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 Sep 7 2007, 11:10 PM
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Well my ex dumped me a couple of months ago for a guy she met on the computer in england.....ENGLAND (we live in canada) she was my first gf and first person i really had feelings for. We did everythnig together, for once i felt like i caught my big break and i was on top of the world. But as soon as i got to the top she dumped me and i was standing in the rain watching my life fall apart. I felt betrayed in every single way especially when she lied about why she broke up and did it the week my grandfather past away, and when girls say they wanna be your friend still that is total BS tell them to literally f**k off. But now iunno i know i should just get over her but I still have this "hate" I want...revenge....or something to satisfy all the pain that she caused me. I don't know what to do, i thought i was over it and could control it but now it only seems to grow. I know that this sounds wrong but i seem to be near the end of my rope soon. i just want this to stop. I do alot of physical stuff like weight lifting and everything. After she broke up with me i just took it quitely and when i found the real reason i was torn and most people i think would have screamed at her. but i didn't i feel like i just need one good yell at her or something to vent then never see her again. like tell her *U f**kin ruined my life, you lost your shot with a great person. you took everythin i gave and did for you for granted and you stuck your foote up my ass, do me a favour dig yourself a whole and hide for 2 months and see who will miss you.....nobody, cause no one cares about you. you're a mean and nasty person with no feelings for other people now f**k off and leave me alone and grow up for once*...but i never got that shot too, i just have this compressed anger i guess.
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Sep 8 2007, 12:43 AM
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 sang loves hayden. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,373 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,687 |
It's normal. It's you're first gf and I know how it's like to have a first gf. You don't want to be separated but at times, they need to. Just accept the way it is, besides, it makes you a better person in a relationship. Everyone always will have a 1st relationship and I doubt they'll stay together forever.
There's plenty fishes in the sea, not just HER. |
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Sep 8 2007, 10:40 AM
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 "Life in the fastlane baby" Group: Banned Posts: 90 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 559,133 |
ya you know fgurreal maybe you should turn gay
bitches always is unpredicable bcuz they bitch ass hos got it !!! refer to rule number 3 in quote 2and quote 1 |
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Sep 9 2007, 09:11 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,020 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,785 |
Girls are stupid.
^^ Like they said, turn gay. All the hot nice guys are gay. 
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Sep 9 2007, 04:55 PM
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QUOTE(Relentless @ Sep 8 2007, 12:43 AM)  It's normal. It's you're first gf and I know how it's like to have a first gf. You don't want to be separated but at times, they need to. Just accept the way it is, besides, it makes you a better person in a relationship. Everyone always will have a 1st relationship and I doubt they'll stay together forever. There's plenty fishes in the sea, not just HER. Not necessarily true. Sometimes the first relationship is The One. In your case, however JonathonK, things just didn't happen. After you've broken up, you'll be feeling hurt, betrayed, lonely, free, whatever. The point is, you're going through a process not dissimilar to a bereavement in terms of emotional weight. Just wait it out and don't act on any negative feelings. Karma'll only come back around and sling it right back up your ass. Time is a great healer. |
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Sep 9 2007, 09:12 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
QUOTE Not necessarily true. Sometimes the first relationship is The One. Sometimes, I guess, but VERY rarely.... You need to find another way to vent your anger, cause going back and yelling at her will do you no good. Take up boxing or something. Really, just let it rip on a punching bag for a little bit and see how it feels. Whatever you do, just try and find a healthy outlet for your anger that won't get you into trouble. |
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Sep 9 2007, 11:46 PM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
whenever you think of her or whenever she comes up in a conversation, this is what you think - bitch ain't worth your time. she's trash; i don't need that.
boxing! or you could be me and just get rid of people. |
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Sep 10 2007, 12:48 PM
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 Be obscene. Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 509,327 |
If I were you, I would just try to move on with your life. I know it's hard, but it's something you have to do.
The thing is, if the girl dumped you for someone in England, she wasn't worth being with anyways. She probably didn't even think about anyone's feelings but her own. The best way to get even is to get a great looking girlfriend and fall in love all over again. If you're happy after she dumped you, that will piss her off. That's how you get your revenge :) |
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Sep 10 2007, 06:29 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Sep 2007 Member No: 569,087 |
3 words -not-worth-it-
 personally i think boxing doesint work iv tried ppunching a pillow when i have anger inside but i dont think it works i wont someone to share my pain  ..lol thats whi you want revenge on her lol just say to her that you cant belive she dumped you over some guyh in england and just like talk to her dont make her cry it just makes things worse ....
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