my life is falling apart around me... Options

[Watttt]

hey...im a gay guy. im almost 13 and an sick and tired of everything. noone believes me about my sexuality either saying im too young [although statistics show that most gay people have knew since they were younger] or its a phase. wtf? itd been a little more than 9 monthes. i think thats a little longer than a phase in my opinion. my best friends dont beleive me. one of them started getting angry at me the other day saying "YOUR NOT GAY! SNAP OUT OF IT. JUST BE STRAIGHT EVERYONE WILL LIKE YOU!" everyone acts liek its something i get to decide. even worse is the "how do you know your gay question" there is no real answer for that question...its a feeling inside of you something unexplainable. i just broke up with my boyfriend which makes people thnink im straight because and i quote! "well if you broke up with your boyfriend your obviously not attracted to guys duh"...thats bull****. plus its how self-contradictory everyone is. one minute im a total "f*g-head" the next minute im a "attention seeking loser"...i mean wtf? either you believe me or you dont! im just sick and tired of being ridiculed and pushed around...if anyone wants to share their storys or offer advice it would be highly appreciated

[xcorphz]

I have a friend like you.
In your situation your friends can't accept what you are as for you.
But my friend? We all accepted him for what he really is.
But he didn't act out like some other gays out there wherein they always have a make-up on their face.
He's not like them.
He's kinda unique I think.
He just talk like gay but not too much.
He dresses good. Not like other gays that wore dress almost like a girl. He knows his limitations. And that's what I like best in him. That's why we accepted him coz he's far different from other gays who almost act out as girls.

[nosylilme]

Don't listen to what they say. If they can't accept you for who you are, then ithey're not very good friends. Find other people who are like you, or people who don't care what your sexuality is.

[blacknailpolish]

Thats terrible

You may need to indeed find some new friends who will except you for who you are. This is of course easier said than done, but it would be best for you, it really would...

[*Insurmountable*]

I'm sure theres plenty of other people that could give you better replies then me, although you know even though people are shallow enough to sit there a judge you, Just look at the brighter side of things.

Your still young, you have plenty of life to live. Plenty of better and more mature people to meet and that will accept you for you. Don't let what people say tear you down, I know its really hard but I know you can make it through

Move on from these people that can't possibly accept your or your final decision and find people that will.

[Keriana]

Pretty much repeating what everyone else is saying but my opinion is you need new friends! Real friends are supposed to be there for you when you need a shoulder to cry on. Not tell you you're lying and "act straight"...that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Be who you are and be proud of the person you are! Hope you find your inner strength to be able to fight through this!

[msladyliberty]

You're so young! You shouldn't worry about what others say. If they were really are your friends they'd at least support you. Just be you...that's what's more important. Be true to yourself and you'll be happy.

[towntown2]

I know that it's a hard time for you right now, I'm familiar with your previous topics.
But honestly, this is something that you have to do.
If you are proud of who you are, of your sexuality, of your everything, then getting shit from other people is a small price to pay.

It sucks, but in the long run, hopefully it will make you stronger.
cB is always here if you need to talk.
My PM box is open, too.