How important is LOOKS to you? Options

[shoryuken]

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[LadiieKay-Mamii]

Look is not % important to me.. tha personality is..

[xblast196]

you have an extreme error in the title. "How important ARE looks to you?"

looks do play a role.. and i'll be the first to say i've judged a book by it's cover a zillion times (it was a great book), but looks alone cant make you laugh (unless they're... funny looking.. )

[1angel3]

Looks are very important to me, because it show me you take care of yourself but if they don't have a good sense of style then I won't hold that against them, but as long they smell good. Good style is a plus though.

[shoryuken]

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[1angel3]

Idiot, so you would go out with somebody that's a 1-2 but has great personality?

I would, as long they are cute and smell good. Oh they have to have a job.

[markmejia]

Looks are very important to me, because it show me you take care of yourself but if they don't have a good sense of style then I won't hold that against them, but as long they smell good. Good style is a plus though.

LOL. That made me laugh a little.

As much as this goes against my own morals, I think appearance plays a fair part in a relationship. I mean, I really do consider personality and what we have in common, but yeah. I dunno, lol.

[dustbunny]

I don't care how hot you are if you don't know the difference between singular and plural verbs. You don't have a chance with me either

[micros]

I agree with ladii-kay about personality being more important for liking the person. Howeve looks do play a role when you're choosing someone. Everyone has standards. And you can have standards without being shallow. I can naturally be friends with everyone. But for me to really like you, you have to be my type of girl. Which is probably over a 5 and not over 160lbs. :;)

[dustbunny]

Idiot, so you would go out with somebody that's a 1-2 but has great personality?

would you date someone with a killer appearance but a f**ked up attitude?

[micros]

^ doiink is right.

Would you date a girl that is mean, catty, selfish, and rude? :smirk:

[lovescream]

I think how you look will play a role sometime. THough I'm not gonna judge EVERYTHING based on looks. I do agree that personality is key, but looks still matter somewhat. :< Honestl, even as shallow as I sound, I'm not going to date a buttttttt-ugly guy, though any guy that's 'okay' and up to me will pass.

[freeflow]

^ Agreed. Usually looks are the first thing you notice and they do play a role in what you think about that person especially till you get to know them and their personality. Both play a roll and personality > looks but still. *shrugs*

[superficial]

You have to be at least okay/average looking. I used to be shallow, but hey, who wants to be seen with an ass ugly guy? Personality is way more important than looks, to me, though.

[shoryuken]

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[MissHygienic]

Looks are very important in the end as you want a partner who physically mirrors you. Not to say it's the driving point of being in a relationship because beauty, more often than not, comes from the inside out than outside in, though.

[1angel3]

They're everywhere... boys that are 1-3.. with cute personality. They're like pick as many as you can BUFFET. That's why there's so many 1-3, and 3-4 couples on the street walking all the time. Those people are called "I have low and average standards".

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What's low standards to you may not be low standards for Joe down the street."

Ye i would. Looks in a person can't be changed unless they have plastic surgery. Personality can DEFINTELY be changed in a person. I can mold her into the girl i want, with no trouble at all.

"You know everyone think they can change people but you can't unless they want to."

[LoveToMySilas]

Looks aren't everything but they are something. Personality is key, though.

[shoryuken]

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[livwho]

Looks ARE important, but they aren't the only thing.

I have an infatuation with older guys (not freakishly older, just a few years), so that broadens the playing field quite a bit.

I prefer someone who has to shave on the regular, and falls between a 6 and 9. Personality is also a must.

[shoryuken]

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[*jeanna*]

all of my ex's are ugly when i look back but i never really notice till i dump them, so i believe in personality.

[livwho]

^ good to see somebody who's honest with themselves unlike others saying personality dis n crap.
AestheticYou, you seem pretty mature for your age. I find it hilarious young girls that are mature. I'm just weird i guess, but i can't help but LMAO out when i see young girls act mature.

Of course I'm honest with myself. Sometimes painfully.

You aren't the first person to say that actually. I'm still not sure whether or not to accept it as a compliment or otherwise.

And most girls my age are sluts. End of story.

[dustbunny]

lol he said it was "hilarious" when "young girls act mature"

[*jeanna*]

lol he said it was "hilarious" when "young girls act mature"

im sure most guys think maturity means sucking the d though.

