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 Jun 20 2004, 10:37 AM
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i wanna do thingsz withh this guy..but i havent exactly developed ontop yet.. nd im embarassedd.. whut shuldd i do?
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Jun 20 2004, 10:38 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
do things? don't u have a vagina?
 anyways, maybe that means your not mentally developed for this yet.... ehh and you shouldn't be in a relationship just for sex or w/e u ant boobs for |
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Jun 20 2004, 10:40 AM
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QUOTE do things? don't u have a vagina? yeahh but i dont necesarrily wanna go that far!
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Jun 20 2004, 10:42 AM
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kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
how old are you?
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Jun 20 2004, 10:43 AM
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13.. 14 in october
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Jun 20 2004, 10:47 AM
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kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
i think you should be in a relationship...because you like them....you wnat him to like touch you? ehh well I say stick with kissing for a while...
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Jun 20 2004, 10:49 AM
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You're 13?
Stuff cantalopes in your bras. That way your chest isn't as flat as a board. I mean, do you want that guy to be using it as a coffee table after s3><? Didn't think so. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jun 20 2004, 10:49 AM
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lol not necessarily but .. things happenn
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Jun 20 2004, 10:54 AM
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QUOTE(tinkerbell16 @ Jun 20 2004, 8:49 AM) lol not necessarily but .. things happenn So you mean, that guy uses your chest as a Coffee table already? - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jun 20 2004, 10:56 AM
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QUOTE i think you should be in a relationship...because you like them....you wnat him to like touch you? ehh well I say stick with kissing for a while... no i whuzz answeringg to that.. thingszz happenn sometimesz
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Jun 20 2004, 11:05 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
well maybe puberty hasnt reached you yet... either you forget doing stuff with him... or be paient and let them grow out!!!
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Jun 20 2004, 01:37 PM
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 Wow, i dont know whats going on... Group: Member Posts: 1,439 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,977 |
yeah its all up 2 u, if u want to thats your choice but u should wait till ur truly ready
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Jun 20 2004, 02:02 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols...dont ya think your a wee bit young to go fer all that touchy feelie stuffz??
lols...i agree with iheartsimba...maybe you should stick to kissing fer a while  x33 QuyEnNiEe |
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Jun 20 2004, 02:07 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Jun 20 2004, 1:02 PM) lols...dont ya think your a wee bit young to go fer all that touchy feelie stuffz?? lols...i agree with iheartsimba...maybe you should stick to kissing fer a while x33 QuyEnNiEe exactly maybe you should stick to kissing 
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Jun 20 2004, 02:18 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
13 is so .. young .. slow it down
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Jun 20 2004, 02:19 PM
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 Nymphetamine Girl Group: Member Posts: 206 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,433 |
Kissing is your best bet for right now..Starting early can lead to a lot of emotional pain..So Just pucker up and swap spit for a while..
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Jun 20 2004, 06:24 PM
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 dance starrie dance! Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,294 |
uhm.. i think u should stick to kissing..
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Jun 21 2004, 06:02 AM
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 I HEART NICHOLAS TSE Group: Official Member Posts: 2,726 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,116 |
i think at 13 u should just stay home. I would not let my 13 yr old sister go out alone with some boy. But in your case i'm not your sister. SOoo yea.. do what ever. But u should just still to holding hands
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Jun 21 2004, 07:51 AM
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 Master Debater Group: Member Posts: 1,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,719 |
Steven doesn't understand.
You haven't hit puberty(as in developing breasts) yet you wanna start messing around with someone. Pssst, nature is telling you to slow down.
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Jun 21 2004, 09:34 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,867 |
If your worried bout that ..then maybe your not comfortable with him
cause when your comfortable with a guy like a lot then it shouldnt matter , you know |
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Jun 21 2004, 11:43 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
QUOTE(iheartsimba @ Jun 20 2004, 10:38 AM) do things? don't u have a vagina? anyways, maybe that means your not mentally developed for this yet.... ehh and you shouldn't be in a relationship just for sex or w/e u ant boobs for lol.. yep. |
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Jun 22 2004, 02:10 PM
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uhmm.. i dont know why all u people assume im gunna have sex.. calm down.. im not gunna and thats not whut i was talkingg about.. s0o uhmm.. maybb this wasnt a good idea s0o stop gettinn ur pantiesz in a bunchh
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Jun 22 2004, 02:15 PM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
didnt you alreadi post this thread in girl's locker??? nywaiz, dont rush into things, move @ your own pace, besides you;re WAAAAAAAAY too young to be having sex
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Jun 22 2004, 02:42 PM
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guysz .. dont u read whuut i post ?! im n0t planning on havingg sex s0o calm d0wnn!
