"Slut"., hmmm Options

[vehvih]

Do they bother you?
Are you disgusted by them?
Have you been called one?
How do you DEFINE the word slut?


Yes, I am sexual active. And no, I do not call myself a slut. And yeah, I don't a boyfriend. And yeah, it bothers me whenever girls call each other slut.. the terminology 'slut' has been defined like, over and over again.. mainly for the purpose of keeping the damn fundamentals on how women should be.

Well basically, I want to point out using the terminology 'slut' downgrades women, you don't have to be a boy to downgrade women because if you believe so I would slap the fck out of you. And it bothers the hell out of me a girl can be called a slut if sexual active when she doesn't have a boyfriend, but it's ok for a boy to be so because he's a boy. I've three girl friends who have gone pregnant, and don't you even dare call them sluts, and they have been because of that.

Now here's the real question:

How do you suppose to call a girl a slut if you don't really know how they are sexually active?
Are you going to change the way you treat a girl if you believe she's a 'slut' when she doesn't have sex with you?
Are you going to let your own personal beliefs affect some other people when they have nothing to do with you?

DISCUSS!

This topic's purpose is to widen girls AND boys knowledge about women, and to stop sexism AND generalizations. I hope it works..

[*jeanna*]

nah no one expects me to be a slut because i'm not overly tanned, wear clothes too small for me, have bleached hair or can be contacted by checking out your local penis.

nah generalizations aren't going to stop, ever [by first glance]. it's like, are you going to say someone isn't gangster who are wearing over sized clothes and a tilted hat? every genre of person is going to show.

[StandardEdition]

I can't say thatI am disgusted by them but they do bother me alittle. I mean its fine with me to be sexually active but theres a fine line that and bein a hoe. How I define slut: I feel that slut is a teenage HS kinda thing so I define it by being the one gets passed around from boy to boy in hs. Or possibly a girly who a new bf every two seconds [it depends on this one tho.].

[breakingdawn]

3. slut

A derogatory term.

Refers to a sexually promiscuous person, usually female.

One who engages in sexual activity with a large number of persons, occasionally simultaneously.

Also refers to one who engages in sexual activity outside of a long-term relationship within the duration of said relationship.

These sexual activities include but are not limited to: passionate kissing, manual stimulation of genitalia and/or breasts in the case of a female; oral stimulation of these parts; sexual intercourse.

In some cases, used to refer to a woman who is wearing "skimpy" or tasteless clothing.

Less commonly, used as a derogatory term by one female for another during periods of conflict.

Synonyms: whore, tramp. Derivations: slutty (adj.), sluttier/sluttiest (superlatives). Related Adjectives: easy; immoral; loose; cheap.

"That slut has slept with every man in this room!"

"That girl is such a slut--I can't believe that she cheated on her boyfriend with his best friend!"

"Look at that slut in her mini-skirt! She is not wearing any underwear!"

"I don't want to talk to her! I hate that slut!"

"That slut is easy like Sunday morning."

[vehvih]

One of my friends said: In order to figure out who are the real gangsters, they're the ones who don't really sag like a bitch just so they can run away from the cops if ever.

Ahhaa.

ANYWAY.

No, I don't judge anyone by how they dress at all. And I can say I am a dynamic person because I've been and can be with different kinds of people -one reason why I got open minded.\

And it just PISSES the f**k out of me a girl looses respect by wearing supposedly skimpy clothes. Not all women dress to be f**ked! Some of them think they're clothes are beautiful or whatnot.

[StandardEdition]

One of my friends said: In order to figure out who are the real gangsters, they're the ones who don't really sag like a bitch just so they can run away from the cops if ever.

Ahhaa.

ANYWAY.

No, I don't judge anyone by how they dress at all. And I can say I am a dynamic person because I've been and can be with different kinds of people -one reason why I got open minded.\

And it just PISSES the f**k out of me a girl looses respect by wearing supposedly skimpy clothes. Not all women dress to be f**ked! Some of them think they're clothes are beautiful or whatnot.

you shouldn't let it get to you. If someone calls you a slut just b like you don't no me biyotch!
lol.