[dustbunny]

HAHA or a nice way of saying the girls got T AND A!

[shoryuken]

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[livwho]

His grammar was terrible. How the hell am I supposed to decipher it?

Anyway, I'm not sure it's "hilarious" but more ironic. Hmm.

[na-nancy]

looks doesn't really matter...
the personality is what i love best..
sometimes...it just depends, ya know?
but personality, yeah...

[transcendentalis...]

All guys think looks are everything, if they say otherwise, maybe they're desperate, lmao!! Not sure about the girls, but i'm gonna say half and half of the girls think looks are everything and the other half think personality. The moral of the story is...

Guys=All about looks
Girls=All about feelings. But having good looks will give the boy the advantage against other guys.

what a prick.
maybe all dipshits think looks are everything. stop making such ignorant generalizations, will you?

and personally, i don't care about the question at the moment because i think my boyfriend tops all the scales on personality, looks, and talent.

[*jeanna*]

what a prick.
maybe all dipshits think looks are everything. stop making such ignorant generalizations, will you?

and personally, i don't care about the question at the moment because i think my boyfriend tops all the scales on personality, looks, and talent.

that guy is single for a reason. so i wouldn't take anything he says to heart lol.
when people are young, i'll admit i'm sure he is right but when you're OLDER AND MATURE, you think about personality more than looks.

looks fade
personality doesn't
if you have a semi-good looking 50 yr old husband but if you hate his personality, you won't be happy

[stormbringer]

yeahh... I agree.. looks are kinda important but when you get old and you both look then what? You'll divorce that person and your kids if you have any and go get a 20 year old wife or whatever that will leave you as soon as your money runs out? stupid.

[but of course thats all in my opionin] XP

[*jeanna*]

yeahh... I agree.. looks are kinda important but when you get old and you both look then what? You'll divorce that person and your kids if you have any and go get a 20 year old wife or whatever that will leave you as soon as your money runs out? stupid.

[but of course thats all in my opionin] XP

but then again most guys leave their wife for a younger woman on personality also. if they loved being around that person but hated their physical aspects.. i doubt they would leave unless they were completely stupid

[misoshiru]

wtf is a 4-5 and up, or a 7-8 or a 1-2? the f**k are you trying to say?

[MissHygienic]

wtf is a 4-5 and up, or a 7-8 or a 1-2? the f**k are you trying to say?

How you would rate someone, I suppose. 1-2 being ugly as sin itself.

In any case, whoever said girls are about feelings is a guy, and you evidently don't know a lot about females. Some of the most superficial people I know are girls--the ones who will only date guys they deem as sexy. Eventually, the guy or girl who ends up emotionally or physically abusing you will no longer be attractive/beautiful/hot. This is why personality shines through looks.

[Just_Dream]

How important is looks to you? Would you date somebody that's a 4-5 and up or somebody has to be a 5 and up, nothing more?

For me, somebody has to be a 7-8 for me to even look at her. Anything below, no chance with me. As shallow as that sounds, we each got different standards. To each his/her own.

Do you consider yourself a 7-8, to match the girl you'd rate a 7-8?






Yea I'm superficial, but I wouldn't date someone based merely on their looks. Plus, I have different standards anyways, compared to others. Someone might think a guy is really hot, and I might think he's average. I am superficial at times, but I wouldn't date a guy who was really hot. But honestly, I think looks are definitely a factor - appearance is often what causes the first attraction.

[Elba]

Of course looks matter. I am not going to date someone ugly. Pshhhh

[ilauqh]

i used to think that looks were really important until i started to like my boyfriend (before we started going out).. at first i cudnt believe i was attracted him since hes not the most attractive looking guy but everything else about him makes up for it that it doesnt concern me at all anymore. idk. i guess the whole looks arent everything thing is more true than i thought it was..

