please help....i don't know how i can fix this... Options

[barbieeedollxo]

ok so this rly sweet caring guy asked me out and i rly like him alot..
but i've been hurt alot in the past so i told him no because im too afraid of getting hurt again but the more i thought about it the more i felt stupid.. i mean i told a sweet caring guy no and he rly likes me im just scared. so then i wrote him and told him and explained why i said no and told him that i was wiling to risk it and now he won't reply to my msgs and i know he read them..and im rly upset with myself and i don't know how i can make things better i feel rly stupid and im rly pissed off at myself for being a dumbass in the first place...
any suggestions on how i can get him to realize that i rly do like him and want to be with him??
please help me..

[Trinity54]

Ah the bitter sweet limbo that is love.

Well sounds a bit tough to say what you should do but if he does not awnser your messeges than take the fight to him., find him and maybe have a lunch or just talk at his place explain your feelings.

Give him the story on how you felt relationships in the past that ended in pain are hard to get pass trust me if he can not understand that you were afraid of taking another jump then he is not even worth it.

Now if you do not feel as if you should go to talk to him direct then wait a while if he really did like you then give him time some guys need to cool off if they get rejected.

In all I wish you luck in this problem I have been there a few times myself.

[superficial]

Talk to him face to face instead of messaging him.

[mytangerine]

^ AMEN.