People Change, Just thought I'd share my opinions |
 Oct 24 2007, 02:55 AM
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I have recently come to the realisation that people change and most of them for the worse. Its definitaly not easy to put up with and it something that everyone has to come to terms with eventually; That people do change and some of these changes are not good. Its hard to deal when people you have become extreamyl close to over the years change and those friendships start to fall apart or start slowly drifting away. I believe that if someone is strong about themselves and their personalities they dont have to fall into the temptation of being what others are or what others want you to be or what others think is 'cool'. I think that everyone is an individual and some people need to learn to stick by that. its really hurst to think that people change but a little tip for everyone
"People change and things go wrong but anways remember life goes on" I think sometimes I should stick by what adivse I give to others like that quote but its not alwyas easy. :) Melissa |
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Oct 24 2007, 09:40 AM
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but how do you know they change for the worse? what if they are actually bettering themselves, but they're only worsening in your eyes? and how do you know if a person is just following a crowd? what if that person honestly thinks and feels "that" way?
you're right; people do change. but sometimes we gotta let others do what they want in order to see what we really need. |
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Oct 24 2007, 10:11 AM
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 Sarcastic Mr. Know-It-All Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 29 |
How do you know it wasn't you who changed for the worse, you self centered bitch?
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Oct 24 2007, 10:16 AM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ Oct 24 2007, 11:11 AM)  How do you know it wasn't you who changed for the worse, you self centered bitch? 
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Oct 24 2007, 11:05 AM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Shut up.
Everyone changes. Including yourself. Not all changes are bad asswipe. |
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Oct 24 2007, 11:19 AM
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QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Oct 24 2007, 11:05 AM) Shut up. Everyone changes. Including yourself. Not all changes are bad asswipe. He didn't say it was bad, or am I missing something? |
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Oct 24 2007, 11:22 AM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
It's a she by the way. And her tone from her "speech", basically states that she doesn't like change and making it like its a bad thing.
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| *Steven* |
Oct 24 2007, 11:26 AM
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My bad. I thought you were responding to a response. I hadn't actually read the OP because I saw it as a boring wall of text.
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Oct 24 2007, 11:37 AM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
People don't change for the worse. Sometimes they just realize what's important to them at that moment.
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Oct 24 2007, 12:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 283 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 499,850 |
This is an online forum. Not Xanga, where you can rant about how you depressing and pathetic your f ucking life is. Now, go get a chair, a rope and do something with it.
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Oct 24 2007, 12:42 PM
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Eh, I think its like a 50/50 thing. Or maybe you just don't like change.
Or maybe you're the one that changed, orrrrr maybe you're just so used to your friends being a certain way, that when they do change, you just can't see it as a good thing even if it is. 
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| *Steven* |
Oct 24 2007, 01:31 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Oct 24 2007, 12:41 PM) This is an online forum. Not Xanga, where you can rant about how you depressing and pathetic your f ucking life is. Now, go get a chair, a rope and do something with it. Bondage? |
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Oct 24 2007, 01:43 PM
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 Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
 ....to what Seon Ho said..Anyway, it happens. You deal with it and move on. Its a 50/50 thing as I saw someone say as I was scrolling down o_O sometimes its bad and sometimes its good. If you still want to remain friends with them then great, continue that but you have to suck up the changes and look at it from a positive. >>>relationships. |
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