15 years, and im still single. |
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 ANxmasNIGHTMARE  Group: Validating Posts: 36 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,018  |
so ive been single my whole life and its not really working out for me i guess.
im happy and all, but. im getting to think that im desperate, and that if anyone asks me out ill say yes. ive been asked out by 2 people my whole life and both were pot heads who were arrested last year.  im worried about getting way too desperate and getting myself hurt. what do i do? |
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Oct 8 2007, 07:14 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Lol, i feel bad for you. Well you are only 15. YOu aren't alone. Back when I was 15, I knew ALOT of people who never had a bf/gf. 15 is still a pretty young age. Don't worry about it. That special someone will be there. You just aren't looking hard enough.
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| *kryogenix* |
Oct 8 2007, 08:36 PM
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THROW SOME Ds ON THAT BITCH
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Oct 8 2007, 09:08 PM
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A lot of boys at 15 are really immature and stupid.
Im 15 and Im still single too. |
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Oct 8 2007, 09:11 PM
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QUOTE(RAWRstephishere @ Oct 8 2007, 09:08 PM)  A lot of boys at 15 are really immature and stupid. Oh my gosh i couldn't agree more. Well, I'm 15 and the amazing boy im going out with right now is my 4th boyfriend.. I know a lottt of people in my grade who have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend so you definitely are not alone. I also think the fact that you are looking so hard isn't helping, just relax and casually talk to guys and more than likely you will find one. Best of luck to you! |
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Oct 8 2007, 09:24 PM
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I'm 18 and just now in my first relationship, so dont worry about it... yet. You're still young.
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Oct 8 2007, 11:16 PM
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 Lurker. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,161 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,851 |
Wow, you're 15 and you don't have a boyfriend. It's the end of the world.
No, seriously. Boys aren't everything. You should concentrate on things that will actually help you in the future. There will be a time for boys, and trust me, you're still young. Some people don't date until they get out of college. get over it. |
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Oct 8 2007, 11:17 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Jeez, Anna, so mean.
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Oct 8 2007, 11:20 PM
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Lurker. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,161 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,851 |
^She's only 15. She has plenty of time. My sister is 20 and hasn't had a boyfriend. She's not ugly, she's just not interested in a boyfriend at the moment.
I just feel that people have their priorities misplaced. I'm not mean! Just...yeah. 
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Oct 8 2007, 11:24 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Hey, introduce your sister to me.
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Oct 9 2007, 12:33 AM
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well maybe you should ask someone out then ....
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Oct 9 2007, 10:35 AM
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Look, you're only 15. Like everyone said, "Dating isn't a priority at your age." I can understand why you would want to date. It's fun, it's exciting, etc... but it really doesn't matter at this point in your life.
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Oct 9 2007, 01:19 PM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
uhm, wait?
you're only 15. it's not really a big deal if you're single. guys [well, ones that are worth it] tend to like girls who haven't dated around a lot. well, that's what i've noticed. =] |
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Oct 9 2007, 02:03 PM
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Your 15, go out and fun living life. Don't worry about relationships, one day in the future your going to find a guy that you like and will like you in return. Just give it time, don't stress over it and don't just say yes to anyone that asks you out. Use your brain and judgment carefully.
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Oct 9 2007, 03:13 PM
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I have a lot of friends who are 15 or 16 and single... i've had about 16 or so girlfriends and none of them lasted more then a year... most were only a month or so, so it's not really a good thing to rush into you just end up wasting your time
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Oct 9 2007, 04:33 PM
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HAHA. you're only 15 and you're worried about the fact that you've never had a boyfriend? boys are not the most important things world, nor are they close. vice versa.
I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend and I'm completely fine with it. Why? Because I don't have time in my life to have a boyfriend. Get busy with school and you won't have time for guys either. In fact, a lot of times, boyfriends/girlfriends are just unnecessary baggage when you're busy because you have to make time for them. It's better to be able to do things your own way than to have to compromise about a lot of things. For example, I can go out, drink and have fun without worrying about a boyfriend being unhappy about it. |
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Oct 9 2007, 06:10 PM
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Chill lass.
