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| *ersatz* |
 Aug 8 2007, 10:45 AM
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Is it weird for two guys to sleep in the same bed when they're just friends and sleeping over at eachother's house? It's completely normal for girls, but I'm curious about male pajama parties.
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Aug 8 2007, 11:05 AM
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 ~a caged bird sings what you can't understand  Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 550,749 |
I'm a girl and I don't think it is. If it makes you uncomfortable one of you can sleep on the floor, but I don't find anything wrong with it.
Don't be insecure in your manhood 
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| *SinfullySweet* |
Aug 8 2007, 12:12 PM
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ROFL. I dont think boys have Pajama parties
 
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Aug 8 2007, 12:28 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
QUOTE(ersatz @ Aug 8 2007, 10:45 AM)  Is it weird for two guys to sleep in the same bed when they're just friends and sleeping over at eachother's house? It's completely normal for girls, but I'm curious about male pajama parties. honestly, i think it is a little odd... but i mean, i only think that cuz you don't see or hear about it everyday like you do with girls. i don't have a problem with it, though. 
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Aug 8 2007, 12:29 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
when i went and slept at my friends house we just slept in the living room, i slept on one couch and he slept on the other and it was the same way if friends slept at my house. we were like 11 though
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Aug 9 2007, 05:49 PM
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when we had a pull-out sofa-bed, that's what we used for sleepovers since i usually only had one person stay over a night...anyway, we would pull out the bed, and that's what my friend and i would sleep in, in a strictly friends way...now, we've gotten rid of that couch, so i sleep in my bed and my friend sleeps on the chair-bed we have on the floor in my room...
so, to answer the question, no, i dont think it's weird |
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Aug 9 2007, 05:54 PM
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 I'm like a leaf on the wind, watch how I soar Group: Member Posts: 158 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 555,605 |
My friend just sleeps on the floor next to my bed, or vice-versa if I go over his place. Sleeping in the same bed would be a little ... weird, expecially with the guy who usually comes over. He's one of those 'perpetually horny males' So sharing a bed with him would not be my favourite way to spend a Saturday night. |
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| *Sandraaa* |
Aug 9 2007, 06:11 PM
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Hahahaha! I feel so sorry for guys. Everything seems 'odd' and 'gay' to you. *sigh*
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| *Villainess* |
Aug 9 2007, 07:50 PM
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My brother gets co-ed partys since my mum is such a homophobe
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Aug 9 2007, 07:53 PM
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 x_pinaystyle_x Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 366,326 |
QUOTE(Sandraaa @ Aug 9 2007, 04:11 PM) Hahahaha! I feel so sorry for guys. Everything seems 'odd' and 'gay' to you. *sigh* hahaha!! sooo true! but yeahh.. it'd be awkward.. |
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Aug 9 2007, 07:56 PM
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 Naomi loves you. Y'all may call me NaNa Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,925 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 427,774 |
It's not normal for guys to do but guys have sleepover but they don't call it a sleepover. I have brother and their friends spent the night a couple times and their ideal of a night over (I call it that) is sleep on the floor and play video games and if they do smoke and drink and f**k around.
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Aug 9 2007, 08:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 816 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,188 |
QUOTE(ersatz @ Aug 8 2007, 11:45 AM) Is it weird for two guys to sleep in the same bed when they're just friends and sleeping over at eachother's house? It's completely normal for girls, but I'm curious about male pajama parties. My friend has his friends sleep over all the time cause they stay out so late and it's easier. They never sleep in the same bed though...thats...queer... Lol. He has a bed, a couch, a floor and a chair. Pick one. QUOTE(Sandraaa @ Aug 9 2007, 07:11 PM) Hahahaha! I feel so sorry for guys. Everything seems 'odd' and 'gay' to you. *sigh* Hahaha, so true. I've showered with multiple girls before, I've kissed a girl on the cheek and the forehead, I've snuggled with my friends tons of times.... Girls just have an easier time, lol. |
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Aug 10 2007, 05:38 AM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
comon how could that not be uncomfortable dude. i wouldnt want morning wood all up in my face. and when i went to sleepovers(still do ) no sharing beds was allowed its an unspoken rule dude. unless its a girl.
