free guilt pass? |
 Aug 17 2007, 08:45 AM
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has anybody seen the movie AMERICAN PIE: The naked mile [2006] it was a movie just to see (b/c my boyfriend brought it up) so i was curious... anywho, in the movie the girlfriend mentions a FREE-GUILT-PASS for her boyfriend who was dying to have sex with her... both were virgins, and were both scared...so she allowed the guy to do w/e [including sex] over the weekend to get the feeling over with....
so back to point; would you allow your significant other to have a "free guilt pass"? im in the situation where my boyfriend wants one b/c we havent seen each other... its getting me so mad right now just thinking about it --yes im NOT a virgin --& been together for about 10 months now... |
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| *Insurmountable* |
Aug 17 2007, 10:06 AM
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OMG i would be so f**king mad if my boyfriend actually suggested something like that
 I mean come on, you choose this commitment to be with me and if you don't want to stick by it and be faithful and just want to go fool around with someone else just to make your body happy, thats pathetic. That's like wanting to cheat on me but get my consent first. Oh I've been in a long distance relationship for the past year and a little of half..so I mean since we have been separated for such a long time and only see each other for a week or longer every 6 months then I guess I would be really upset for him to suggest something like that. Oh Also, How much longer until you guys get to see each other and how long has it been so far? And Don't you think when you guys see each other next then you'll be so happy to see each other and he could just unleash all those feelings he wanted to... also don't you think that could really screw up your relationship? Look at it from a bigger picture...if he goes off and fools around with some girl and he likes it...then he could possibly even break up with you to go be with some girl thats closer. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Aug 17 2007, 10:08 AM
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yeah, that would piss me right the fuck off. I would say, "Fuck you Holly.", and I wouldn't expect anything less from her if I asked.
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| *Moderator* |
Aug 17 2007, 10:17 AM
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That sounds so kinky.
 Well, I guess it depends on how much I trust him. But right now, I'm not interested in any of that sexy time stuff. I prefer to cuddle. So, I'm not a big fan of the free guilt pass at the moment.
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Aug 17 2007, 11:25 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
QUOTE(Insurmountable @ Aug 17 2007, 11:06 AM)  Oh Also, How much longer until you guys get to see each other and how long has it been so far? And Don't you think when you guys see each other next then you'll be so happy to see each other and he could just unleash all those feelings he wanted to... also don't you think that could really screw up your relationship? Look at it from a bigger picture...if he goes off and fools around with some girl and he likes it...then he could possibly even break up with you to go be with some girl thats closer. well, we've been together for a while and we've seen each other almost everyday, just the fact that its the summer time and its kind of hard to see each other at the momment, he wanted to have a 'guilt free pass'.. i know those wont work out and chances are that he could move on if that happened... thats why i never believe in BREAKS....urghh sooo complicated! |
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| *Insurmountable* |
Aug 17 2007, 11:30 AM
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Oh so you guys are near just can't see each other as much since its summer and hectic schedules?
Thats pathetic that he would even think of doing something like that. if he wants to do something so bad then tell him to go see you and not just go fool around with some other girl.
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Aug 17 2007, 01:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
we are in two diff states right now [vacationing]
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Aug 17 2007, 02:20 PM
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 sang loves hayden. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,373 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,687 |
I love that movie. =D
But no, I would be quite mad if I did give her a guilt pass. |
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Aug 17 2007, 02:20 PM
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 isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
who wants to have sex just to have sex? especially if you're only a virgin........
what happened to making the first time..SPECIAL 
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| *Sandraaa* |
Aug 17 2007, 02:56 PM
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WTF? I would have left him long ago. The thought of my boyfriend suggesting it disgusts me. Aaaaagghhhhh!!
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| *Insurmountable* |
Aug 17 2007, 04:45 PM
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QUOTE(doiink @ Aug 17 2007, 03:20 PM) who wants to have sex just to have sex? especially if you're only a virgin........ what happened to making the first time..SPECIAL From the poster (creator of the topic) --yes im NOT a virgin |
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Aug 17 2007, 05:56 PM
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(15:53:31) Danielle:
What are you doing? (15:53:41) pse_do ->: http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=182917 (15:53:44) pse_do ->: What do you say? 15:55 (15:56:28) Danielle: rofl wtf (15:56:29) Danielle: NO. 
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| *souperstition* |
Aug 17 2007, 06:10 PM
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wtf Jose xD
Yeah, so you know my answer. Definitely not, just the thought of it happening pisses me off. If it happened, though, he knows I'd just scold him really badly, hold it over his head, and keep going. I'm just that great.
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| *Programmer* |
Aug 17 2007, 06:53 PM
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 he needs a reality check....seriously surprised you didn't bitch smack him threw the phone.
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Aug 17 2007, 09:41 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
i don't think it would be right, i think it's another excuse of just having sex, instead of saying "i had sex with that person because we both agreed. (or something, i don't know, but get what i'm saying?)" OR "i was very vulnerable at that time, so..." well either i think it's wrong, from my opinion.
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Aug 17 2007, 10:10 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
WTF no! I'm sorry, but I'm not going to tell my boyfriend to basically cheat on me with "consent".
good lord, what an idea... |
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