Long distance relationships... Options

[joshpowell]

They're so freaking hard. :(

Thank God for unlimited nights&weekends. :)

That is all.

[*Moderator*]

Yeah, I wouldnt be able to do it. I'd crack. Hows your relationship going? I believe theres a guide for all you need to know about long distance relationships if youd like to take a look.

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=176113

[pinayprincess]

lmao; yeah.. THANK GOD... [seriously]

[joshpowell]

Hows your relationship going?

Pretty good actually. It's only been a little over a month but it's been hard lately because she's started her job and classes are next week so we can't on the phone as much as we used to. But overall so far so good :)

[*Insurmountable*]

They're so freaking hard. :(

Thank God for unlimited nights&weekends. :)

That is all.

OMG I AGREE

I'm talking to my boyfriend right now :D

^Oh yea its going to be hard, but you both have to talk it out and see what times are best to talk with the busy schedules I've been in my ldr for almost 2 years a few more months and we've defiantly had our ups and downs and know since he has a full time job and last year I actually went to public school we didn't have a lot of time to really talk...but we've defiantly got our times out and we usually talk right after 9 til he has to go to bed .

[joshpowell]

Yeah thats what I used to do but now she works from 4-11:30 and my phone curfew is 10:30 :/

I've been sneaking the last couple of nights though

[*ersatz*]

This year my boyfriend and I will probably only be able to do an hour every night...but you gotta do what you gotta do.

[shiftieeyedpnoi]

*goes in a corner and cries his eyes out*

Girlfriend needs her phone back!!!

[*souperstition*]

^No kidding. I'm working on it.

[Smilessss]

i have to admit long distance relationships could be pretty hard at times because im in one right now well for almost two years, but my boyfriend and i still manange through it, i mean we have some hard times with each other, but we always try to fix them any way as we can, cuz thats how loving and caring we are to each other, so i also hope that you and your love one could also make it *n.n* (":

[xxjess-91xx]

My guys moving to Canada a week Tuesday...
Even unlimited calls won't help
Skype here i come!
Never thought I could love someone enough to do this, its strange how you change when something like this happens...two months ago we thought he was staying til chirstmas!

[joshpowell]

Even unlimited calls won't help

Well they do help but you're right it's not the same as being with the person and seeing them and giving them a big hug when they're feeling down :P

Oh well.

And the crazy thing is it's only been like three weeks since I've seen her and it feels like forever. It's my birthday in a month and a half so one of us is going to visit the other then. Can't wait. ^_^

[y0urelectrikk]

mmyeah extremely hard.
I went out with a guy for almost 10 months.. and that was a long distance relationship.

found out later he cheated on me like 5 times.

sooooooo not worth it.

[joshpowell]

mmyeah extremely hard.
I went out with a guy for almost 10 months.. and that was a long distance relationship.

found out later he cheated on me like 5 times.

sooooooo not worth it.

dang that sucks.. sorry to hear about that :/

but for me and my relationship it really is worth it. yeah its hard but we click soooo much it's unreal. Like neither of us even asked the other out.. it was just like felt and known... pretty crazy but really cool. There really is a connection. Like the other day she said she was downloading a Green Day song and I started singing the exact song she was downloading without her telling me. It was weird.

[TimeZonesAway]

wow yeah mad props to anybody who can survive through a long distance relationship


i couldn't even if i wanted to
i liked a guy and in the beginning the only reason i didn't want to date him was because he didn't live in the same district..and i didnt even want to bother.


so if you can make it work.
thumbs up for you

[Jonathan78]

I was asked to be in one on June 21st with someone who found me on a webcam chat site. Sadly, she suddenly just disappeared on me and halted all communications to nothing. I sent her a mobile text message and e-mail message that I don't want anymore. They ARE too difficult and too much of a distance. I don't want to whine, but I feel like I've lost trust in women, be it online long distance or in real life too. If it does work out for other people, then that's great.

[twotootz02]

omg! i had this one dude, called my boyfriend, n wow! he is true my best one ever! no one has every made me smile the way he does, we have the wonderfulest conversations ever! we talk about everything! for me having to go thru so much in past relationshiops he is a real lifesaver! so he happens to live in miami, n i live lik almost 1hr n 15 min away. we've been together for a month n half, be i've known him since may, i got to kno him for 2 month n started going out in july, but wat suckz is that i've only seen him 3 times since i first met him.
nd i haven't told me mom, cuz she is kinda prejudice for nicaraguense. n i dnt kno how to tell her, it means so much to tell her.

any ideas n anyone?!?!
how could i see him often?
how do i tell my mom?

[lilsnoopy]

2 and a half yearsright now

=)

hes my best friend, my love, and my special person
=DDDDDDDDDDDDDD

hes knows me better than anyone

of course we have our ups and downs, but that what makes our relationship so real, even if it is long distance

I live in CA and he lives in new Jersey

sad thing is, we met on myspace!!! XD ahaha omg

[*Insurmountable*]

^HEY THERES NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT!

Me and my love met on myspace too xD almost two years for us

[*Michelle*]

I never wanna be in a long-distance relationship.

I don't think I'd last very long in one... unless it is with someone I've been with for a long time. If I'm single and alone, f**k commitment!

[Jennifer]

I can only imagine how hard a long distance relationship would be..
For me now I'm in the situation where if I wanted to pursue one, and he did too, we could.

But for me.. it'd really feel like somethings missing

So it's gotta be here and now or nothing.

[Comptine]

My boyfriend of 3+ years and I just started college. He's in Pittsburgh and I'm in Boston, which are like 9 hours away from each other.

It's hard knowing that we're so far apart and I miss him. I really wish I could see him. But we have webcams so we can "see" each other and have conversations "face to face". I'm also visiting him soon.

Overall, it's not too hard on my part. I just pretend that we're just busy so we can't see each at the moment like we use to be like before college.

[joshpowell]

For me it's just hard not being able to do things together... or not being able to give a cheer-up hug.. stuff like that.

Shopping by yourself isn't fun :P

[Larentia]

I know, I so agree. But I think it's totally worth it when I see my boyfriend every few months.

My boyfriend lives in Oklahoma and I live in Pennsylvania. It can be difficult, but I love him too much to be scared of the distance.

Stay strong, ladies. =]