[*jeanna*]

Of course looks matter. I am not going to date someone ugly. Pshhhh

i have! but then again i just wanted their car and new places to go. they were eager to buy me small things maybe like $90 worth of clothes. but have to start somewhere, haha

[shoryuken]

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[transcendentalis...]

gtfo jeanna's back plz. if you bothered reading that thread you kindly suggested, then you'd realize that a good deal of us define slut by someone who is "sexually promiscuous." money isn't part of that equation.

we're glad you consider yourself a 7 or an 8. self-esteem is healthy :)

[*jeanna*]

im not even going to bother reading your whole crock of shit post but,
"We'll talk when i turn 50 .... ok? And no, most guys don't go after young girls with personality moron. "
i SAID, THEY LEAVE THEIR OLDER WIVES BECAUSE THE OLDER WIVE'S PERSONALITY IS ANNOYING + LOOKS ARE FADING. if they loved their personality, screw looks at that age.

they go for YOUNGER girls only based on looks.
do you realize how idiotic you look when you use *HEHEHE THROWS ROCK AT U IN TREE!!111 HEHETEHEHEH! OMG U SUCK*

[brooklyneast05]

im not even going to bother reading your whole crock of shit post

yea, seriously

[ersatz]

Really, you gotta get someone that's about on equal level with you. And, obviously no one would be with someone who physically repulses them. Physical attraction does have to be there somewhat.

[livwho]

nguoicasison, you haven't been here long enough to call Jeanna a slut.

You're probably the most shallow and immature person I've ever met. Shut up and "get on my level".
(That was in honor of you Tung.)

[Just_Dream]

Either way, as far as looks and talent go, he's way down below. Maybe personality, but other then that, he's got nothing. How do i know...? Cuz I JUST DO!!

... WTF? How the hell do you know? Seriously, are you just pulling answers out of your ass again? Oh wait, when are you NOT pulling them out of your ass?

I don't care about her personality at all. Just spending time with me shows she's a good girl inside and can be changed, but being rude to other ppl and other crap don't bother me at all.

So if she's rude to your parents and your friends, then you don't care? And you'll lay down the law? Bitch please, the reason why you don't care about personality is because you just want a girl to show off to other people, and be like "oh I can get a girl who's above average" when really the girl is just dating you cause she might be on the rebound. And she might not even be above average to other people, only to you, and you might just be average looking as well.

We'll talk when i turn 50 .... ok? And no, most guys don't go after young girls with personality moron. I'm not going to details, that goes for you know nothing about boys/men. That's why you fall for all the stupid boys who want to get inside you, same with the rest of the girls. Then they go and say.. "Ahh i think this is LOVE.."

You don't even know what love is, so how can you say that. Same with the rest of the girls? Seriously, shut the fuck up with claiming that she's a slut. You say most guys don't go after young girls with personality - you know that may be true in SOME SENSE, but those relationships obviously don't last. So your rebuttal fails because if a relationship doesn't last, then it's not really considered much anyways, hence it's a weak rebuttal. And how can you assume that all the "stupid boys" want to get inside of her? You don't know anything about her to judge. As for love, like I said you probably don't know much about it, considering the replies you've been posting. I actually do know what love is, because I've been in a happy longterm relationship. Superficial-based relationships that ignore personalities tend to lead to break-ups, divorces, etc.

Uh huh.. ye.. that's why you see girls that get abused, the majority of them stay and not leave. Why.. Because they 1. They can't due to some financial problems. 2. Stupid, saying she loves the dumbass and shiet. 3. Just loves being abused but then go and bietches about it.

What are you, 5? OCCASIONALLY it might be due to financial problems. If it's because the girl is stupid, well she might see a good side to the guy and hope that she changes and she might still be clinging to the happy times that they had. Sometimes what they feel goes beyond physical conditions, and emotions take over. Yes, that may seem stupid, but it's because that girl cares about the guy so much. It's difficult. I know because my friend's friend stuck with a guy who physically abused her because she really cared about him, that she ignored his beatings. Yea it may seem stupid, but you haven't actually BEEN in such a relationship, so how can you judge? Dude, no one likes being abused. Except maybe dominatrix people, but that's a totally different story.

As for as looks go, yes i do consider myself 7-8 or just above average. Yes, the girl has to meet my expectations for me to even look at her, nothing more. I understand personality is important, don't get me wrong, i need somebody with a personality too, not an animated object. Looks go a long way. 2 people can then form each other's personality that they like once they spend enough time together.

Well, everyone rates others differently. I mean you might rate yourself a 7-8, but to someone else you might be a 5-6 *cough*, so then if you like a girl who you'd rate a 7-8, then that someone else might rate that girl a 5-6. That's if, hypothetically speaking, the girl is exactly compatible with you in terms of appearance rating.