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| *ersatz* |
Aug 10 2007, 10:07 AM
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QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Aug 9 2007, 08:21 PM) Hahaha, so true. I've showered with multiple girls before, I've kissed a girl on the cheek and the forehead, I've snuggled with my friends tons of times.... I shower with other girls in bathing suits, and I definitely cuddle with my friends. I don't know why it's so different. Why aren't we gay if they're gay when they do that? |
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Aug 10 2007, 10:13 AM
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~a caged bird sings what you can't understand Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 550,749 |
Women are just more secure in their sexuality.
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Aug 10 2007, 10:16 AM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(KRASiA @ Aug 10 2007, 10:13 AM) Women are just more secure in their sexuality. i don't think so guys don't want to shower together, guys don't want to cuddle together, i don't get why girls would want to do that either really. but i think i speak for most guys when i say thats just weird to want to cuddle with ur best guy friends, i don't think we ever have any desire to do that. so the reason we don't do it isn't so much because we might get called gay, it's be cause we simply don't want to |
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| *Sandraaa* |
Aug 10 2007, 10:46 AM
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Shower with friends? Unless it's for a VERY special purpose like after gymnastic or something. If not, GTFO. I'd rather shower alone.
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Aug 10 2007, 10:47 AM
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 ٩(●̮̮̃•̃)۶ Group: Official Member Posts: 1,403 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,173 |
Us asians and white kids must be very knit tight cause other day, I showered with 5 other girls and slept in the same bed with 2 other. |
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Aug 10 2007, 10:50 AM
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٩(●̮̮̃•̃)۶ Group: Official Member Posts: 1,403 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,173 |
In bathing suits, stupid. And just in case, I slept with them CLOTHED.
Hi sluthead :) |
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Aug 10 2007, 10:55 AM
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٩(●̮̮̃•̃)۶ Group: Official Member Posts: 1,403 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,173 |
Showering is showering. You can shower with 10 layers of clothes on and it is still a shower.
SLUTHEAD. |
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| *Villainess* |
Aug 10 2007, 10:56 AM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ Aug 10 2007, 02:42 PM) Actually, come to think of it..I never slept with other girls in the bed. Ever since this time me and 5 other girls shared the same bed, and someone wet the bed. We were FIFTEEN. So now, unless your name is Lupe Fiasco, I am not sleeping with you. = ] Suzzette you never told me you still wet the bed. Awwwwww there are pills you can take for that. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Aug 10 2007, 11:48 AM
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True story... this one time I had this kid sleep over my house. We slept in the same bed. It wasn't awkward until the next day when I walked into my room after getting dressed and taking a shower only to see him sucking his own dick off...
I immediately turned around and walked out of the room. I was disgusted. I couldn't believe someone would do that to my poor room. I was supposed to be the first one to get his dick sucked in that room (Little did I know, that wouldn't happen for another 7 years... :[). He never noticed me sneak out... but when he came out of my room he asked me for some tissues... Dx I will never sleep in the same bed as another guy unless it's a matter of warmth... after that incident only once have I slept in the same place as another guy. Me and one of my best friends were at a camping party... we forgot to bring sleeping bags and blankets so we had to huddle up for warmth. |
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| *ersatz* |
Aug 10 2007, 11:52 AM
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Too bad that's impossible.
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Aug 10 2007, 12:30 PM
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Its ok im not laughing at you suzzette.Im sure there are lots of kids at 15 that still piss themselves.
No seriously are you sure someone pissed?Cause maybe on of your friends like brought water to bed or something.Cause to piss in bed at 15 is rareeeeeeeeeee.But then again there was that one girl you talk about that shit all over the toilet so....who the hell knows.it was probably her that time too. |
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Aug 10 2007, 12:34 PM
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Man you need to find friends that wont shit and piss on your things.
