Advice on getting a guy? |
 Aug 23 2007, 01:30 AM
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Sad news to start this post off with...
I've been single my whole life so far. The guys that I like just like me as a friend... A new school year is almost here and I was wondering if I could get some tips or something on how to get a guy. |
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Aug 23 2007, 01:46 AM
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 <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 1,369 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 539,187 |
The way I see it,
Confidence is the key. Smile  Be happy with yourself. Guys like that. I think  |
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Aug 23 2007, 01:53 AM
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^ Please be nice.
What's the rush? Just be yourself. There isn't a real way to get a guy. Other than being confident in yourself. But I'm sure confidence is the answer to many of your questions. Confidence is sexy.
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Aug 23 2007, 02:07 AM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
Like it was said before, just be yourself. If you're too focused on the fact that you're not getting anyone, then you're really not gonna get any guy. Don't focus on that but instead put your focus into other more important things, like your studies, and eventually guys will come to you.
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Aug 23 2007, 02:41 AM
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 sang loves hayden. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,373 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,687 |
Like everyone has mentioned, show CONFIDENCE & SELF ESTEEM to the guy when you're talking. Don't be slouching, stuttering or any other sign that makes you think you're too shy or something, when you talk on a daily basis. Talk about things that you BOTH have the same interest and eventually he might like you. I like a girl who has great self-esteem, personality, and looks at times.
Besides, it's best to wait for college since their will be a variety of guys you might like. |
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Aug 23 2007, 03:09 AM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
show him your booty.If u have one ...
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Aug 23 2007, 03:10 AM
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yeah wait it out. be yourself, have confidence.
make a major physical change, like dye your hair or do your makeup differently. anything. it'll catch a guy's attentions, usually. |
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Aug 23 2007, 03:17 AM
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we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
but she couuuld overdo it chaeun and that could be disastrous.
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Aug 23 2007, 09:02 AM
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QUOTE(chaneun @ Aug 23 2007, 03:10 AM)  yeah wait it out. be yourself, have confidence. make a major physical change, like dye your hair or do your makeup differently. anything. it'll catch a guy's attentions, usually. Well... I did go shopping for clothes that are what I would not normally wear. Thanks guys for the advice. I'll keep it in mind. |
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Aug 26 2007, 07:34 PM
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 hello. Group: Official Designer Posts: 211 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 513,566 |
*sigh* i have the same problem, its soo easy to say "be confident, dont be shy!" but for me its damn near impossible to do!
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Aug 26 2007, 08:50 PM
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BE A TEASE.
It always works. |
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| *Steven* |
Aug 26 2007, 09:05 PM
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Anil plays hardtoget
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Aug 26 2007, 09:10 PM
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QUOTE(whatyouneed @ Aug 23 2007, 02:50 AM) i did a quick check of your profile and i think that um basically you're just about hideous. It would just about be Mission Impossible IV. hey hey, ugly people can get a boyfriend/girlfriend too, though it may surprise you. just because someone is ugly doesn't mean they don't have feelings 
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Aug 27 2007, 10:43 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 560,368 |
You're not ugly :)
And I agree with what everybody else said, show confidence. This doesn't mean be cocky though! Don't be afraid to ask the guy out :) I think the whole guys-have-to-take-the-first-step thing is stupid, especially since I'm kinda shy 
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Aug 27 2007, 11:41 AM
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 One Love. Group: Duplicate Posts: 1,079 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 410,480 |
it ain't that hard. hit it and quit it. remember that. you dig?
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Aug 27 2007, 06:58 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
^ ........ when was the last time you ever "hit it", ya dig?
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Aug 27 2007, 08:55 PM
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 no u Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,372 |
There is an incredible market for guys looking for girls into Star Wars, especially of the non-ugly variety. And don't just search in the ranks of the nerds, some nerdy guys will be closeted, so be sure to make the first move.
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Aug 27 2007, 10:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
As a guy, i can help you.
We like girls who knows when to laugh, knows how to have fun with us, doesnt get upset so easily, doesnt become emotional, keeps bad drama out, attentions, and hi/goobye. |
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Aug 28 2007, 12:38 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
QUOTE(RogueVanity @ Aug 23 2007, 02:46 AM) The way I see it, Confidence is the key. Smile Be happy with yourself. Guys like that. I think Yeah, basically what she's saying is don't ask him if he thinks you're fat. or ugly. |
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Aug 28 2007, 04:19 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 273 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 547,099 |
QUOTE(whatyouneed @ Aug 23 2007, 01:50 AM) i did a quick check of your profile and i think that um basically you're just about hideous. It would just about be Mission Impossible IV. Funny. Very mean, but at the same time very funny. Oh, btw, just as a tip, don't seem self-conscious. BE self-conscious to a certain degree, but let other people THINK you're just being natural. |
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Aug 28 2007, 06:23 AM
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 AttacKATTack! Group: Member Posts: 697 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 536,660 |
This is going to sound very shallow, but stop dressing and calling yourself a goth. It makes you seem less approachable and less friendly. And like you said, it gives people the wrong impression of you.
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