Me + Boy = Asking Out = Help |
 Aug 8 2007, 09:27 PM
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 MissCuppyCake ---> I Married The MuffinMan --- <3  Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 551,953  |
Ok....I REALLY like this guy and im pretty sure that he likes me but i dont want to ask him out if he doesnt like me. I have asked guys out buy most of the time i have a friend do it for me or they ask me out. He sorta asked me to hang out with him yesterday but i couldnt go. Help Me.
 This Is Such And Overused Question.....lol |
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| *Steven* |
Aug 8 2007, 10:05 PM
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Ask him if he wants to hang out some other time :)
Find some time you can chill with him then pop the question. If you think he likes you, and he's friendly to you, then no harm no foul in asking him out. |
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Aug 8 2007, 10:47 PM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
QUOTE(MyBeautifulDisaster @ Aug 8 2007, 09:27 PM)  Ok....I REALLY like this guy and im pretty sure that he likes me but i dont want to ask him out if he doesnt like me. obviously not.  glad you're human!QUOTE I have asked guys out buy most of the time i have a friend do it for me or they ask me out. friends asking for you doesn't count! grow some balls... figuratively.  QUOTE He sorta asked me to hang out with him yesterday but i couldnt go. Help Me. This Is Such And Overused Question.....lol then you should've said, maybe another time, and then suggested one. so now, since you like him, just go and say, "hey, i'm sorry that i'm busy -whichever day-. can we hang out -some other day- instead?" you'll do fine, just be confident! |
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| *karmakiller* |
Aug 8 2007, 11:04 PM
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I agree with the people above me. Just put yourself out there. Don't make it seem too formal, though. Asking him if he wants to hang out sometime should be subtle enough.
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Aug 9 2007, 11:17 PM
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 Julia Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 558,064 |
Meh. I'd say go for it. But don't ask through a friend. That's so lame. Definitely from sixth grade, man. Just chill and ask him on a casual date. Don't be like, "HEY! WILL YOU BE MY BOYFRIEND?!" Because that's stupid. People shouldn't just go exclusive with people they've never dated before. I hate that.
If I were you, I'd make it like this (assuming it all goes well): You: Hey, I'd really like to go to dinner or a movie or something like that some time. Would you like to go? Him: Yeah. That sounds great. Just kinda make it obvious you're not asking him out as a friend. But don't be all up on him because that might just freak him out. Well... GOOD LUCK!
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