I make a good canidate 
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Aug 10 2007, 12:53 PM
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You should just be like "Some s**c from ireland keeps talking about pissing and shitting on things"
Well,As for my sleepovers my house always ended up trashed we shared a bed but i assure you nothing sexual happened(We were all 14/15).There was that one girl that one of my stupid friends brought last min unexpectedly.My friends made her cry because she was a bit chunky and they are all whores and then not to mention she kept farting and blamed other people so everyone got pissed off and kept being really mean. God i hate women. |
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Aug 10 2007, 01:05 PM
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 Ohhh yes. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,148 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,569 |
It is weird... it just is.
My friends usually just sleep on the floor. |
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Aug 10 2007, 02:31 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
I think is a little strange if two guys sleep in the same bed.
Girls on the other hand, its not. I usually sleep on one part of the reclining couch and my friends on the other half. |
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Aug 10 2007, 10:00 PM
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 Break My Heart Again. Group: Official Designer Posts: 480 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,983 |
QUOTE(brownsugar @ Aug 10 2007, 11:33 AM) Rofl, maybe I'm different. I sure as hell wouldn't want to shower with my friends, or CUDDLE with them...!?!?!?!? What the hell, haha. hahaha, ditto. unless the friend is male, then no.  ------ as for sleeping in the same bed as other girls, i've done it before, especially since in this choral group i was in, on trips you had four people to a hotel room (two beds). i don't really see a problem with members of the same sex sleeping in the same bed...i mean, unless they're like putting the moves on you, haha, then it's just sleeping.... but then again, that's just me, haha. |
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Aug 10 2007, 11:41 PM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
The choice at my house would be floor or couch. Take your choice, because the bed be mines, yo.
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| *SinfullySweet* |
Aug 11 2007, 01:13 AM
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I would crack up so badly if one of my guy friends had to sleep in the same bed with another one of my guy friends. kekeke :]
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Aug 11 2007, 03:48 AM
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we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
i even see girls holding hands together. when there not lez. Thats why i believe being lez is a choice!
and i even see the occasional girls that makeout with each other which (isnt really hot btw) and grab each others tatas. yea girls can do w/e they want. but guys shouldnt sleep with each other in same bed theres not room for two men in one bed. |
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Aug 11 2007, 05:59 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 816 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,188 |
QUOTE(brownsugar @ Aug 10 2007, 11:49 AM) YOU SHOWERED WITH THEM NAKED? I've showered with other girls naked before. It's no big deal. We have boobs. We have vagina's. It's not like we're touching each other, and wet girls don't turn me on, so it's normal. I had to shower with at least one girl every time I took a shower at camp. We had a time limit and not enough showers. Maybe it's just me, but I'm not scared of being naked. I know my body isn't perfect, but it's not like a bunch of girls care, specially when your friends with them. I also don't see a problem with cuddling with my friends... I like to cuddle, I have friends, it makes sense! Friends are like family, but who wants to actually cuddle with there family anymore? lol |
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Aug 12 2007, 01:19 AM
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well...idk if it's weird
but my cousin slept over, and i hated sleeping with him. (he's really fat..soo yeah...ughhh) |
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Aug 12 2007, 08:57 AM
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QUOTE(ersatz @ Aug 8 2007, 04:45 PM) Is it weird for two guys to sleep in the same bed when they're just friends and sleeping over at eachother's house? It's completely normal for girls, but I'm curious about male pajama parties. Not really... I mean, if it's a double bed, and people are wearing pajama bottoms, or even boxers... Hell, in a double bed, there is less actual contact than if you were sitting next to each other on a bus or something... It's all just a security thing. Having said that, I haven't slept over at someones house with JUST guys in about four years... And normally we all just crash on the floor of the living room or something, rather than finding beds... It isn't that it would be weird, so much as it just doesn't happen. Besides, there is always topping and tailling. 