You are only 15.You got a whole romantic life ahead of you. Relaxxxx. Dont get traped into engagement at 18 like someone i know. |
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Oct 9 2007, 06:14 PM
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ah don't worry, I'm 15 and single too
which reminds me... HI GUYS MY NAME IS BETTY FANG. I LIKE DOG WALKS, THE COLOR TEAL, AND CAPPUCCINOS.  PM ME FOR SN/PHONE# |
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Oct 9 2007, 06:17 PM
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QUOTE(doiink @ Oct 9 2007, 06:14 PM) ah don't worry, I'm 15 and single too which reminds me... HI GUYS MY NAME IS BETTY FANG. I LIKE DOG WALKS, THE COLOR TEAL, AND CAPPUCCINOS. PM ME FOR SN/PHONE#  
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Oct 9 2007, 08:39 PM
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Ok, well i actually have something different to say in stead of everyone else. "You're only 15".
I know the feeling, wanting to be loved, wanted, cared for. But the truth is, hun, is that if you get too desperate then boys will ask you out but not for the right reasons and then you'd end up getting hurt. And it doesn't really matter if your 15, there's people out there that are 50 and they probably have never went on a date before. It's absolutley normal to want a boyfriend, doesn't everyone want to be cared for? Don't sweat it, the right boy will come soon =] |
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Oct 9 2007, 08:47 PM
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I started dating when I was 16. I regretted it. It was a completely waste of my time.
Now I am 19, and is with a guy that I love. This time I don't regret anything. Take your time. Boys and dating isn't everything. They are but a small part of your life. |
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Oct 10 2007, 09:16 PM
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Don't worry about it. I'm 15 too and I've only had one boyrfriend, which was last year, and it was a complete waste of time. Someone that deserves you will come around, just sit back and give it time.
peaceee |
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Oct 11 2007, 12:11 AM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
^ your sig's too big.
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Oct 11 2007, 03:26 AM
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I'm in agreement with pretty much everything said here. I'm 16 and have had 2 serious relationships. The first of which...not so great. Kinda felt like I didn't know enough about anything to really understand what I was trying to commit to. Thats not always the case, but really...at 15 you should be discovering your passions, enjoying life, talking to boys and sure even dating them if a decent one comes along, building up life skills that you'll need a lot sooner than you think. Just...being a kid. Don't rush into the dating stuff, it can be an amazing thing, but at this point just enjoy the freedom that you get as a young teenager and don't stress over the trivial stuff. And keep reminding yourself that there are lots of boys out there...one day the right one (for that time in your life) will come along. Until then, just wait it out and don't bother with it so much.
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Oct 11 2007, 07:12 AM
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QUOTE(ANxmasNIGHTMARE @ Oct 8 2007, 08:13 PM) so ive been single my whole life and its not really working out for me i guess. im happy and all, but. im getting to think that im desperate, and that if anyone asks me out ill say yes. ive been asked out by 2 people my whole life and both were pot heads who were arrested last year. im worried about getting way too desperate and getting myself hurt. what do i do? Will you go out with me? Lol, jk. It's ok. Don't start young, you just get hurt eventually. |
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Oct 11 2007, 01:42 PM
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Look, 15 is the new 11, therefore, you won't be dating until you're actually 20. Best of luck!
