UR BEST GUYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND like likes YOU, what would you do? |
 Sep 14 2007, 09:31 PM
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 na-nancy  Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179  |
i made this topic because, my best guyfriend likes me.
I've known that for awhile now, but he doesnt know that. And sometimes i feel so awkward and weird around him, like i don't what to do or talk about. We haven't been talking for awhile, we've been kinda distant. And I'm not so sure why, maybe its me? Because he says I've changed, like i wouldnt go up to him and say "hi" whenever i see him. But maybe it's just my feelings around him that holds me back. He's a real nice friend, very honest,smart,reliable,funny,a gentlemen, and one of my friends that sometimes truly understand me. What should I do? |
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Sep 14 2007, 09:39 PM
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<3 Cheryl. and James. <3 09.23.06.<3 Group: Member Posts: 194 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 553,651 |
that totally sounded like me and my boyfriend were. hmm if you like like him then i say go for it i mean he sounds like a really good guy from the way you describe him. If you do like like him and want to go for it just Hint at it a lot or if you're really brave then just tell him straight out. :)
I know i told my boyfriend like out of no where like do you want to know something that you don't know about me? I really really like you. And look here we are about 1 year later. If you don't like him then don't try to be distant try to be like how you use to be with him but not too nice because iono he might get the wrong idea. i hope my advice is useful ill edit this post or post a new reply if i think of anything else. |
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Sep 15 2007, 01:38 AM
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 pyrobeastilnecrophilaic Group: Member Posts: 217 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 562,974 |
talk to him
HOPEFULLYa he'll relaize its futile to go out with you you shouldnt go out with your best guy friend thats a no no, and destorys a friendship I've tried it before and well, it didnt go on very well |
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Sep 15 2007, 01:45 AM
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<3 Cheryl. and James. <3 09.23.06.<3 Group: Member Posts: 194 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 553,651 |
QUOTE(lilsnoopy @ Sep 14 2007, 11:38 PM)  you shouldnt go out with your best guy friend thats a no no, and destorys a friendship ^^^^^^ All the guys ive gone out with were my best guy friend in one time or another and it doesnt really destroy the friendship if it does then you must of have not had a really strong friendship. And plus the guy im with now like i said was my best guy friend at ive lasted almost a year. Usually your guy friends i think im my opinion are the best to go out with because they already know you and if they like you well they like you for who you are and you dont have to be someone you're not. |
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Sep 15 2007, 02:04 AM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
Make babies with him.
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Sep 15 2007, 02:45 AM
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can i sprinkle my pubes on u ;[ Group: Banned Posts: 176 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 568,257 |
Uh f**k that n***a, if u dont like him juss be like
sorry im not the one for u, go f**k ur couch niggaa |
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Sep 15 2007, 10:25 AM
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na-nancy Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179 |
QUOTE(LovableGullible @ Sep 14 2007, 08:39 PM) that totally sounded like me and my boyfriend were. hmm if you like like him then i say go for it i mean he sounds like a really good guy from the way you describe him. If you do like like him and want to go for it just Hint at it a lot or if you're really brave then just tell him straight out. :) I know i told my boyfriend like out of no where like do you want to know something that you don't know about me? I really really like you. And look here we are about 1 year later. If you don't like him then don't try to be distant try to be like how you use to be with him but not too nice because iono he might get the wrong idea. i hope my advice is useful ill edit this post or post a new reply if i think of anything else. oh i see... i don't even know if i like him like that though... but he is a really nice guy... and also, i felt like he started to move on and like someone else.. so i kinda dont wanna like him more or lead him on. I think, i should just act like my usual self then, we kinda had a long conversation last night, just talking about stuff. And after talking to him, since we haven't for awhile, I felt a little better nows, more comfortable around him and just talking as friends do. But i don't even know, he hides his feelings so much, i don't even know who he's liking or even if he still does like me. Sometimes i think he's just trying to play around with me, but i don't even know anymore, its making me confused about what I think of him now... i guess i'll just consider him as a friend, until he tells me or not that he does like me. Liking one is sooooo COMPLICATED...> < |
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Sep 15 2007, 11:46 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 574,165 |
QUOTE(lilsnoopy @ Sep 14 2007, 11:38 PM) you shouldnt go out with your best guy friend thats a no no, and destorys a friendship I've tried it before and well, it didnt go on very well thats a dumb no no, its actually the oppisite way around, dont pass this up, hint for him to ask u out, if u do have a good relationship wit the guy as a friend odds r if u go out wit him u two will last a lot longer than some random guy u think is cute and u've known for a week. i asked my girl friend friend out after being jus friends for about a year and it didnt distroy our friendship it only made it better and cus she was my best girlfriend before we have more things to relate bout and have little things that we do jus between us two. and ive been wit her longer than any other random girl that i liked jus cus we were good friends before we went out. before ive had only relationships that lasted about a 1week(least) - 1month(most) and now we've been happy for almost half a year 
