"In a relationship" or not? |
 Oct 2 2007, 11:06 PM
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 Tiara Girl  Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 373,477  |
I've been seeing this one guy for a couple months now and everything has been going really good. I met his parents about a week and a half ago and he dad asked, "Is this your girlfriend." My guy goes, "Yeah - ish." Note that at that time he said that, him and I hadn't discussed our status yet, although I started to like the idea of being considered his girlfriend, and I thought it was better than a "No this is just my friend" answer. Well I didn't want to be one to push a guy into a committed relationship before he was ready, so I thought that I would let him initiate any further discussion on the matter.
Just so happens, the next night I was with him, he said, "When they asked me if you were my girlfriend, I didn't know what to say." And then I asked, "Well what did you want to say?" and then he goes, "yeah" and then I got a little excited and flustered (in a good way) and said, "Okay, that's cool." and then that was it. I'm thinking, "Awesome, he's my bf." The next day I changed my relationship status on myspace to 'In a relationship' right? Well it's been several days and his still says single which kind of is starting to bother me. I mean, he did bring the whole thing up himself. He was the one that initiated the convo about "I didn't know what to say when my dad asked me if you were my gf." So you would think that since he did bring that up that he does want to be my bf, right? If he didn't want to be my bf, he would have not brung it up again, right? Anyways, should I be concerned about this? |
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Oct 2 2007, 11:08 PM
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 isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
eh, it's just facebook. and what he said IRL > myspace status.
if you're concerned, just MARRY him on facebook; that requires him to actually agree |
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Oct 2 2007, 11:13 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
wow this is ridiculous
if i was him i probably wouldn't even remember because ITS ONLY MYSPACE what he says should mean more to u than a status on a website give the dude a break |
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Oct 2 2007, 11:15 PM
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 I am not afraid, I was born for this. Group: Official Member Posts: 805 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,063 |
Gettin' worked up over myspace status is nothing to worry about
if you do want to give him a hint about it be like damn i still have single on my status, i need to change that. then he would probably get the idea. if not, be like "damn someone changed my status to "swinger" lol, what should i put "in a relationship" or "single" lol. but really it's just myspace maybe he doesn't really care about that little detail and doesn't change it. it's not like right after ya was bf&gf that he was thinking "omg, i should go change my myspace status.." wtf you know. it's not that serious, unless he's myspace cheating. don't take it to the heart though okay. what matters the most is your relationship not your myspace status. some dudes dont even remember about that or know how to do it. |
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| *Elba* |
Oct 3 2007, 12:54 AM
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You could just confront him about it.
Lucky, you met his parents. Over two years and I haven't met my boyfriend's mom. |
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Oct 3 2007, 12:59 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
you're concerned over a MYSPACE STATUS?! hahhahhaha.
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Oct 3 2007, 02:11 AM
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 ..Michelle Group: Member Posts: 1,002 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,282 |
lol. my guy & i still have "single" as our status on myspace.
i doubt he even noticed it. if it bothers you that much, just ask him about it. |
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Oct 3 2007, 02:20 AM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
....wow..its f**ken myspace for gods sake.
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Oct 3 2007, 02:29 AM
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 55KAMG's<3 Group: Member Posts: 232 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 577,506 |
I keep my shit on single, thats how most guys roll f**k outta here
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Oct 3 2007, 02:30 AM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
thats cuz u are single eddie. lmao
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Oct 3 2007, 03:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 498,248 |
QUOTE(doiink @ Oct 3 2007, 12:08 AM)  eh, it's just facebook. and what he said IRL > myspace status. if you're concerned, just MARRY him on facebook; that requires him to actually agree You can "marry" people on Facebook? Or was that just sarcasm? To the author -- I wouldn't be too worried. He said it in person and not everyone remembers to update their status. |
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| *Insurmountable* |
Oct 3 2007, 03:12 PM
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I think you kind of left him in the dark by just say "okay thats cool" He probably didn't know what you mean by it.
When it comes to things like this you have to be direct with your answers. Black and white no gray areas. Just talk to him again about it to confirm it. Shouldn't be that big of a deal. Also I wouldn't worry to much about the myspace thing, if you going to get all worried over something like that, its ridiculous and a waste of time. |
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Oct 4 2007, 02:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 129 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 251,135 |
QUOTE(Elba @ Oct 3 2007, 01:54 AM) You could just confront him about it. Lucky, you met his parents. Over two years and I haven't met my boyfriend's mom. you aint the only one!!! i havent met his dad yet and his mom only once! |
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Oct 4 2007, 03:40 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Wtf? You are thinking too much of this guy. Seriously, stay away from him, he is a bad guy in my opinion.
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| *Programmer* |
Oct 7 2007, 01:08 AM
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over rated...you're to young...to be settling down go out and have fun.
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Oct 7 2007, 01:09 AM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
too young? shes freakin 23 already lol.
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Oct 7 2007, 01:29 AM
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can i sprinkle my pubes on u ;[ Group: Banned Posts: 176 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 568,257 |
lol dawg i'm not single wtf
but dawg i meettt soo many girls parentss its no fun man!!! i had a dad go through my texts on my iphone lol... |
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Oct 7 2007, 01:56 PM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
Yeah, that's how it was for my and my boyfriend but then we broke up so i put mine back to single.
But then we got back together.. and i didn't change mine back.. |
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Oct 23 2007, 09:15 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,223 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 485,356 |
 Maybe he forgot? |
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Oct 23 2007, 03:54 PM
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 vengeance. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,058 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,024 |
QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Oct 7 2007, 02:09 AM) too young? shes freakin 23 already lol. Then shes too old. Myspace wise. I think once people have hit the age at MOST 20 they shouldn't have a myspace anymore. Unless they are a musician, comedian, or perhaps a web designer of some sort. You get the idea.
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Oct 23 2007, 09:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 235 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,772 |
eh i would believe his words more than his myspace, his words are more true *n.n*
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| *jeanna* |
Oct 23 2007, 10:00 PM
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wellll whenever a guy has married down and hides his top 8/comments, it means he's taken but also wanting to cheat.
like 95% of the time |
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Oct 23 2007, 10:53 PM
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 Xscape Group: Member Posts: 68 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,014 |
Guys tend to do that out of pride. I don't think you're in a relationship. This is only my point of view.
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