[vehvih]

I can't say thatI am disgusted by them but they do bother me alittle. I mean its fine with me to be sexually active but theres a fine line that and bein a hoe. How I define slut: I feel that slut is a teenage HS kinda thing so I define it by being the one gets passed around from boy to boy in hs. Or possibly a girly who a new bf every two seconds [it depends on this one tho.].

Hmmm.
Yep, and it bothers other people that girls can be 'players' therefore call them sluts because they feel those girls aren't into serious terms when they're CHICKS.

[vehvih]

you shouldn't let it get to you. If someone calls you a slut just b like you don't no me biyotch!
lol.

I never let it go. I'm just one of those people who hates I mean HATE sexism.

[icecreamisyummy]

ok my best friend said its not how many guys youve f**ked but how often . for example, i f**k one guy today and then 2 weeks later a different guy and then a week later back to the guy from today and then 2 weeks later a completely idfferent one. did that make sense?

[StandardEdition]

Hmmm.
Yep, and it bothers other people that girls can be 'players' therefore call them sluts because they feel those girls aren't into serious terms when they're CHICKS.

Well that just gives us every reason to call guys sluts

[livwho]

I don't mind the word "slut" but an actual "slut" kind of disgusts me a little.

I call people whores all the time, jokingly of course.

[vehvih]

Yes, so, you would call her that term slut or a sexual active person?

Reason for edit: fixed double post - Jc

[livwho]

Don't double post.

[StandardEdition]

ok my best friend said its not how many guys youve f**ked but how often . for example, i f**k one guy today and then 2 weeks later a different guy and then a week later back to the guy from today and then 2 weeks later a completely idfferent one. did that make sense?

no

[Smarmosaur]

the only reason i'd call somebody a slut is if they ARE kinda...slutty. like...i know some who do sleep around A LOT...i know a few who got prego. i call my friends sluts jokingly, but other than that, i wont say it unless i know the facts.

[icecreamisyummy]

okay basically he said youre a slut if you f*ck a certain number or guys in a short period of time.

[vehvih]

I wish you guys would discuss the other questions I prompted >.<

[StandardEdition]

How do you suppose to call a girl a slut if you don't really know how they are sexually active?
Well people shouldn't but people do, they have eyes and see what they want to see. They don't wanna know the details and they'll just write you off immediately from a glance.

Are you going to change the way you treat a girl if you believe she's a 'slut' when she doesn't have sex with you?

Well I'm not a guy but yeah in a sort metaphorical way.

Are you going to let your own personal beliefs affect some other people when they have nothing to do with you?

No. Why would I do that?

[icecreamisyummy]

i have never been called a slut.
they dont bother me if i dont know about it
and people are giving you their def. of a slut, so i dont see the prob

[Smarmosaur]

How do you suppose to call a girl a slut if you don't really know how they are sexually active?
see above answer.


Are you going to change the way you treat a girl if you believe she's a 'slut' when she doesn't have sex with you?
well i'm a girl but if i was lez, no.

Are you going to let your own personal beliefs affect some other people when they have nothing to do with you?
...i don't get how this question ties in with this.

Do they bother you?
the few real ones i know, yes.

Are you disgusted by them?
honestly, yes. >_<

Have you been called one?
jokingly

How do you DEFINE the word slut?
somebody who sleeps around...whether they have a boyfriend or not. i'm not saying screws a couple of guys a year...i mean full out doing different people every week.

[arghrawr]

No. They don't bother me. I'm not disgusted by them. Why should I be? Who am I to sit on a pedestal and turn up my nose at you because you get around a bit?
Yes. I have been called one because...Hell, I may be slighty out there.
I try not to use the word slut, therefore I have no definition to offer you. I guess it's just a girl who's promiscuous.
The girls at my school use the word slut when they're jealous of some girl for getting too friendly with a certain guy. "ZOMFG Did you see the way she touched him? She's such a slutttt."