*Throw a note that say... go to the girl's locker room and go read the thread "SLUT"*

What are you, like, 5?

nguoicasison, you haven't been here long enough to call Jeanna a slut.

You're probably the most shallow and immature person I've ever met. Shut up and "get on my level".
(That was in honor of you Tung.)

lmao But it only sounds good when Tung says it cause he always curses. It's cool though.

[NoSex]

Guys=All about looks
Girls=All about feelings. But having good looks will give the boy the advantage against other guys.

What the f**k?

[icecreamisyummy]

there's like 10 of these topics in the boys locker room. lol

yea... why doesnt anyone do something about it.

[shoryuken]

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[brooklyneast05]

shut
the
hell
up
u
are
a
f**king
idiot

[shoryuken]

HAHAHAHAHA BROOKLYN!!


SIRRR YEZZ SIRRR!!! MAJOR PAYNE SIRRZZ

[Tung]

I haven't been around the passed couple of weeks, to know what is going on here. But from this post, Nguoicasison, you are a disgrace to all Viets. Fuck outta here dipshit.

[shoryuken]

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[Tung]

Are you like the Asian version of Rico? Or are you Rico himself?

[S-Majere]

I liked Rico.

I'm not sure there's a fixed answer to the looks vs personality question: sometimes a gorgeous personality makes someone more attractive than they really are.

But for that spark to be there, I think you've got to have both aspects.

[Uronacid]

Looks are important. If you aren't attractive then I don't want to be in a relationship with you. Life's not a fairytail.

[Just_Dream]

How do i know..? I just do. Most people on here or out there have decent looking partner, that's how i know. Most of them would go as far as showing their partner off in public. The guys are the ones who do it the most, like they're shiet. I just laugh inside when they walk by with their girl and their girl stares at me and then they stare at me with the cocky look.. I'm saying to myself".. Hahaha have fun showing off with that girl.."

Maybe it's where you live, but I don't know many people or even see many people that constantly show off who they're with. Different people have different perspectives.

Whoa whoa there.. Did i say anything about my girl being rude to my family members? I said to people in public.. Nuff said. Yes i will lay down the law if she goes overboard to the ppl in public. Most guys would show off their partner to their friends, but i'm completely opposite, because of what happened between 2 buddies of mine.

You said you didn't care about personality. You can't have one or the other. You can't say "oh she has a disgusting personality but I don't care" then take it back and say "Oh but I don't want her rude to people in public." What if she was a hottie (in your eyes) and she had a disgusting personality where she was rude to everyone? You'll lay down the law? Then she'll just leave you. Oh but then you'd be missing out because you'd lose someone compatible in looks with yourself. You did say "but being rude to other ppl and other crap don't bother me at all", right? Even if you supposively "lay down the law" the girl will think you're trying to change her, but really you shouldn't be trying to change her if that's how her personality is. If you do, then that means you do care about personality. And what about your two friends? If you want a girl who's compatible with you in appearance ONLY, don't you want her because you want to show off? It seems so from what you've replied. You're going to say "oh yea I don't care what other people think", but obviously you do when you take into consideration how others compliment you.

Hmm.. Telling you i've been in love is a hard thing to describe. I'm sure each of us has a different description of love. I was in love when i was 17, and it's something i don't want to be in EVER AGAIN!! Atleast not until i'm ready to settle down.

Yes each of us do have different descriptions of what love is, but you can't deny other people from thinking they are in love. But then again you don't even care about love. So really, even if the girl you dated was in love with someone else, you wouldn't care, as long as you're dating her and she's attractive in your eyes? Since you don't care about personality or don't want to be in love at all.

I don't think i called her a SLUT, i just said go to the "Slut" thread and read the things i said about girls. Maybe i should be more specific instead of saying going to slut thread. I should say.. Go to the "GoldDigger" thread? But too bad we don't have one.

And here you say to Jeanna "That's why you fall for all the stupid boys who want to get inside you, same with the rest of the girls." It seems you are implying that she's slutty, since the guys only date her to get inside of her. You might not have said it, but you implied it, strongly. And yes you should be more specific, otherwise people are going to take your words and twist them, and then you'll look like a dumbass.
12 types of girls - talks about stereotypes, mentions gold digger
Have You Ever Dated Someone Just For Money?
Obviously you didn't use the search form (correctly).