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Sep 17 2007, 06:23 PM
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na-nancy Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179 |
QUOTE(oSiiNo @ Sep 15 2007, 10:46 PM) thats a dumb no no, its actually the oppisite way around, dont pass this up, hint for him to ask u out, if u do have a good relationship wit the guy as a friend odds r if u go out wit him u two will last a lot longer than some random guy u think is cute and u've known for a week. i asked my girl friend friend out after being jus friends for about a year and it didnt distroy our friendship it only made it better and cus she was my best girlfriend before we have more things to relate bout and have little things that we do jus between us two. and ive been wit her longer than any other random girl that i liked jus cus we were good friends before we went out. before ive had only relationships that lasted about a 1week(least) - 1month(most) and now we've been happy for almost half a year so TRUE....^ ^ since you do know ur guyfren more than other guys, why not go for him right? but still..i dunno...very risk-takin...cuz if ya both end up breakin up, will you still want to be friends?.... its a complicated decision... LOVE=COMPLICATED! |
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Sep 17 2007, 06:46 PM
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pyrobeastilnecrophilaic Group: Member Posts: 217 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 562,974 |
QUOTE All the guys ive gone out with were my best guy friend in one time or another and it doesnt really destroy the friendship if it does then you must of have not had a really strong friendship. And plus the guy im with now like i said was my best guy friend at ive lasted almost a year. Usually your guy friends i think im my opinion are the best to go out with because they already know you and if they like you well they like you for who you are and you dont have to be someone you're not. Please, dont assume too much, especially when you dont even know if its correct. Actually, we were very, very good friends throughout high school, and remained close afterword, until we went out. The reason why it destroyed the friendship was because of the way we handled the break up. Since neither one of us knew how to proceed....we just drifted apart due to lack of communication and akwardness. Lack of communication affects everyone including bestfriends going out. Thats why I would rather not go out with my bestfriend, since I normally see friends who went out with each other just fade away and not remain friends. best friends going out though, do have its bonuses. Already know each other, have an idea on who the person is, ect. |
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Sep 17 2007, 07:00 PM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
I'd fuck them.
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Sep 17 2007, 07:27 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Best guy friends relationships thingys most likely work out because you two know each other the most.
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Sep 20 2007, 09:36 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 |
GO FOR IT! My Fiance and I were just like that.
We were friends for years, and that makes our relationship so much stronger because not only is he my lover, but he is my best friend and has been for so long. We have been together for 2 years, and it's one of the healthiest relationships I have ever seen. |
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Oct 8 2007, 07:09 PM
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na-nancy Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179 |
im still not sure..
but it seems now... that since we're getting closer... i feel he's starting to like me again... i dont even know anymore!!! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.... love STiNKS...JK... i just dont UNDERSTAND it... |
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Oct 15 2007, 12:17 AM
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QUOTE(lilsnoopy @ Sep 17 2007, 06:46 PM) Please, dont assume too much, especially when you dont even know if its correct. IKR? i have a thing for my best male friend and we've even brought up the subject but he gave me a not yes, not no. Jeanna says: i really understand where you're coming from and i said it's fine. im use to the "no thanks" type of deal when i bring this stuff up to other people. He says: okay but i didnt say no thanks i probably should have pried in a little more information but i was too chicken. :( oh and the drama/obstacle in our friendship going further is I had relations with his older brother. yeah... 4 years ago. |
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Oct 15 2007, 12:23 AM
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 isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
don't lead him on
 it's hard because "being friendly" with him will = leading him on..sighyou kind of just have to act coldly towards him... |
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Oct 15 2007, 05:30 AM
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 Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
Speaking from a few experiences (none of which panned out) I'd say you'd be best off to leave this idea of a 'relationship' between you two alone.
It's obviously putting you both in an awkward position with the other. It's very hard for a girl to be best friends with a guy and have no romantic feelings toward him. |
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Oct 15 2007, 05:39 AM
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 Offline. Group: Official Designer Posts: 609 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 507,591 |
You Should Go Up And Talk To Him... You Said That He Is Your Friend...
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