[StandardEdition]

No. They don't bother me. I'm not disgusted by them. Why should I be? Who am I to sit on a pedestal and turn up my nose at you because you get around a bit?
Yes. I have been called one because...Hell, I may be slighty out there.
I try not to use the word slut, therefore I have no definition to offer you. I guess it's just a girl who's promiscuous.
The girls at my school use the word slut when they're jealous of some girl for getting too friendly with a certain guy. "ZOMFG Did you see the way she touched him? She's such a slutttt."

AHAHAHAH!

my bestie ashlee is like that.
its just hilarious wehn I go the mall with her and shes just like, SLUT!!

[shoryuken]

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[icecreamisyummy]

well i know theres a certain 14 yr old here at cB that is already sexually active. that scares me.

[gr00vyswordsman]

I feel that is just a term for very immature/ insecure people. I still get f**king pissed when i hear guys call a girl that...
Girls are very emotional. if a girl choses to be active with guy 2 thing must happen 1st....attraction, and feeling of connection/rapport.
She wants to take it to another level. SO, you f**king insecure nuts stop calling girl a slut or ill come slap you crazy

[arghrawr]

^x2 Lol. I try not to judge people just cause I know I'm not perfect and it pisses me off when people call me a slut for the tiniest reasons. There are a lot of sexually active 14 year olds in the world.

[shoryuken]

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[icecreamisyummy]

i odn thtink middle schoolers should be sexually active.

i'll admit, i lost ym virginity the summer between 9th and 10th grade (a month after my birthday). i didnt have sex again until this year ( i am now in college)

at the time i didnt see anythign wrong with it, but now when i hear about these kids having sex im like damn. im glad i wasnt sexually active in high school.

even now that i am , i wish i wasnt. its like a drug (not sayign im having sex with all the guys in my neighborhood lol just 1 guy)

I'm not hating on rap, but i do not like rap one bit. Friends turn on rap music.. I'll go.. TURN THAT SHIT OFF OR DOWN!! I like the people that rap about their struggles in life, i give them points for that, but the MOFOS that rap about banging a girl and having money this and that. That just shows America is f**ked in the head for paying musicians such as them soo much money.

AMEN TO THAT

[*jeanna*]

all i care is if they had sex or is having sex with my guy lol.

otherwise go on doing your whore game

[icecreamisyummy]

all i care is if they had sex or is having sex with my guy lol.

otherwise go on doing your whore game

well said

[MissFits]

A slut, to me, is a girl that sleeps around. If a girl is with a guy and cheats on him that's a slutty action.
I do believe there is a double standard between girl and guys, but what can you do about it? It just means more is expected out of girls, if you a feminist that should be good enough. Women are strong, we can handle it.

There is a 14 year old girl that is sleeping around with a bunch of guys I know. She is a slut. She just turned 14 and is trying to bump uglies with every guy in town. She would, if half of them didn't turn her down. There are sluts out there, if you don't like the term don't use it, but some girls are slutty.

[StandardEdition]

Looking at it from a psychological way, the girls who are mostly called sluts usually aren't the ones deserving of it and are usually broken inside. Most girls who are "slutty" have gone emotionally numb and just think of sex as a drug. Another way to get a good feeling.
but, it still doesn't mean you should use the term slut.

[shoryuken]

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[StandardEdition]

IT'S FUKING RARE TO FIND A GIRL AT THE AGE OF 20+ WHO'S A VIRGIN IN THESE DAYS AND AGE!!! GIRLS THESE DAYS ARE STUPID IN GENERAL.

lol i hate to say but they are.
theyll have sex just to be kool.
its like fine, go have sex and get herpes,
see whos kool then.
[despite that comment im not against sex]

[icecreamisyummy]

Who facking says you gotta lose your virginity after high school prom or before high school and shit..?

OoOOO, are you a virgin..?
WTF with all the dumbass questions from young teens. Who facking cares if they're virgin or not, leave them the fack alone. Once again, stereotype, media, and rap music.
IT'S FUKING RARE TO FIND A GIRL AT THE AGE OF 20+ WHO'S A VIRGIN IN THESE DAYS AND AGE!!! GIRLS THESE DAYS ARE STUPID IN GENERAL.
SPEAKING OF VIRGINITY.. I only go after girls who are virgins, and i'm pretty DAMN PROUD OF IT TOO!!

so are these girls under 20??