Nope! I don't rate myself differently than other ppl. I've been told by strangers and friends and girls. What other proof do i need? I will know when a girl is compatible in term of looks, not hard at all. I have eyes and so does she. If you want to hear an example.. O ye, i know when a girl is up to no good when she tries to do something such as have me as a rebound. I can see shiets like that a MILE AWAY.

You never know. Think about it. You only care about looks. Why should you care about her being on the rebound? How can you see it a mile away? What if you randomly met her and she said nothing about her ex-boyfriend and then you two dated? How the heck can you see that a mile away (figuratively)? Also, being on the rebound isn't necessarily a bad thing, either. As for not rating yourself differently.. lmao then you don't want to know what I'd rate you! And plus, why would your friend give you a bad rating? They probably don't want to hurt your feelings or don't have high expectations, if you know what I mean. If I gave you a really superficial rating, you wouldn't want to know. That's why I say different people will give you different ratings. If you ask someone who's hotter than you, they might give you a more superficial rating. Don't ask someone who is not as "attractive" as you, because they might rate you higher than others. And like I said, that's being really superficial, if you wanted to know.

Now even if he's joking or not, i'm pretty sure he meant what he said. If you would like to hear more examples, i'd be happy to list them down. I understand guys like me will be single for a longass time, but hey, it's the risk i'm willing to take.

I don't even rate myself as pretty/hot or any of that crap, but I do get comments. I get them often, yes. But I don't believe every one of them. I'm not the kind of person that gloats about being a 7-8 (thanks Sean ). I don't want to hear any more examples because I couldn't care less what some stranger (who's probably older than you) says to you. I could return your stories with mines, but that doesn't strengthen either of our arguments online now, does it?

Tung - He makes me ashamed to be Vietnamese.

Uronacid - yea I also think looks are important. I think we're all superficial in some sense, whether in current, past, or will be future relationships (future for the newbies who haven't had a boyfriend yet.. Yea you, Yanlin!) But this viet foo is saying that he doesn't care about personality, which sounds totally bogus.

[Tung]

Dude, I'm Viet, and I know to acknowledge a good looking Viet dude when I see one. I've seen your photos and you are clearly not even a 5. Please don't set your standards higher than you are. A 5 and below person, should only have standards of other girls who are also 5 and below. So shut the fuck up.

nguoicasison, you haven't been here long enough to call Jeanna a slut.

You're probably the most shallow and immature person I've ever met. Shut up and "get on my level".
(That was in honor of you Tung.)

OMG! LMAO. I love you Olivia LOL.

[livwho]

I was going to say the same to you when you made that thread... Any takers...? Disgrace..? HAH! More like i'm representing. You on the other hand..

Tung was kidding. You honestly believe what you say matters.



It doesn't.

[transcendentalis...]

Dude, I'm Viet, and I know to acknowledge a good looking Viet dude when I see one. I've seen your photos and you are clearly not even a 5. Please don't set your standards higher than you are. A 5 and below person, should only have standards of other girls who are also 5 and below.

thank you tung - and christina :)

[misoshiru]

I liked Rico.

Rico is/was a pedo though.

Dude, I'm Viet, and I know to acknowledge a good looking Viet dude when I see one. I've seen your photos and you are clearly not even a 5. Please don't set your standards higher than you are. A 5 and below person, should only have standards of other girls who are also 5 and below. So shut the fuck up.
OMG! LMAO. I love you Olivia LOL.

tung, PIX NAO.




nguoi, aren't you this 41 year old pedo? mid-life crisis anyone?

[Just_Dream]

Rico is/was a pedo though.
tung, PIX NAO.
nguoi, aren't you this 41 year old pedo? mid-life crisis anyone?

You haven't seen it, Yanlin? He posted it before, but removed them. It's cool - I still remember what it looks like. Well, it's nothing much to look at, imo. Just imagine an average looking viet guy who took like 4 pictures of himself int he same pose, with like a slightly different angle each time.

Even I would rate Tung much higher than that guy. But that's just me being shallow. Crap, I'm actually sacrificing my dignity by saying that.