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Aug 20 2007, 10:07 AM
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Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(Uronacid @ Aug 10 2007, 12:48 PM) True story... this one time I had this kid sleep over my house. We slept in the same bed. It wasn't awkward until the next day when I walked into my room after getting dressed and taking a shower only to see him sucking his own dick off... Omg LMAO that would be so weird to see someone doing that in my bed. |
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Aug 22 2007, 02:22 AM
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 sang loves hayden. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,373 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,687 |
Well, I remember YEARS ago when me & my friend(s) ( and sometimes his sister and her friends ), like 3rd grade through 5th grade we would sleep on the same bed after playing hours of video games ( SUPER NINTENDO WOO!! )and eating food late @ night. We would spend the night often at each other houses. It wasn't odd though since we're young.
But now, someone would have the floor, couch, or bed. I always take the bed if it's my house, lol. |
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Aug 22 2007, 06:31 AM
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neh i don't think it's weird. then again i don't really think about stuff like that. and neither do my guy friends. if you're sleepy and the bed is there then sleep. they wouldn't really think twice about it.
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Aug 22 2007, 05:54 PM
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I think it's kinda weird that you said pajama party..
But naw, i think it's fine =] |
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Aug 22 2007, 06:43 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
QUOTE(Uronacid @ Aug 10 2007, 12:48 PM) Me and one of my best friends were at a camping party... we forgot to bring sleeping bags and blankets so we had to huddle up for warmth. Isn't that from Without A Paddle?
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Aug 22 2007, 11:44 PM
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 Whitney Loves Girls Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 474,377 |
girls don't think it's weird for guys to sleep at each others houses. just don't sleep in the same bed and don't tell girls about it.
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Aug 23 2007, 03:18 AM
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 Home is where your rump rests! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969 |
This totally reminds me of how girls can say another girl is hot, but I guy says another guy is good looking and it's like 'OMG I should've known that he's gay!'
For an MUN conference, four boys had to sleep on two beds, and nobody had a problem at all. 
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Aug 23 2007, 01:30 PM
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for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
I don't find it weird if guys sleep on the same bed. My friends wouldn't think twice about it.
If I'm sleeping over I usually sleep on the same bed with girls. Last time we slept on the same couch and it wasn't very comfortable. -____- |
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Aug 24 2007, 09:22 PM
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^ You took up most of the space. As for the topic, I don't find it weird. For some reason, I actually like it when guys can be comfortable around each other.
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Aug 25 2007, 10:13 PM
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i have been laughing my ass off ever since i started reading this.... me, personally i wouldn't sleep in the same bed as another guy but next to them on the floor on on the couch with seperate blankets is nbd
I don't have a problem showering with another guy if its for sports or something but just for the hell of it is a no no |
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Aug 25 2007, 11:35 PM
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 Fellatio. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,122 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,775 |
I dont find it that odd. Whenever we sleepover or w/e, if the bed or couch is big enough we sleep on opposite sides of the couch, so that our feet our near each others heads. But if were in a hotel, I don't mind sharing a bed (unless its with someone I dislike), cause I'll be damned if I'm sleeping on the floor. Bitch PLease!
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Aug 26 2007, 01:46 AM
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for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
QUOTE(jue @ Aug 24 2007, 10:22 PM) ^ You took up most of the space. As for the topic, I don't find it weird. For some reason, I actually like it when guys can be comfortable around each other. NO it was you and your huge bootayy. 
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Nov 24 2007, 12:05 PM
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me and my friend share the same bed when he sleeps over. nothing gay ever happened. he is a cover hog though
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Nov 24 2007, 01:03 PM
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It just sounds gay. Not the sort of thing to let slip in casual conversation, y'know?
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Nov 30 2007, 12:26 AM
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I don't think it is?
I always hear my guy friends talking about how they do it... it gives me a good laugh, but if they're comfortable with it.. I say GO FOR IT! |
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