pls help i don't know if he wants to be with me or not... |
 Nov 9 2007, 06:26 AM
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 shboom =]  Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693  |
i just started dating this guy
and he's like acting like he's hiding me from everybody.like he put me as his number one on myspace and stuff then after i saw it he went back and changed it and took me completing off his top and that rly pisses me off.. like it makes me feel like he's hiding something and like i had changed my name and it said so and so's baby and he wanted me to change it so i mean doesn't that seem like he's hiding something?? or doesn't want ppl to know he's dating me? |
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Nov 9 2007, 10:44 AM
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maybe he likes someone else? and he doesn't want to show the person he likes that he has a g/f?
he's def hiding something, otherwise he's not all into announcing to the public that he's in a relationship. some guys are like that too. |
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Nov 9 2007, 11:30 AM
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You're upset because he took you off his top friends on Myspace?
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Nov 9 2007, 12:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 283 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 499,850 |
Moron.
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Nov 9 2007, 12:29 PM
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rofl, am i the only one who's gonna' admit i would be a little like, ' wtf ' if they took me off top-8.
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| *Steven* |
Nov 9 2007, 12:34 PM
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I would too if it were a new relationship, assuming he/she was acting/being happy about dating me. IMO just discuss it with him.
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Nov 9 2007, 12:35 PM
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QUOTE(Steven @ Nov 9 2007, 12:34 PM)  I would too if it were a new relationship, assuming he/she was acting/being happy about dating me. IMO just discuss it with him. rofl, the problem is, how do you discuss something like that with that person? "Yo, wtf mate?" |
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| *Steven* |
Nov 9 2007, 12:38 PM
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Okay I got this (from my speech classes rofl)
"Hello (name of boyfriend), it bothers me that I am no longer on your top 8. Before I misunderstand anything, could we discuss things? If this isn't a good time, could we set a time and date to talk it over? I'm just curious as to your motive, and I don't want to assume anything without knowing your side. For all I know, this could be a big misunderstanding. Thanks :)" BAM |
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Nov 9 2007, 12:41 PM
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 Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
You could simply ask, "are we cool?" Don't fret. Fretting is bad for your complexion.
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| *Steven* |
Nov 9 2007, 12:42 PM
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I like mine better.
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Nov 9 2007, 12:42 PM
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Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
QUOTE(Steven @ Nov 9 2007, 11:42 AM) I like mine better. Mine was more succinct. |
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| *jeanna* |
Nov 9 2007, 12:43 PM
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if he took you off his top 8 and said something about the name thing, he is either ashamed of you or doesn't like you/used you.
yeah yeah people can say, "it's just myspace" but not to younger people. it can make or break you |
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| *Steven* |
Nov 9 2007, 12:43 PM
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QUOTE(superstitious @ Nov 9 2007, 11:42 AM) Mine was more succinct. urs was |
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Nov 9 2007, 12:43 PM
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im still the only one who's admitted they'd be bothered!
I KNOW EVERYONE WOULD BE. YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE. ADMIT IT. -edit plus steven. |
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| *Steven* |
Nov 9 2007, 12:44 PM
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Whoa whoa, I thought I said I would be too? Lol I had a friend whose boyfriend put her like #3 on his top 8. The guy was a douche though and he got his ass dumped for not acting like a man rofl
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Nov 9 2007, 12:44 PM
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Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
QUOTE(Steven @ Nov 9 2007, 11:43 AM) urs was GRR. I can honestly say that it wouldn't bother me (not being in the top 8) |
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Nov 9 2007, 12:51 PM
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QUOTE(superstitious @ Nov 9 2007, 12:44 PM) GRR. I can honestly say that it wouldn't bother me (not being in the top 8) Well, I mean, what if you were number one, and all the sudden you're...not? [cue scary music] |
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| *jeanna* |
Nov 9 2007, 12:52 PM
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QUOTE(superstitious @ Nov 9 2007, 01:44 PM) GRR. I can honestly say that it wouldn't bother me (not being in the top 8) it doesn't bother me. my sister's friends gets so pissed if they aren't in a specific spot. she even tried to make everyone "happy" by saying, "no one in my top friends is in any particular order" butt kisser |
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Nov 9 2007, 04:53 PM
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shboom =] Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693 |
its not the fact that he took me off its the fact that he's acting like he doesn't want ppl to know about me that hurts me....
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Nov 9 2007, 05:52 PM
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how long have you seriously known this guy?
you're just going too fast; take a chill pill. give him a while. he's just the average teenage boy...just 'cause he's your current boyfriend doesn't mean he's your partner for life or whatever. |
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Nov 10 2007, 06:48 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Hes deffenetly hiding something. It might be that he doesent like you a lot anymore, hes ashamed to be dating you or becuase he likes someone and doesent want her to know hes already dating someone.
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Nov 12 2007, 11:59 AM
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shboom =] Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693 |
yea i don't know. i tried talking to him and he ignores me so the way i see it things are just over... so whatever. thanks for the advice tho. i think he lied to me from the beginning so im done. im tired of jerks.
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Nov 12 2007, 12:23 PM
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QUOTE(S-Majere @ Nov 9 2007, 10:30 AM) You're upset because he took you off his top friends on Myspace? Yeah, I mean come on... It's Myspace! |
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Nov 12 2007, 12:25 PM
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shboom =] Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693 |
QUOTE(xtwitchyx @ Nov 12 2007, 12:23 PM) Yeah, I mean come on... It's Myspace! like i said its not because of myspace its because he acts like he hiding me from everybody and doesn't want everybody to know |
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Nov 12 2007, 12:32 PM
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-i-twitch- Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 544,541 |
But... Does he do this when you guys are together in front of friends or whatever? Does he introduce you as nobody or what? Or have you not met anyone that he's friends with or related to?
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Nov 12 2007, 12:46 PM
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shboom =] Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693 |
QUOTE(xtwitchyx @ Nov 12 2007, 12:32 PM) But... Does he do this when you guys are together in front of friends or whatever? Does he introduce you as nobody or what? Or have you not met anyone that he's friends with or related to? i haven't met anyone thats wht im saying. and he hasn't told anybody. and he acts like he doesn't. |
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| *jeanna* |
Nov 12 2007, 01:58 PM
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QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Nov 12 2007, 01:46 PM) i haven't met anyone thats wht im saying. and he hasn't told anybody. and he acts like he doesn't. well there's your answer. if he acts like he doesn't know you then he doesn't want to be with you. unless he's all jumping on you in your bedroom |
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Nov 12 2007, 02:04 PM
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He could be trying to hide it but is he doing it in other places then on myspace??? Myspace isn't the world you know..
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Nov 12 2007, 03:15 PM
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-i-twitch- Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 544,541 |
Well then kick his ass to the curb and find someone nicer.
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Nov 13 2007, 01:27 PM
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shboom =] Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693 |
QUOTE(xtwitchyx @ Nov 12 2007, 03:15 PM) Well then kick his ass to the curb and find someone nicer. haha i did and he sent me a msg and was like what the hell what did i do wrong lol he knows good & well what he did wrong |
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