I want to have a baby!! |
 Nov 22 2007, 07:15 PM
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i know i'm only 16 and it wouldn't be any time soon but like in the next few years, i totally want a baby! is that weird? of course i'll make sure it's with someone i love but i don't want to wait forever like until I'm making a million dollars, mean then i'd have to wait until i was like 30 and i want a baby soon. plus who actually waits until they are ready? doesn't it just happen? what do you think?
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Nov 22 2007, 07:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,558 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 589,690 |
heyyy i know someone names liana
and yea sure.. i want one tooo but not soon |
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Nov 22 2007, 07:19 PM
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 Naomi loves you. Y'all may call me NaNa Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,925 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,774 |
Good luck with that
But if I was you I'll go to school and get myself together first. I think 25 is a good age to have a baby. Make sure you're financially stable. Taking care a baby isn't easy, and make sure you're married, and being a single parent is even harder. |
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Nov 22 2007, 07:26 PM
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actually i'm not worried about getting married before i have a baby. marriage is just a ring. love is the real commitment.
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Nov 22 2007, 07:29 PM
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 ^ dgratie.deviantart.com Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 592,675 |
Thinking about a baby now at 16 is kids rushing things. :/ just don't tell you bf most guys hate hearing things like that from their gf until they know they're ready for one. I wouldn't be ready for a kid right now. Lol I'm still a kid. And so are you. :x
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Nov 22 2007, 07:29 PM
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QUOTE(LianaIsTheShit @ Nov 22 2007, 08:26 PM)  actually i'm not worried about getting married before i have a baby. marriage is just a ring. love is the real commitment. OH MY GOD. ROFL! you know, my best friend had a child when she was 16 and swore she was going to have a wonderful life with the baby's daddy. you know what he did when he found out? HE LEFT, denied the baby but when it popped out and it looked exactly like him, he turned everything around and swore he would take the baby away. i doubt you'd be any different. please open your eyes and get a pet instead.. when will you be on maury? inform us when you get the news oh and she didn't even graduate high school. she's working three jobs, if she can even keep them, and she wanted the baby just like you. |
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Nov 22 2007, 07:31 PM
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Nov 22 2007, 07:32 PM
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You want a baby outside of marriage? The guy will probably end up leaving you for someone else. It's no fairy tale with a happy ending. Just because you love someone doesn't mean you should have a baby with them. You're 16, you can't even support yourself. From what you have said, you;re thinking you want a baby before you're financially stable? Good luck. Have fun feeding off of the government's money.
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Nov 22 2007, 07:32 PM
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it wouldn't be anything like that. i'm not a slut. i'm not a whore. i don't want a baby right now. i want a baby in the future, after i graduate. i'm going to be a hair dresser so i'm going to tech school. i don't need college. i don't need any of you, i don't know why i even posted this.
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Nov 22 2007, 07:33 PM
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 Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
I want to have kids before I'm 30, although I want to be married and done with school and have a job before that happens.
 Do you have any little brothers or sisters? Do you know how much effort and hard work it is to take care of another human being? Or well a baby? |
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Nov 22 2007, 07:34 PM
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QUOTE(LianaIsTheShit @ Nov 22 2007, 04:32 PM) it wouldn't be anything like that. i'm not a slut. i'm not a whore. i don't want a baby right now. i want a baby in the future, after i graduate. i'm going to be a hair dresser so i'm going to tech school. i don't need college. i don't need any of you, i don't know why i even posted this. LMAO 
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Nov 22 2007, 07:34 PM
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QUOTE(LianaIsTheShit @ Nov 22 2007, 08:32 PM) it wouldn't be anything like that. i'm not a slut. i'm not a whore. i don't want a baby right now. i want a baby in the future, after i graduate. i'm going to be a hair dresser so i'm going to tech school. i don't need college. i don't need any of you, i don't know why i even posted this. you are blind. i hope you use condoms and talk to your parents on your thoughts with your future. |
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Nov 22 2007, 07:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 122 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,624 |
seriously, if all you guys can do is trash me and call me a slut you must not think highly of yourselves.
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Nov 22 2007, 07:34 PM
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Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
-confused-
If you were going to be a hair dresser..why would you go to tech school? Do you have any little brothers or sisters? Do you know how much effort and hard work it is to take care of another human being? Or well a baby? |
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Nov 22 2007, 07:35 PM
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Who called you a slut?
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Nov 22 2007, 07:36 PM
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Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
I don't think shes a slut or stupid or whatever shes assuming, just I don't know if you know how big of a responsibility it is to have a child and manage life with a child.
Its a lot harder than you think. My mom had my brother when I was *thinks* 13 and me and my sister pretty much took care of him the whole time while my mother sat on her ass and ordered us around about how to do things. It wasn't easy, it was very nerve racking, tons of headaches from crying and trying to get him settled. Also you just can't carry on life the same way, like you can't just go out and do the normal things you have to change the way you go out and do things and being prepared for anything that could happen. |
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Nov 22 2007, 07:39 PM
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QUOTE(Insurmountable @ Nov 22 2007, 08:36 PM) I don't think shes a slut or stupid or whatever shes assuming, just I don't know if you know how big of a responsibility it is to have a child and manage life with a child. Its a lot harder than you think. i'll call her out saying she's not very wise lol. liana, trust me. i was by my friend's side during high school and you do not want to live that life. you won't care what anyone else says because you already have this dreamy unrealistic view on motherhood. become a mother to a stray dog or something you won't ruin your whole life on. |
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Nov 22 2007, 07:41 PM
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Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
Oh yea and to add,
My mom had me and my sister when she was 16 and 17 years old and shes not the best role model. She ended up not really taking care of us and was very dependent of others. Which made me and my sister that way when we grew up until we had some sense knocked into us. Its not a good lifestyle and she never got to finish school because of it and now she doesn't even have a job and she uses people all the time to have places to live and stuff. |
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Nov 22 2007, 07:43 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
lovely. now go get yourself a sperm donor.
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Nov 22 2007, 07:43 PM
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QUOTE(Insurmountable @ Nov 22 2007, 08:41 PM) Oh yea and to add, My mom had me and my sister when she was 16 and 17 years old and shes not the best role model. She ended up not really taking care of us and was very dependent of others. Which made me and my sister that way when we grew up until we had some sense knocked into us. Its not a good lifestyle and she never got to finish school because of it and now she doesn't even have a job and she uses people all the time to have places to live and stuff. i would have never thought that about your background |
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Nov 22 2007, 07:44 PM
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Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
Yea my mother was a whore.
She still is >_> QUOTE lovely. now go get yourself a sperm donor.  she can't do that, she wants to be in love
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Nov 22 2007, 07:45 PM
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Nov 22 2007, 07:47 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(Insurmountable @ Nov 23 2007, 08:44 AM) Yea my mother was a whore. She still is >_> she can't do that, she wants to be in loveshe can love the sperm. |
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Nov 22 2007, 07:49 PM
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QUOTE(Insurmountable @ Nov 22 2007, 08:44 PM) Yea my mother was a whore. She still is >_> she can't do that, she wants to be in love yours too? i could have ended up in a trash can but luckily my mom chose to keep me. she had a couple abortions before my sisters were born 
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Nov 22 2007, 07:52 PM
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Naomi loves you. Y'all may call me NaNa Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,925 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,774 |
If I was you I would wait at least until I'm 25. What age are you thinking about having a baby?
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