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[Kay-]

Me and my boyfriend are pretty serious but last night he told me after he graduates, he's moving to Ireland and i live in Canada! I would move with him but im only 13! And no, this isn't some dumb highschool relationship, we both are really in love.

Should i break up with him soon so it would be easier to say goodbye?
Should i REALLY move with him?
Should i wait for the time to come and just see what happens?
Do you think he'll atleased wait for me to graduate?

[Relentless]

Wow, he's graduating and ur only 13? IMO, kind of young to fall in love but whatever works for you.

Anyway, this is the same situation as my best friend. She fell in love with a guy (she was 14, he was 17 -- Now, she's 16, he's 19) and he had to go to San Diego.

They both end up argueing so much over the phone (& she ends up crying on the phone, while I tell her to forget him, but she can't since she loves him) and it depressed her so much because he eventually stops trusting her while they are apart. They ended up breaking up and getting back together. She says that she was really in love and wanted to hold on. But finally, 2-3 weeks, he stopped calling and it was officially broken up. She's happy now than being depressed & finally moved on and she was deeply in love with him. They were together for about a year and a half or 2 years? either one, lol.

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS never work, or at least most of the time.

IMO. You're too YOUNG to live together in Ireland. You're only 13! You can try to do long distance but you won't know what he'll be doing or he won't know what you'll be doing. Making it harder for you're relationship.

Have you asked him, where ur gonna be in the picture when he moves to Ireland?

Just my two cents.

[S-Majere]

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS never work, or at least most of the time.

No, they do work. I'm living proof of that. My boyfriend and I have been together for years, and now we go to separate universities. It isn't a problem. We make Skype dates, phonecall, text, email, use snailmail and msn together. It all depends on trust, respect and whether you are willing to wait for someone.

I am.

There's so many ways of staying in touch nowadays, that distance isn't an issue. It's the strenth of your relationship that is.

Hope this helps. x

[Relentless]

^ That's why I said most of the time. Not ALL the time. =P

[*Elba*]

Break up with him. One of you will end up cheating sooner or later.

[*Michelle*]

Break up with him. One of you will end up cheating sooner or later.

Agreed.

If you really love this guy, then let him be. Don't hurt his future so that you two can have a temporary happiness.

"If you love something, then set it free. If it doesn't come back to you, then it wasn't yours to begin with."

[lilsnoopy]

LMAO XDDDD
ARE YOU SERIOUS!?! Are you actually even contemplating the idea of moving to Ireland!?!
your insane
You dont know anybody in Ireland first off, so if you guys broke up (most likely will), your basically alone
alone in a foriegn country
good luck with THAT

Your only 13, why would you tie yuourself down to one guy
sure, your in love, but you will (100%) find another guy to cling onto and dedicate the same "im in love with him" message. And guess what, he'll live in Canada with you!

[katelynlingenfel...]

I think.. thats a little much for a thirteen year old. Not worth it. Live your life happily. Move on.

[*stephinika*]

I agree with Michelle. If you really do love him, let him go. Have you two even talked about this or anything? What does he think?

[Becks539]

You're 13 years old.
He's going to ireland whether you like it or not.
I'm sure your parents would just love it if you moved to a foreign country with your boyfriend
Just move on...

[brooklyneast05]

lol yea ^

what 13 year olds parents let them run off to ireland with their boyfriend

[y0urelectrikk]

If you really love this guy, then let him be. Don't hurt his future so that you two can have a temporary happiness.

"If you love something, then set it free. If it doesn't come back to you, then it wasn't yours to begin with."

I totally agree.
it probably isn't going to work out.
I'd let him go now, sure it'll be hard.. but it'll make things easier in the long run, for both of you.

[pinacoolada]

Don't think about it now. Sorry to say but even if you're really in love, you'll probably break up eventually. Also, never ever put a guy first before your future. If you do move with him, what's gonna happen to you? Just enjoy whatever time you have left. Everything will fall into place.

[jammylise]

is he 13?
cus you said when he graduates.

if he's 13
live life as it is.

he's not graduating soon is he?

if not, then just continue the relationship, n if it's true everything will work out

but your 13 you should not be messin' with boys.

especially if he's gonna graduate soon(out of 12th grade))

[EmoEyelinerx]

Wow, he's graduating and ur only 13? IMO, kind of young to fall in love but whatever works for you.

Anyway, this is the same situation as my best friend. She fell in love with a guy (she was 14, he was 17 -- Now, she's 16, he's 19) and he had to go to San Diego.

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS never work, or at least most of the time.

IMO. You're too YOUNG to live together in Ireland. You're only 13! You can try to do long distance but you won't know what he'll be doing or he won't know what you'll be doing. Making it harder for you're relationship.

Me and my boyfriend are that age (im 14, hes 17)..

Anyways I agree. I think your WAY too young to move to Ireland with him when he graduates. I think you should just try to keep in touch with him and when your older (if your still together) move their, it wouldent be any fun for him becuase you cant even drive yourself or anything yet so he would have to do like everything.