[shoryuken]

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[icecreamisyummy]

ive dated only 2-3 goodlooking guys the rest are not so goodlooking. my ex isnt goodlooking, but his personality was 4 yrs ago, now that i know him he's ugly in and out

ive decided to stick to good looking guys though. so my next bf shall be 7-9.

[Just_Dream]

BTW:Just Dream:... Em Thich Anh Phai Khong?

What? If it means what I think it does and it's directed towards me and you, then the answer is no.

Wait what do you mean by a mile? That doesn't make any sense. Do you mean you've got them beat by a mile? We all have different standards, but to think so highly of yourself is laughable. Anyway as for your pictures, well why were they small in the first place? If you took them from a camera, they should've been big. If it's from a webcam, before you take the picture, you can change the settings to larger dimensions. As for posting your pictures - no one cares if they're really small, unless you're covering your face. You posted them and removed them quickly and never really posted them again. Why is that? I mean, I'm sure you'd think you'd get tons of compliments from others anyways, mr. "7-8"

Are you saying that we aren't on topic? I think I was clearly on topic because if you're apparently on topic with your replies, I'm just replying to your replies. Think about it.

[shadowfax]

Haha, this thread is definitely amusing.

The person has to be attractive to my eyes, but I'm not really a picky person.

[EddieV]

^ Agreed

[Just_Dream]

^ Agreed

Same. Plus, I think that as you get to know that person more (or date them longer), they become more and more attractive. :]

[EddieV]

mmhmm.

[Tung]

Even I would rate Tung much higher than that guy. But that's just me being shallow. Crap, I'm actually sacrificing my dignity by saying that.

Omg Christina. That is the nicest thing you've ever said about me. I'm going to cherish this forever. Especially coming from you, since you're always harsh on me, and have high standards, and impeccable, this is something really meaningful.

[*jeanna*]

wow i missed all this.

when the hell did rico morph into that guy?

[Just_Dream]

Omg Christina. That is the nicest thing you've ever said about me. I'm going to cherish this forever. Especially coming from you, since you're always harsh on me, and have high standards, and impeccable, this is something really meaningful.

Shit. That's why I can't believe I sacrificed my dignity by saying that.

Moving on.




Lykz omgz I dun kair abowtz personalitay. Meeh just kare only bowt lookz. Ey - iph mah boy dun show respect, meeh will lay down da LAW! Bitchslapz that foo! FO SHO.

[livwho]

It never occured to many how many asses there are on cB. *sigh*

So sad.

[Laughsalot]

yea looks matter to me. if he's average and up is only what i like. anything below average is a no. taller than me, clean, and has an ass bigger than me is the least. i can't imagine myself with a guy whose ass is smaller than mine.

[shoryuken]

yuu

[Laughsalot]

my standards aren't high. i just finished reading this whole topic. if you mean that my standards are the highest in this topic then yea sure. but cleanliness, tallness, and fatter than me aren't so high. well those are the least of the qualities i would like. and i can easily find a guy like that in europe . hey were you born in vietnam and then moved to an english speaking country? just wondering.

[shoryuken]

sthuu

[xXMomoBubbleTeaX...]

I think looks matter alot because you can't not be physically attracted to someone and love them. It just doesn't work. I think the physical attraction draw a person near && then the personaility keeps the person staying in the relationship. I know it's harsh, but it's the truth.

[TaintedSakura]

They are not the most important thing for me but they matter... I mean everyone cares atleast a little bit...

[*jeanna*]

They are not the most important thing for me but they matter... I mean everyone cares atleast a little bit...

yeah and if your whole relationship is based on looks, you shouldn't even be in one.

[DoubleJ]

Looks aren't too important, heart is.

[Just_Dream]

Looks aren't too important, heart is.

lmao I thought you were going to mention sex. Like, "Looks aren't too important. As long as there's great sex."


I see you in a different light now!

[DoubleJ]

lmao I thought you were going to mention sex. Like, "Looks aren't too important. As long as there's great sex."
I see you in a different light now!

HAHA- Hey it's not always about sex with me!

[Smilessss]

Looks ARE important but however its not the only looks its also their personality that counts the most *n.n* but i go for personality more than the looks though. ever heard of this quote "Never judge a book by its cover unless you read the inside of it"?

