should i.., should i wait.. or give up Options

[MisSyHangy]

.. i knoe this can be really stupid. but deep in my heart i still have
my ex in my heart.. its been 7 months since he broke up with me.
we were together for a year and a month...to this day. i still dont
knoe why he broke up with me. i told him that ill wait for him.
...faith happened so many times between us.. we loved each other
so much.. our family accepted each other.. approve and stuff like that,
you knoe the asian way...

i remember that day he broke up with me.. he was cry'n. :sigh:
..well i just want to knoe.. should i just give up.. or just wait and
maybe get nothing out of it.

[Winter]

It's not wrong to have hope. Hope is what keeps us going. It seems he loved/liked you as much as you loved/liked when he broke up with you. You don't just need love to make a relationship work, you need other stuff too. Maybe he broke up with you because of a personal reason.

And is he still single? This is a main question.

I was very much like you some time back. I was with the one I love for only 4 short months but those 4 months were the happiest months of my entire life. We broke up... not because we stopped loving each other, but because of other issues.

After the break-up, I felt lose. I knew there wasn't much chance that we'd be together again. But I kept hoping. I hoped that maybe one day, things would work between us.

But after a while, I realised that just hoping alone isn't going to help. You just have to move on. Life has to go on like usual. And I decided to move on. I met Chris (asiangetokewl) and we got together.

To be honest, I still miss my ex. But now I just keep him locked up in my heart. He will always be special to me, he was my first love and I will always remember that.

But you gotta realise it's over. I'm with Chris now and for now, Chris is my no.1 guy.

[MisSyHangy]

yea.. he's still single..

...yea we did have great times with each other.
it wasnt just love... i dunno

[Winter]

yea.. he's still single..

...yea we did have great times with each other.
it wasnt just love... i dunno

Well I think it's great you still have hope. But just remember, he's not the only guy out there. If you meet another great guy, then take the chance. Who knows, it might turn into something really special.

[LiNHy POO]

well maybe he will come around... but then again maybe he wont... though its good to have sum hope and faith that he will come back.... but dont think that he will... right now explore your options... maybe this wasnt meant to be? there are sooo many other guys who could be better than him... im saying explore around... and you can still wait for him if you want!

[islandkiss]

maybe you should opt to talk about this with him. I read in Cosmopolitin ( I can't spell it now ) that after a break up, it should be normal to still have feelings left for the guy, but after 5 months and you still continue to love him then you should consider seeing a therapist.

my 800th post. woot. woot.

[pinkkittie18]

I think that you should talk to him. Get everything out in the open. Find out why he broke up with you, and then work it from there.

I remember that I was in love with this guy I was going out with, and he supposedly loved me as much as I loved him, and then we broke up, he said that he wasn't ready to have the serious relationship that I wanted, I told him that I'd wait for him until he was ready.. Sheesh, thank God I got over him. Because I found out that not even 2 days after him and I stopped seeing eachother, he had a new girlfriend.

But I think that you should talk to him about the reasons why you're not together anymore. Maybe with everything out in the open he'll realize what he lost, and maybe he'll go back with you..

[LoST SouL]

...to this day. i still dont knoe why he broke up with me

same thins wit my 1st x jus give it time u n him kud b the best of friends.. me n my x r noe sorta..

[kariarri]

While you still may love him and all that, it was his decision to break up with you. And while you're waiting, you may be missing the greatest opportunity right in front of you. Maybe he's already moved on, or maybe he just doesn't feel the same way anymore.

As tough as it is, maybe the best thing for you to do is try to move on. Sometimes ... well, sometimes it's the only thing you can do. Just don't waste your life away waiting, I'm sure that you're worth more than that.

I mean, maybe it was even for the best. You may find someone better. Fate works in odd ways.

MMFCL

[expoised]

well...

it's been 7 months. maybe you should start looking around for someone new.

[iheartsimba]

maybe...you should DO something. He needs to know. What if he feels the same way...why did he break up with you in the first place?
Maybe you should tell him how you feel. ESPECIALLY TODAY.