stupid boy, helpp. Options

[ANxmasNIGHTMARE]

mmmmmkay
so this past summer
i hooked up with one of my really good friends, and i was extremely happy and such
then he got a girlfriend, and i was kinda sad, but we still hooked up when we got the chance
and i felt really really bad cause i would through a bitch fit if someone did that to me, but i didnt have the guts to say no.
anyway, eventually he broke up with her, and we still hooked up and stuff, and then he started holding hands and stuff with another girl who was one of my really good friends, and when he got the chance he would kiss her and cuddle with her and stuff right in front of me.
as you can imagine, i got jealous
but then he'd always ask me to go back to my trailer and wed watch a movie and cuddle and stuff
thats how it was all summer - he went back and forth and back and forth
eventually he asked the girl out, but she said no because she doesnt want him to cheat on her

long story short he started hooking up with me again, and i dont know what to do cause for the most part, hes a good guy - he just thinks he can get away with things




im such a douche >.<

[EmoEyelinerx]

First off, this needs to be moved to relationships.
Secondly, it seems to me like he sees you as more of a fling then a girl he would date (not to sound rude). The best thing you can do is probably stop hooking up with him because your emotions are getting involved and ovessly dont like it when he is seeing another girl. If you want to keep hooking up with him try talking to him about it, and see why hes doing the things he is.

[*alovesopure*]

First off, this needs to be moved to relationships.

--> Moved.

[NoSex]

He sounds like a flaky f**k friend. Screw him (well, actually, don't.), if you're looking for something serious. Avoid him, if you want an actual romantic involvement. Of course, I could talk at length on this issue, but I'd rather not. It's just not worth elaborating on. Just screw this kid, unless, of course, you're alright with being used.

[sweetest-emotion]

yikes, this sucks! you need to assess your options.
firstly, this guy is a douche. he's only keeping you on the side to be a hookup-buddy. no more. and common he prolly had to cuddle with those other girls in front of you to keep them from getting jealous and getting suspicious.
you need to talk to him and say that you're tired of hooking up if it's not going to go anywhere. let him know how you feel. and if he says that he doesn't feel the same, then f**k him. you deserve so much better. BUT!
be careful. if he's hooking up with you on the side while he's dating, he's bound to do it to you if you get together. expect it.

[1angel3]

I wouldn't fool with him anymore, he is just playing you and the other girls. How old is he? Most teenage boys are going through so many hormones and they think with their penis instead of their brain. They can have sex with you one hour and next with another girl and think none of it.

[me1issaaaa]

You're a piece of meat to him. He wouldn't keep going back to you if he didn't think you'd give in everytime. Either continue to bee hookup buddies and know that he probably doesn't want anything more than that, or just have respect for yourself and say no.

[Kontroll]

mmmmmkay
so this past summer
i hooked up with one of my really good friends, and i was extremely happy and such
then he got a girlfriend, and i was kinda sad, but we still hooked up when we got the chance
and i felt really really bad cause i would through a bitch fit if someone did that to me, but i didnt have the guts to say no.
anyway, eventually he broke up with her, and we still hooked up and stuff, and then he started holding hands and stuff with another girl who was one of my really good friends, and when he got the chance he would kiss her and cuddle with her and stuff right in front of me.
as you can imagine, i got jealous
but then he'd always ask me to go back to my trailer and wed watch a movie and cuddle and stuff
thats how it was all summer - he went back and forth and back and forth
eventually he asked the girl out, but she said no because she doesnt want him to cheat on her

long story short he started hooking up with me again, and i dont know what to do cause for the most part, hes a good guy - he just thinks he can get away with things
im such a douche >.<

And your judging him? Wow. Congrats. I hope one day you can be a role model to my kids. YEAH!

The best thing you can do is probably stop hooking up with him because your emotions are getting involved and ovessly dont like it when he is seeing another girl.

When doesn't a girl's emotions get involved?

[Shattered_Hope]

I think you should do what's best for you and stop the cycle....he'll figure out what he's missing when he sees you with another guy who actually cares enough to ask you out.

[lljay06]

My advice to you is to stop...
Everything just stop...
I have realized life is short you should take as much time as you can for yourself and the person for you will come and if they dont well you are spending so much time on yourself you shouldnt notice at all....
It sounds easier than it is I know...