Asking girls to dance... |
 Aug 20 2007, 10:21 AM
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There was this dance at school and none of the guys asked the girls to dance unless they were going out.
There was a slow song on and I was slow dancing with my friend, who was a girl and three guys came up to us and asked us why we were dancing with each other. We just replied "Because noone has asked us to dance" and they walked off. I just wanted to know your guys opinion about asking girls to dance. EDIT Im not asking for advice to ask girls to dance. |
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Aug 20 2007, 12:24 PM
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 isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
well the thing is, guys like to "be cool" and stand against the wall. yes, for the entire length of the dance if they have to. you have a better chance of dancing with a guy if you just walk up to him, smile, and start dancing with him. if you're too shy to do that alone, grab a group of girls and go up to a group of guys and just start dancing..
but for slow dancing, if you don't want to be dancing alone or with your girlfriends, just go up to a boy [ preferably cute ] and just ask him; there is no rule that says girls cannot ask guys to dance. |
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Aug 20 2007, 02:27 PM
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 Ohhh yes. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,148 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,569 |
Just be straight up about it. Go up to her and ask!
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Aug 20 2007, 04:00 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,020 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,785 |
QUOTE(JustinSezRAWR @ Aug 20 2007, 02:27 PM)  Just be straight up about it. Go up to her and ask! Im not asking how to go up to a girl and ask her to dance. Im a girl anyways.. |
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Aug 20 2007, 11:42 PM
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 dammit! Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 544,153 |
You obviously dont need to be going out with someone to dance/slow dance. I usually slow dance with girls i meet through friends or friends of mine who are girls. All you really need to do to ask someone to dance is to have confidence, if you dont have confidence the person you are tryin to ask will probably say "no thanks" because you are not sure of yourself. Always try to stay calm no matter what and just go for it!
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Aug 22 2007, 12:02 AM
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unless you are hella sweaty, smelly, have a unibrow, mustache, or both a guy will most likely not reject you for a slow dance. chances are he is trying to find a chick to slow dance with anyways because he doesn't want to look like a loser & would be more than willing to grab anyone & dance. [:
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