Do I Have A Chance?, just want some opinions.. |
 Nov 21 2007, 06:08 AM
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So this guy and I have been dating for a year now. I think we're a good match.
Last year he met a girl five years younger than him and he seems to be talking to her more than me. I'm really scared that he might be interested in her instead and dump me..She is a very pretty and tall girl and it makes me feel like crap. I know that hes with me and I shouldn't be jealous but I am. But sometimes he will make time..OUR TIME..and talk to this girl. I feel like we have such good chemistry but maybe I am lying to myself. What are your thoughts? Do I have the right to be angry? What should I do? |
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Nov 21 2007, 11:11 AM
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If this bothers you, talk to your boyfriend. Communication is the key. I personally would be irritated and yes, jealous if my boyfriend talks to another girl more than he talks to me.
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Nov 21 2007, 11:38 AM
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 ^ dgratie.deviantart.com Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 592,675 |
If I were you I'd be concerned how he met this other girl. Does he know that you know about her? Have you ever told him how you feel about him seeing/talking to her? I wouldn't think much of it if he knew her before you. If he just started talking to her, I hate to say but he could be out looking for something else.
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Nov 21 2007, 02:28 PM
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 RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
QUOTE(stacygreen @ Nov 21 2007, 06:08 AM)  So this guy and I have been dating for a year now. I think we're a good match. Last year he met a girl five years younger than him and he seems to be talking to her more than me. I'm really scared that he might be interested in her instead and dump me..She is a very pretty and tall girl and it makes me feel like crap. I know that hes with me and I shouldn't be jealous but I am. But sometimes he will make time..OUR TIME..and talk to this girl. I feel like we have such good chemistry but maybe I am lying to myself. What are your thoughts? Do I have the right to be angry? What should I do? Game over. Talk to him about it, but chances are, there's something going on, I have yet to meet a guy who talks to a girl on a continual bases...who has no intentions of trying to be with her. I pulled this same shit a long time ago, and I ended up cheating on my girlfriend with this other girl, and immediately telling my girlfriend about it, half because I felt bad, and half because I subconsciously wanted her to break up with me...we tried to work things out, and 3months later, here's where we are now, broken up, and I'm dating around with the other girl...looking back on it...could have saved myself 3months of drama and pain. |
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Nov 21 2007, 02:32 PM
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QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Nov 21 2007, 02:28 PM) Game over. Talk to him about it, but chances are, there's something going on, I have yet to meet a guy who talks to a girl on a continual bases...who has no intentions of trying to be with her. umm... my best friend is a guy. we talk pretty much 24/7 which did cause a lot of problems with me and my ex. my best friend does not like me. theres nothing goign on between us. and he has no intentions. we've been best friends since 10th grade and we are both out of high school so therefor it is possible for that to happen. |
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Nov 21 2007, 02:48 PM
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QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Nov 21 2007, 01:28 PM) Talk to him about it, but chances are, there's something going on, I have yet to meet a guy who talks to a girl on a continual bases...who has no intentions of trying to be with her. Uhm, you just did. One of my best friends happens to be a female. I have no romantic intention with her at all. I spend most of my days with her. What's up? |
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Nov 22 2007, 02:53 AM
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Talk to him and ask what's going on and if he doesn't wanna talk about it or ignores the conversation then you're better off with someone else cause there's obviously something going on
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Nov 28 2007, 10:54 AM
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He probably considers you as a friend, or someone he thinks he can get stuff from. I mean alot of girls don't want to hear it, but their are guys who are nice out there and only act a certain way to get something
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Nov 28 2007, 11:56 AM
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idkkk. maybe find out what they talk about. if it flirty then watch out
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