QUOTE(doiink @ Oct 9 2007, 06:14 PM) ah don't worry, I'm 15 and single too A/S/L?which reminds me... HI GUYS MY NAME IS BETTY FANG. I LIKE DOG WALKS, THE COLOR TEAL, AND CAPPUCCINOS. PM ME FOR SN/PHONE# |
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Oct 11 2007, 01:44 PM
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^ Well, obviously she is 15 and a female. So basically you just want to know where she lives.
staaaalkerrrrrr. |
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Oct 11 2007, 01:46 PM
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QUOTE(IVIike @ Oct 9 2007, 03:13 PM) I have a lot of friends who are 15 or 16 and single... i've had about 16 or so girlfriends and none of them lasted more then a year... most were only a month or so, so it's not really a good thing to rush into you just end up wasting your time LMFAOWere they IRL or just cyber girlfriends? |
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Oct 11 2007, 02:26 PM
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QUOTE(Spencer @ Oct 11 2007, 11:46 AM) LMFAO Were they IRL or just cyber girlfriends? Spencer is starting to be one of my favorite cB members now LMAO. |
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Oct 11 2007, 07:37 PM
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Haha don't worry about it :)
I Went 17 years |
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Oct 12 2007, 07:13 AM
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I beat you.
I was single for 18 years. Late blooms are always the best though. |
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Oct 12 2007, 09:22 AM
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Damn.
I got engaged at 18... |
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Oct 12 2007, 11:17 AM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(Steven @ Oct 12 2007, 08:37 AM) Haha don't worry about it :) I Went 17 years I've never dated. 
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Oct 12 2007, 11:23 AM
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QUOTE(misoshiru @ Oct 12 2007, 11:17 AM) I've never dated. But you go to a woman's college right? YOUR FAULT!!!!! Go have a one night stand imo
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Oct 12 2007, 12:00 PM
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QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Oct 11 2007, 02:26 PM) Spencer is starting to be one of my favorite cB members now LMAO. ORLY?NO WAIZ! |
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Oct 12 2007, 01:41 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(Steven @ Oct 13 2007, 12:23 AM) But you go to a woman's college right? YOUR FAULT!!!!! Go have a one night stand imo I don't have time or the patience to date. 
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Oct 12 2007, 01:55 PM
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^ Same here.
I've had "sorta-kinda-not-really"s in the past, but that is just lame. haha |
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Oct 12 2007, 06:43 PM
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I'm 16 and I've only been in one relationship so far and it wasn't very serious and we were really young. I've wanted a boyfriend for a long time and I've wanted one even after I broke up with that guy which was 3 years ago (I told you we were young). But it really isn't the end of the world not having one. You shouldn't worry too much because it'll happen eventually. Hopefully for me, soon
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Oct 12 2007, 08:27 PM
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QUOTE(Spencer @ Oct 11 2007, 02:46 PM) LMFAO Were they IRL or just cyber girlfriends? actually all Mike's girl friends have been pretty cute (except that kim chick i dk wtf he was thinking  )but Spencer you shouldn't be talking you are ugly as hell no girl would ever wanna be seen with you trust me. |
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Oct 12 2007, 11:18 PM
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You still have 100 years to live. Crushes are trouble anyway; thats why they call them crushes. be patient.
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Oct 12 2007, 11:19 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(alovesopure @ Oct 13 2007, 02:55 AM) ^ Same here. I've had "sorta-kinda-not-really"s in the past, but that is just lame. haha yay for being single! it's more fun single anyways. |
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Oct 12 2007, 11:20 PM
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Yes, indeed! I am quite happy being single.
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Oct 12 2007, 11:23 PM
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QUOTE(xKatie @ Oct 12 2007, 06:27 PM) actually all Mike's girl friends have been pretty cute (except that kim chick i dk wtf he was thinking )but Spencer you shouldn't be talking you are ugly as hell no girl would ever wanna be seen with you trust me. LMAO OWN QUOTE(misoshiru @ Oct 12 2007, 09:17 AM) I've never dated. I can be your first ;) |
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Oct 12 2007, 11:24 PM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
go have sex with your gf.
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Oct 12 2007, 11:27 PM
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I went home for the weekend. No gf till sunday :(
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Oct 12 2007, 11:28 PM
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too bad. and we're too far away. wouldn't work out. lol.
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Oct 12 2007, 11:29 PM
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does that mean if i was in mass, you would consider it?!!
