My boyfriend dumped me because he believes this girl saying crap about me |
 Sep 12 2007, 12:25 AM
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okay, so theres this girl who WANTS my boyfriend so much that she made so much bullcrap about me dating other guys while im with him, well thats bullcrap, and about me f*cking guys while i'm with him, which is also a total bullcrap, but you know what he does? instead of trusting me, he believes her and her bullcrap about me, and effing dumped me. my bf and i we lived far from each other,and that girl who wants him lives in the same state as him. I felt pain and hurt in my heart, like a knife just stabbed my heart, cuz i love him too much to move on or let go, and like when i signed on msn, that girl was on his s/n and was telling me to let go and crap like that, but i cant, i know its not easy, and she told me that hes moving on with her starting from tomorrow, which brought my heart into more pain and im on the verge of tears. I dont know what else to do to get him back except to wait, even if i dont get another chance with him anymore, i will always wait. Have you guys ever had this kind of problem before in your relationship? My question for you, what would you do to get your gf or bf back from another guy or girl?
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Sep 12 2007, 12:43 AM
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If a guy I was dating trusted another girl over me, I honestly wouldn't try to get him back.
You'll find a better guy, and he will actually trust you. So don't worry about it too much, I know it hurts though. 
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Sep 12 2007, 12:45 AM
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can i sprinkle my pubes on u ;[ Group: Banned Posts: 176 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 568,257 |
You should have put out for him. You're just a worthless girl to him..
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Sep 12 2007, 05:57 AM
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I am 99.999999999% sure this "other girl" you speak of is not getting together with your bf. Her attitude seems a little too clingy and bitchy, so they wouldn't last more than a couple weeks anyway.
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Sep 12 2007, 07:50 AM
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 Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
Ok, he doesnt trust you. But thats not a reason to give up on him, because he may not trust you because he's insecure.
The thing i'd do is make her life miserable, but that isnt a solution. Just send a text message or something to that guy that you honoustly didnt do anything that that girl said and that your really sad, and that if he doesnt trust you know you wish him a good time with that girl. I feel really sorry for you, it must be terrible. |
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Sep 12 2007, 06:46 PM
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 pyrobeastilnecrophilaic Group: Member Posts: 217 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 562,974 |
You should first talk to him about it
if nothing changes, and he still doesnt beleive you, dump him trust is the foundation for an relationship, and if there is no trust, there is no relationship |
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Sep 12 2007, 06:54 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
^ but they already brokeup..she can't dump him-___-.
I think you should talk to him, but if he seriously doesn't trust you, it's not worth it. |
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Sep 12 2007, 06:55 PM
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If he knew you and he loved you with all his heart; he would have defended you to the last. That is what a real boyfriend does.
Let the loser go out with the other girl. It'll end in tears for them. She's a compulsive, jealous liar and he's an insecure non-committal. |
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Sep 12 2007, 07:03 PM
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 Why don't you make like a hockey player, and get the puck ou Group: Validating Posts: 167 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,037 |
Theres a lot other fish in the sea
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Sep 12 2007, 07:04 PM
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 CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
He should've been on your side until both of you were proven wrong.
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Sep 12 2007, 07:16 PM
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it is better that you guys are not together.
if he cant trust your word, then there is no point of you going out with him if there is no trust. |
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Sep 12 2007, 07:24 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,323 |
it is better that you guys are not together.
if he cant trust your word, then there is no point of you going out with him if there is no trust. |
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