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Jun 22 2004, 02:44 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
so.. you're planning on taking your shirt off? by not developed... do you mean you're flat?
if he's seen you already.. and he knows your upstairs size... don't be embarrased |
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Jun 22 2004, 03:00 PM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
QUOTE(0Hh_bEbE_143 @ Jun 22 2004, 2:42 PM) guysz .. dont u read whuut i post ?! im n0t planning on havingg sex s0o calm d0wnn! you`re the same person?? with tinkerbell16?? LISTEN. WE ASSUMED YOU WANTED TO HAVE SEX BECAUSE YOU SAID YOU WANTED TO DO "THINGS" WITH A GUY. WE DON`T KNOW WHAT KIND OF THINGS YOU WANT TO DO WITH THAT GUY, SO WE ASSUMED IT WAS SEX. did i get your attention..? maybe you need to do that to get other people`s attention.  well..things...hmm...i`m thinking...since you`re 13-14...you want to hold hands..? hug..? cuddle..? kiss..? i mean...the guy could just lead you on. or just make the first move yourself. make sure you both have the same feelings for each other. and don`t be in a rush. YOU GOT ALL YOUR LIFE. and there`s plenty of guys. are you nervous or something..? is it about....uhhh...those womenly things..? hehe..how you`re not developed..? that doesn`t really matter ya know? i mean..if the guy WANTS "some" then dump him. he`s not worth it. well...i could say more...but i don`t really know what you want..? 
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Jun 22 2004, 05:36 PM
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QUOTE(ichiban @ Jun 20 2004, 2:18 PM) 13 is so .. young .. slow it down yep. ditto that. dont rush things! QUOTE guysz .. dont u read whuut i post ?! im n0t planning on havingg sex s0o calm d0wnn! so what do you mean? |
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Jun 22 2004, 05:46 PM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
I thought you were only allowed to have ONE acc?
Anyways, I dont care wether you're planning on having sex or just messin around. 13 is too young. Stick with HUGGING and MAYBE some kissing. |
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Jun 22 2004, 06:32 PM
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 Peace Luv bubbles Group: Member Posts: 580 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,467 |
I just turned 14 and a few of my friend haveint developed yet either. Its fine, sum ppl go in differnt order and other take longer.
Ru in alot of sports or phyisical activitys? That can slow down the process and, If u are very active, u may end up having smaller brests that most others, and will have longer intervalts in your period. I went threw alot of health, 4 babysitting, idk what this has to do with watching kids, but w/e.
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Jun 25 2004, 05:26 PM
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If you're not sure, then you'd prob. not ready. Besides, if you think the guy would care if you're developed or not, he's prob. not the right guy to do this stuff with.
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Jun 25 2004, 06:55 PM
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 Rawr Rawr i am a Reptawr Group: Member Posts: 263 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,045 |
QUOTE(iheartsimba @ Jun 20 2004, 10:47 AM) i think you should be in a relationship...because you like them....you wnat him to like touch you? ehh well I say stick with kissing for a while... yeah just stick to kissing. if the guy cares about you he will not care about your boob size. |
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Jun 26 2004, 07:53 PM
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 -nicollette- Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,309 |
QUOTE(ichiban @ Jun 20 2004, 2:18 PM) 13 is so .. young .. slow it down i agree!!! 
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Jun 26 2004, 11:36 PM
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you're kind of...young. yeah. you might regret it later; if word gets around to other people, they might label you as 'easy' or a 'slut' if you want to go further than kissing and hugging. they don't make a good relationship anyway. learn from others.
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Jun 27 2004, 12:04 AM
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QUOTE(pikimoo @ Jun 22 2004, 5:46 PM) I thought you were only allowed to have ONE acc? Anyways, I dont care wether you're planning on having sex or just messin around. 13 is too young. Stick with HUGGING and MAYBE some kissing. hmmmm... just wondering... but aren't you around 13 too? Just asking. It just seems like you're telling her she can't have sex. And, unless you are her mother or guardian... you have no control over that... just reminding you. anyways... I, myself, would only stick to hugging, kissing and holding hands... because if a guy can't wait for the appropriate age and time to have sex... he isn't worth my time... but that's just me. It's your decision... go with it!! <33 |
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Jun 27 2004, 06:38 AM
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 D0RKii D0RK Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,599 |
What are you planning to do exactly? Whatever it is, you shouldn't do it.
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Jun 27 2004, 08:22 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,032 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,398 |
umm yoohs kindas young wait til yoohs older...wat if da guy is onliee playing yoohs?
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Jun 28 2004, 12:39 AM
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whatever you're planning JUST DONT DO IT!!!!! 13 IS SOOO YOUNG! lol but yea. just stick with like holding hands or whatever and kissing
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Jun 28 2004, 12:56 AM
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13 is way too young. Unless you want to be known as a slut all your life and get STDS and be pregnant by 15..just don't k thanks.
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Jun 28 2004, 02:00 AM
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woah man ur like super young. just wait man. your time will come. just be patient.
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Jun 28 2004, 07:41 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
if your worried about that it isnt time yet. and if hes seen you before he already knows ur boob size, unless you stuff...and if u do I suggest not letting him know that.
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Jun 29 2004, 04:45 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 94 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,708 |
yeah, 13 is kind of young.. i'm planning to get a bf when i'm a junior [hs]
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Jun 29 2004, 09:30 AM
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 Wow it's been a long time!! Group: Member Posts: 1,672 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,954 |
First off, I thought no boys were allowed and Jose and Steven both posted in here
 Second, I don't think you're too young to start exploring. I mean me, I never did that at age 13. But since you're 14 soon, and you seem to like this guy, give it a try. Don't do too many things though, and don't just let him do stuff you aren't comfortable with. Just be relaxed and do what feels right. |
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Jul 3 2004, 12:09 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
i think 13-14 is a bit young. but the only way to tell if you're ready to "explore" is if you feel comfortable with the idea. since you're unsure about what he would think about your physical appearance, maybe you should slow it down a little. he should like you for your inner beauty and not what's on the outside.
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