[shoryuken]

1

[StandardEdition]

*run over and JUMP HIGH FIVE, then do the shimmy shimmy * !!!
really don't matter, cuz they will be or they are anyway.

[shoryuken]

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[StandardEdition]

^ *stop dancing and run up on a tree and throw rocks at pureimagination*

heyy *throw rock back but misses*
DAMMIT!

[shoryuken]

3

[StandardEdition]

^ * nguoicasison do the shimmy shimmy dance on a tree while laughing at pureimagination.. IN YOUR FACE, DAT RITE*

*moon pureimagination*

AHHH MY EYES! *goes blind*

[icecreamisyummy]

if they are under 20 that means theyre stupid according to you, but hey that means theyre stupid for f8cking you.

poor girls

[shoryuken]

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[shoryuken]

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[*jeanna*]

^ *run back down and blow on pureimagination eyes to get dirt off her eyes, then apologize*

ok enough of that * * stuff.

you only go after virgins? you don't see that as hypocritical at all?..

[shoryuken]

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[StandardEdition]

^ *run back down and blow on pureimagination eyes to get dirt off her eyes, then apologize*

*smiles* thanx dood.

[icecreamisyummy]

you only go after virgins? you don't see that as hypocritical at all?..

THANK YOU! what i was trying to say

[StandardEdition]

ok enough of that * * stuff.

you only go after virgins? you don't see that as hypocritical at all?..

well some guys only go after blondes.
and some girls only go after guys who are tall & ripped.

[shoryuken]

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[*jeanna*]

I see it as going after some pure. I don't want to go after a cake that's been eaten by a bunch of hungry dirt bags.

and your penis isn't any different?

and seriously, that * * shit is annoying. if you're going to do it, PM eachother.

[StandardEdition]

^*hmm look at pureimagination.. seem like she's ok.. run back up to the tree and throw rocks at pureimagintion again... mwuahahah in your face, take that, and that.. and that!!*

Ahh it's hailing effing rox!! *runs into the woods.*

[StandardEdition]

and your penis isn't any different?

and seriously, that * * shit is annoying. if you're going to do it, PM eachother.

lol sry

[shoryuken]

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[icecreamisyummy]

^LOL,I'll admit i did some random hookups when i was 14 or 15 don't remember. Hey, we were young and our hormones were rdy to erupt just like a volcano. But now, a girl has to meet my requirements for me to have me. It's not hard at all for me to go out and find somebody and BAM n wam, but it's boring to me like that.

so you can't really call them dumb though.

[shoryuken]

Guys are different
Girls are different
Guys make out... not slut
Girls make out... slut


Fuk ye they're dumb.

[icecreamisyummy]

lmao so now theyre sluts if they make out? interesting

[*jeanna*]

Guys are different
Girls are different
Guys make out... not slut
Girls make out... slut
Fuk ye they're dumb.

i really hope you're kidding.

[shoryuken]

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[StandardEdition]

Guys are different
Girls are different
Guys make out... not slut
Girls make out... slut
Fuk ye they're dumb.

wait what

[icecreamisyummy]

lmao this just amazes me

[shoryuken]

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[*jeanna*]

lmao this just amazes me

if you look at this guy's other posts, it shouldn't really. he doesn't seem that intelligent and he is full of himself . so i wouldn't take anything he says to connect with anyone else.
***
i'm done.
IMO, in the end a girl is a slut if she has a lot of sex partners.

* * ** ** ** * *

[icecreamisyummy]

f**k THIS, i can't go on against tons of girls here.

*ahh run run run away*

hahahaha took ya a while to figure that one out

[gr00vyswordsman]

if you look at this guy's other posts, it shouldn't really. he doesn't seem that intelligent and he is full of himself . so i wouldn't take anything he says to connect with anyone else.
***
i'm done.
IMO, in the end a girl is a slut if she has a lot of sex partners.

