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 Oct 24 2007, 11:45 PM
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 And in that moment.. I swear we were infinite  Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,367  |
Haha okay, so this is like the lamest thing I've ever done, but I need some advice.
I kind of met this boy a couple months ago, through a friend. We've only ever talked on the phone and on AIM because he lives an hour away from me, and my mom never let me drive over there to see him. Well, I'm finally gonna be able to hang out with him on Sunday and I'm nervous. I love his personality and everything about him, and I think there's a possibility that a relationship could happen in the future. Oh, and I'm planning on going to college in the city where he lives so we'd be super close, but that won't be happening until next year (I'm a senior right now). He jokingly said something about me "wooing" him while we hang out, lol. He said he's hard to impress with girls because he's never actually had a good girlfriend or anything. So my question is, how do I "woo" him? I know I know, just be myself blah blah blah. I know that. But what are some little things I could do to get him interested and to show that I'm not gonna be like every other girl? I don't wanna be all over him so he thinks I'm easy or something, but I don't wanna completely act uninterested so he backs off. This whole situation's new for me lol, because I've never really worried too much about how to act around someone. But I'm really nervous about this because I really wanna impress him  So.. any advice? Please and thank you 
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Oct 24 2007, 11:55 PM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
Umm.. Shouldn't he be the one impressing you?
I duno.. I just think it'd be better if you just stay the way you are now because that's the person he first started liking. |
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Oct 25 2007, 12:55 AM
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take it slow... soon the feelings will get stronger, and eventually you two will start flirting more and more. try to even out the feelings, don't let him like you more, or vice versa. if he truly likes you for who you are, he'll take the first initiative to impress you first. just being who you are will impress him the most, if he truly has feelings for you. just that when he does, make sure you do a little something back, so that the feelings are balanced. a guy like that wants to be spoon-fed. he's grown up like you, he should be a man and start taking the first step.
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Oct 26 2007, 07:34 PM
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And in that moment.. I swear we were infinite Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,367 |
Could someone please close this topic?
He turned into every other guy tonight. I don't need advice anymore. |
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Oct 26 2007, 07:35 PM
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QUOTE(lovesahoax @ Oct 27 2007, 02:34 AM)  Could someone please close this topic? He turned into every other guy tonight. I don't need advice anymore. |
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