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Oct 17 2007, 10:10 AM
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sorry, this really pisses me off.
you're 15, NOT 25. Do you think you're going to have a great relationship at such a young age?? All the guy will want is to snatch your virginity and then tell everyone in his classes. Be smart and wait. I'm 19 and I'm not going to be looking for a relationship in a long time. Maybe in my mid-20's but when I'm 19... I'm not going to find my future husband or anything. |
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Oct 17 2007, 01:56 PM
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QUOTE(jeanna @ Oct 17 2007, 10:10 AM) sorry, this really pisses me off. you're 15, NOT 25. Do you think you're going to have a great relationship at such a young age?? All the guy will want is to snatch your virginity and then tell everyone in his classes. Be smart and wait. I'm 19 and I'm not going to be looking for a relationship in a long time. Maybe in my mid-20's but when I'm 19... I'm not going to find my future husband or anything. Uh....I did...  It all depends on the person. Some find the One young, some when they're much older. I wouldn't worry about it. |
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Oct 17 2007, 02:49 PM
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try being in college and having to say that :)
It really doesn't matter. |
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Oct 17 2007, 04:22 PM
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QUOTE(S-Majere @ Oct 17 2007, 01:56 PM) Uh....I did... It all depends on the person. Some find the One young, some when they're much older. I wouldn't worry about it.  doesnt happen that often. true |
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Oct 17 2007, 04:26 PM
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QUOTE(Mulder @ Oct 18 2007, 03:49 AM) try being in college and having to say that :) It really doesn't matter. me&you, you&me. |
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Oct 17 2007, 04:39 PM
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Why the rush? You're only 15. So freaking fragile. Nothing is wrong with you dearest. Just take things slowly and let them happen at their time.
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Oct 18 2007, 07:42 PM
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i've had many bfs when i was young til just like 2 years ago...and now i met someone who i've been with for about a year and i'm goin to marry him, i regret being with anyone else...cuz i want my bf to be my first everything...kiss...date...handholding...i regret being with other guys...my advice is that ur doin what u should do, u should only date when ur lookin for marriage cuz when u find the guy ur supposed to be with the rest of ur life, u wouldn't have wanted to be with anyone else in ur past and u will want him to be ur first...everything
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Oct 22 2007, 01:02 PM
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i started dating when i was 15.
i've had about 5 relationships, and two flings in the past four years. 3 lasting for over a year, one lasting nine months, one lasting three months, and two flings which are just... fun to have. i don't regret it, but i've seemed to become a little bit more bitter-hearted. meaning it takes a lot to get me started or going if i were to get into another relationship. i've met other bitter-hearted people like me, and it seems as though i get along with them the most. but i do know is that i've become insecure when it comes to relationships. perferably, date when you're older. date a guy with a car, money, and someone with good personality and morals. can't find much of those when you're 15. men have two heads, make sure you listen to the right one
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Oct 22 2007, 01:22 PM
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QUOTE(jeanna @ Oct 17 2007, 04:22 PM) doesnt happen that often. true Of course it does.
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Oct 24 2007, 09:12 AM
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Just Stay Single && Have Fun
Man If I Could Go Back To Being 15 Id Sooo Not Get Involved With Boys! Just Let Them Come To You Not Vice Versa :) |
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Oct 24 2007, 11:29 AM
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dud.. 15's a kiddo... dont worry
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Oct 24 2007, 11:32 AM
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If worst comes to worst, do some very indulging sinful things then go into a life of celibacy and pray forgiveness the rest of your life. Seems to be an easy way to have fun and get into heaven at the same time.
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Oct 25 2007, 07:54 PM
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You're only 15 don't worry about it.
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Oct 25 2007, 09:28 PM
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bleh. i am 15 too and i am still single. to be honest i do want a boyfriend.. but pshh i am just waiting for the best to come along xD
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Oct 25 2007, 10:38 PM
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JILL OFF
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