* * ** ** ** * *

i think who ever came up with word should have been killed long ago lol...

[StandardEdition]

i think who ever came up with word should have been killed long ago lol...

????

[icecreamisyummy]

well u need something to describe that kind of act

[vehvih]

but, it still doesn't mean you should use the term slut.

And only one person has said that here.
REALLY now.

&like I don't even wanna argue at all anymore.. well here at least. I'm too lazy.

Maybe before you people die I hope you'd know the f**k I'm talking about.

That derogatory term is derivative from the thought of preserving the fundamental system of how woman supposedly should be. If they're not what they're supposed to be, then they're SLUTS. Hence SEXISM.

And if you don't know what the f**k I'm talking about, oh boy I'd love to punch you in the face.

[barbieeedollxo]

i define a slut as a girl who slepts around with alot of guys that she's not dating. i mean if you're dating the guy then i think its ok to sleep with them.
and yea i've been called a slut and i hate it.
and i normally don't call ppl sluts. i only call them one if they really are one.
like i know for sure they are then i will call them one.

[mal_err_eee]

all i care is if they had sex or is having sex with my guy lol.

otherwise go on doing your whore game

true that sista'.


we can be best friends, until you sit on my Trace Babys pelvic area

[*jeanna*]

i define a slut as a girl who slepts around with alot of guys that she's not dating. i mean if you're dating the guy then i think its ok to sleep with them.
and yea i've been called a slut and i hate it.
and i normally don't call ppl sluts. i only call them one if they really are one.
like i know for sure they are then i will call them one.

yeah. like if a girl you don't even know is rubbing up on a guy and is plastered, don't go up to her and call her a slut. i don't do that anyways but if it happens ALL THE TIME, then yes.

"
Maybe before you people die I hope you'd know the f**k I'm talking about.

That derogatory term is derivative from the thought of preserving the fundamental system of how woman supposedly should be. If they're not what they're supposed to be, then they're SLUTS. Hence SEXISM.

And if you don't know what the f**k I'm talking about, oh boy I'd love to punch you in the face."

oh please. that means you must be sleeping around or giving the impression to other people if you are completely guarded. who cares what other girls say then?

[S-Majere]

Are you going to let your own personal beliefs affect some other people when they have nothing to do with you?

Yeah, afraid so. I'm old fashioned in the view that girls are better off keeping their legs closed and not gaining a reputation. I'm not condoning sexual activity at all - but the moral side of sleeping with all and sundry just suggests little self respect and little regard for the sanctity of love or marriage.

We're not in such a society at the moment where girls that wear provocative things or sleep around are NOT judged.

[arghrawr]

Well there's been a nice amount of spam here...
I honestly don't care about being called a slut or not. The word means nothing to me. So many people define it as so many different things, but then they just use it as a derogotory term regardless of how they define it that the word has lost any meaning at all.

[icecreamisyummy]

"
Maybe before you people die I hope you'd know the f**k I'm talking about.

That derogatory term is derivative from the thought of preserving the fundamental system of how woman supposedly should be. If they're not what they're supposed to be, then they're SLUTS. Hence SEXISM.

And if you don't know what the f**k I'm talking about, oh boy I'd love to punch you in the face."

oh please. that means you must be sleeping around or giving the impression to other people if you are completely guarded. who cares what other girls say then?

agree with her ^^ thats what its coming off as. but hey we dont know you, so we cant really say anything. good luck with that though

[MissFits]

the word has lost any meaning at all.

I don't really agree. When you call a girl a slut they usually get offended. Not in every case, but, they get offended because they know it means they are sleeping around. Sure, girls shouldn't say because it shouldn't have to be said. No one should sleep around with a bunch of different people, because sex honestly does feel better when your in love. But, as long as girls are out there hoein' it up, I will continue to use the word "slut" to describe them.

