready. |
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Nov 23 2007, 12:31 PM
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QUOTE(alovesopure @ Nov 23 2007, 01:09 PM) Oh gosh, new Rico? Anyyyway, I wouldn't say that its a load of crap. Some people sleep with a ton of people and some don't.Just wait until you're ready. have you noticed the new people are incredibly stupid and come in with a chip on their shoulder? i mean on full blast. it's crazy. |
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Nov 23 2007, 12:48 PM
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QUOTE(alovesopure @ Nov 23 2007, 11:09 AM) Oh gosh, new Rico? That's what I was going to say. |
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Nov 23 2007, 12:49 PM
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I think as you get older, you will see that sex is sex.
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Nov 23 2007, 04:43 PM
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Sex is however special you choose to make it. Some people do it simply for pleasure and not because they love the person they're doing it with. Others choose to do it with people they do love.
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Nov 23 2007, 05:13 PM
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Sex is special if you make it special. Sex means different things to people. If you have some psychological inhibitions about sex, chances are, sex is going to be intimidating even if you're with the person who you think you love. It is scientifically proven that sex does wonders for your emotional levels by releasing endorphins, however.
Edit: I didn't read the above post before me. Basically, why don't you just go have sex and come back with reports? We'd all be a little more interested. |
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Nov 23 2007, 05:34 PM
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Moved to relationship.
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Nov 26 2007, 07:01 PM
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Making love is special, Sex is a load of stinky doggy doo-doo
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Nov 26 2007, 07:29 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
Ok what is the diff between making love and sex?
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Nov 26 2007, 08:02 PM
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You don't have to love who you have sex with. It's the same thing you're doing, but it's what you feel inside that's different.
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Nov 26 2007, 08:03 PM
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Because making love is more on a spiritual level where you connect to the person your...well...making love too. sex can just be pleasure.
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Nov 30 2007, 07:45 PM
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 that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 23 2007, 02:49 AM) Hmm, is this a trick question? Lol. Lets see.. *hmm* *nguoicasison Hmmm* *Hmmm* *mMmMm* *mMMMM samuel jackson* *MmMm bieetchh* Nguoicasison got nothing. I can tell when somebody's a little kid or not by the way they talk. ohh crap, if what you said is true, then i'd assume that you're 13, at most but besides that, i wanna save myself for someone special, not necessarily for marriage. |
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Nov 30 2007, 10:20 PM
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Nov 30 2007, 10:30 PM
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 Fellatio. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,122 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,775 |
It's interchangeable:
Some find it special, Some find it exciting, and others find it medicinal. |
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Nov 30 2007, 11:29 PM
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Wow.
I think we should take bets on what her next question will be.. |
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Dec 1 2007, 12:23 AM
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 Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
QUOTE(LianaIsTheShit @ Nov 22 2007, 11:48 PM) i'm still a virgin, and i want to know if sex is really all that great. i mean people talk about it all the time like oh, sex, it's amazing, you have to wait until you've found the right person to share yourself with, blah blah. then there's some people who just do it with whomever they feel like at the moment, and i don't mean sluts, i just mean people who decide to have sex with boyfriends who they aren't madly in love with and think they're "the one". so tell me, to you, is sex something really special that you wait for, or is it something you do just for fun? Didn't you already tell us you weren't a virgin, and you've had your fair share of sleeping around and you don't play it out as something special? *confused* Hmm anyway, my personal opinion of it is that sex is something very special that you only share with someone you love. |
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Dec 2 2007, 04:10 PM
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I've had sex with people I didn't love - just guys I've been slightly attracted to. And it was good - fun, hot, blah blah blah. Then I met this guy whom I fell in love with, and sex with him was definitely different - when you sleep with someone you love, it's the most amazing experience in the world. It's like you're connecting on a different level.. a more intense level.
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