[captivatedheart]

looks aren't too important. cause i know damn sure that most people look uglier (physically) to me when their personality is ugly. i don't want to be with some nice looking person if they keep cheating, acting immature, etc. but i gotta be physically attracted to them too.

plus i don't wanna be with someone really attractive if i know people are gonna be thinking "how the hell did that girl get with that guy?" it'll make me super sad inside =(

[Just_Dream]

plus i don't wanna be with someone really attractive if i know people are gonna be thinking "how the hell did that girl get with that guy?" it'll make me super sad inside =(

I know a girl who's probably around my kind of rating --- me and her are both I guess slightly above average looking, in my point of view. But anyways, she used to date this guy who was pretty hot. I mean sure he was hot looking (haha even I thought he was hot and he was Japanese too!), but she did really like him and it goes to show that guys aren't always really superficial. And a girl doesn't have to be hot to get a hot guy. And at times I was like "damn how'd you snag such a hot guy?" She's like "idk >_<"" Haha =X

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[Insurmountable]

I remember when I was an immature and use to believe that looks never mattered, but yea its not true. I have to be attracted to them so they better look pretty damn good in my book at least. I don't really rate it by numbers or anything that just sounds stupid and that your only looking at them as an object and putting it on a scale.

To be in a relationship with someone you have to be attracted to them, end of story.

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[S-Majere]

nguoicasison, I'd like to nominate my other half as one of the ten/billion

Have you ever posted a picture of yourself in Member's Photos?

[Insurmountable]

^No I don't think he has, in his cute/hot girl topic he said if someone made a hot boy topic he would post his picture..

Lets make one. Josh is first XD

^ 100% AGREE!! But lately, i've been feeling like a sucker for nice girls, don't know why. I said somewhere about i'm not all about looks in this thread somewhere, but bleh.

I've been losing interest in the opposite sex lately too, not sure why. Maybe i'm turning gay or something, when i see a pretty/hot girl walks by me i'd stare and doesn't really care much. Like i'll stare then walk away like... Bleh, hot i guess. It's like i just saw an average person walks by nothing else. Doesn't make me go all Oohh Laa la or anything.

On the other hand, i'm more into, work, friends, school and other craps. Is this even normal? Or is my sex drive dying..? LMAO!!

I think your fine, sometimes people just hit that time in their life when their not concerned about certain things. You'll get out of it eventually its nothing to worry about. Most things that happen to anyone are pretty normal and nothing to worry about ;]

oh if it doesn't come back within the next year or a few months after...I would suggest worrying at that point xD

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[S-Majere]

^No I don't think he has, in his cute/hot girl topic he said if someone made a hot boy topic he would post his picture..

Lets make one. Josh is first XD

Muahaha, agreed.

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[deplorable]

looks not important at all. i appreciate everyones being... male or female, regardless of appearance.
i was born with lymphangioma and have had about 18 surgeries in my lifetime. now that i am finally getting some selfconfidence, i know that i would never ever ever want anyone to feel the way i felt most of my life.
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but just the same i think phil is effing hot. ;)

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[deplorable]

no for sure. looks are needed. i mean, you cant be looking deeply into someones eyes and be thinkingmy god, this person looks deformed"
all im saying is that looks is never what comes first.

by the way, dispite the surgeries, im still hot. ;)

[Just_Dream]

Around your kind of rating? Slightly above..? Datz bunch of cow BS. Show me a pic of that girl and i get bet you she's 4-5 heck even may be 3. You're a 4-5 max, no more higher.

Haha says a guy who rates himself 7-8. You're a 3 in my book anyway. If you're so great, post pictures. Oh, no time? Obviously you have time to post, when it's very easy to take a picture. Or do you not have a camera?

Anyways, how can you say "oh girls care about feelings, but guys don't."And then you say a hot girl doesn't even phase you? You're being inconsistent.

Honestly, I never said looks are not important. Merely that looks are not the only factor, although it is true that they partake in the instant of attraction. Do keep up, won't you? You post threads asking about this and that, then you say only people ages 19-25 would know about how it feels to be dumped based on looks. That's not the case. You wouldn't know, since you're not even 19 yet. So don't act like you know and then isolate yourself from your "statistics."

[DoubleJ]

I just realized something because I was bored:
How important IS looks to you...LMAO

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