[*jeanna*]

I don't really agree. When you call a girl a slut they usually get offended. Not in every case, but, they get offended because they know it means they are sleeping around. Sure, girls shouldn't say because it shouldn't have to be said. No one should sleep around with a bunch of different people, because sex honestly does feel better when your in love. But, as long as girls are out there hoein' it up, I will continue to use the word "slut" to describe them.

i dont hear that word that often. i normally use whore, [but i normally don't swear] so, lol. slut seems to sting more, idk.

if someone calls me a slut, they don't REALLY know what is being put between my legs. so why be THAT offended.

[MissFits]

But the girls I call sluts I REALLY know, and they know I know.
I wouldn't say it to a girl that gets drunk at a party and makes a mistake, but I would say it to a girl that makes the same mistake at every party I go to with different guys.

[LoveToMySilas]

People just call girls sluts based on the stereotypical stuff. Like if they wear revealing clothing or if they hang around a lot of guys. I'm not disgusted by them, I mean its none of my business what they do.

[emily055]

i think girls should just do whatever they want and not be called a slut. unless she sleeps with someones boyfriend. thennn...

[transcendentalis...]

How do you suppose to call a girl a slut if you don't really know how they are sexually active?

if you don't know, then don't say it and mean it. if you say it and don't mean it, then make sure they know.. i don't completely understand what this question is asking.

Are you going to change the way you treat a girl if you believe she's a 'slut' when she doesn't have sex with you?

can't really say, because i don't try to get girls to have sex with me.

however, when other people, even my close friends, tell me that a girl is a slut without justifying it, i'm not going to believe it. saying "she's skanky" doesn't work for me. however, if someone i know was really affected because some chick was sleeping around with her boyfriend and our friends, then ... yeah, i'd think she was a slut.

off the top of my head, i know two girls closely affiliated with some of my friends who've definitely slept around with a good number of my friends. for one girl, i hate her guts. the other one, not so much. it really just depends on the person.

also, i'm horribly biased like that because the girl i can't stand used one of my close friends for sex, threw him off, and then used my best friend for sex, and then used another one of my close friends again. she ruined a lot of close relationships for me for a couple months.

Are you going to let your own personal beliefs affect some other people when they have nothing to do with you?

theoretically, i try not to.
both girls that have gotten around have had everything to do with me and my relationships with others. one of my relationships isn't totally repaired still, so i guess you can say it affected other people... but since her sleeping around did have to do with me personally, i doubt that this applies to the question.

---

on the rare occasion when i get called a slut, whether jokingly or seriously, it doesn't bother me very much. i know i'm not, and the people whose opinions i care about know i'm not either. sure, i'll flirt with people because it's what i naturally do, but if you even start me talking about my boyfriend or if you know what's gone down between us even partially - it's obvious that i wouldn't be with anyone else.

[Call911Quick]

First off, there are male versions of sluts.

Man-whores
Pedophiles
Frat Boys

A slut is defined as a girl who:

- talks/dresses preppy
- has an orgy on her sweet 16
- has not been in a relationship for more than 2 months
- ***deliberately reveals genitals in public***
- does drugs (ecstasy, mainly)
- visits a club every other day
- goes binging one night, wakes up the next morning naked (often)
- high school dropouts

Now, about the ***. Don't talk to me about "freedom of expression" and how a girl can dress. If a girl doesn't wear underwear, and wears white v-necks and a miniskirt around, she's intentionally showing off her breasts/crotch. She's sending out a message. Either it's "I'm hot and you can't have me," or "Come and get some, I'm not busy tonight."

Both are considered sluts, even though the former doesn't sleep around. She is taunting others, and challenging other girls. Both are looked down upon, except by the slut's male counterparts.

[StandardEdition]

First off, there are male versions of sluts.

Man-whores
Pedophiles
Frat Boys

lolz
should peds rly b considered sluts?

i think you should add male strippers lol.
And playas, theyre sluts. They just got a snazzy name to cover it.

[MissFits]

A slut is defined as a girl who:

- talks/dresses preppy
- has an orgy on her sweet 16
- has not been in a relationship for more than 2 months
- ***deliberately reveals genitals in public***
- does drugs (ecstasy, mainly)
- visits a club every other day
- goes binging one night, wakes up the next morning naked (often)
- high school dropouts

Some of these things have NOTHING to do with being a slut. I've done ecstasy and plenty of other drugs but I have only had sex with two people. One of whom I dated for 3 years before we had sex, and the other one I am marrying. Being a High School dropout? Are you serious? I finished High School but I know plenty of people that didn't. Are they out hoein' it up? NO! They are going to get their GED. And, finally, just because someone dresses "preppy" doesn't mean they are a whore (although in my experience a lot of them are) It's not fair to judge ALL of the rich kids by the actions SOME of the rich kids take.

[StandardEdition]

Some of these things have NOTHING to do with being a slut. I've done ecstasy and plenty of other drugs but I have only had sex with two people. One of whom I dated for 3 years before we had sex, and the other one I am marrying. Being a High School dropout? Are you serious? I finished High School but I know plenty of people that didn't. Are they out hoein' it up? NO! They are going to get their GED. And, finally, just because someone dresses "preppy" doesn't mean they are a whore (although in my experience a lot of them are) It's not fair to judge ALL of the rich kids by the actions SOME of the rich kids take.

yeah thats profiling
or labeling rly

[*jeanna*]

yeah thats profiling
or labeling rly

who doesn't label someone when they are teens or something. everyone does.

[StandardEdition]

who doesn't label someone when they are teens or something. everyone does.

i kno im guilty.
But labeling is BAD MMK?

[*jeanna*]

i kno im guilty.
But labeling is BAD MMK?

doesnt mean no one does it, ever

"
- has not been in a relationship for more than 2 months"
damnnit lol

[Kay-]

LOL i duno you guys make it seem like a big deal.
People just call people sluts because they think their shirts too low or small or even if they just flunt themselves around other boys.
The word slut is used in everyday life with girls so i don't think it's a big deal. And if you do then you should get used to it because girls are nasty little creatures and will do anything to make you feel uncomfortable and get under your skin. Just don't think about it =]

[barbieeedollxo]

like why do they do it? i mean is it because they just hate them? or bc they're jealous
cause there's this chick at my school calling me a whore but yet she's the one who was preg. and has a kid and couldn't even figure out who the daddy is..and she still isn't sure about it. and yet she's tryin to call me a whore
i just don't understand why they call ppl whores..

[xtwitchyx]

Well, maybe she's having trouble admitting to herself that she is one. That's why she is busy calling you one instead. Then the attention of who the whore is, isn't focused on just her.

[coconutter]

I know that when I seriously call a girl a whore, she either is one, or I'm jealous.

[barbieeedollxo]

like with me the only time i have called a girl was when she was one.
but i don't see why when they are the ones out being whores why they call other ppl a whore

[*jeanna*]

look in the 'slut' thread

[toxicity584]

Because.

[Sandraaa]

Did she say it jokingly or was she serious?

Topics merged

[livwho]

This topic is getting on my nerves...

[audory]

yeah, I've been called slut/whore/whatever before
and the fact that someone's name-calling doesn't really phase me
but it's the mindset behind it which bothers me.
for example, i hooked up with this one guy at a party and both of us were single, both of us had fun, and we both partook in the same level of sexual activity that night (won't go into details here..hahah). but for some reason (generalization/stereotyping/sexism, whatever you call it), only I was called a whore and he got away with pats on the back and people calling him a pimp, which really isn't fair, considering we were both on level playing fields and neither of us acted "sluttier" than the other. only difference? gender.
now if we were both called whores or whatever, then I wouldn't be complaining

as for my definition?
I don't have one.
or actually...
someone who doesn't mind having some FUN and getting some ASS while they're at it!
so go ahead and call me a sluuttt(:

[Jthotlipz]

I think in order to be a SLUT u have to conduct yourself as one.. if u have sex with your partner and one partner i dont think its trashy.. but if u have a different partner every day or everyother week it looks trashy...

[StandardEdition]

I dont know why but this topic feels hella old to me.