How do i kno if i should move on or not? Options

[kselbyballer14]

so me and this guy have been dating for 10months and he was the love of my life. alot of firsts with him and i was alot of firsts for him. well jux say we both were first loves to each other. but anywho-we broke up after 10months bc he was too busy and i was too busy and we hardly saw each other, and he started talkin to other girls. we didn't talk for almost 2months after we broke up and within that time, i met someone else, but it didn't work out bc i still had feelings for my ex. Once me and my ex started talking again, we met up at an old spot by the creek and on the train tracks where we'd watch the sun go down and talk, and when we were there he talked bout how he missed me and how we'd get back together as soon as summer was over bc he had been busy with baseball for the remainder of the summer, he also said how much he still loved me and was sorry for hurting me and i.e. before he left, he kissed me, a longer more passionate kiss than jux a kiss. Three hours later before i went to bed i checked my messages and he left me one saying "sorry, i didn't mean to lead you on but, i have feelings for another girl." my heart shattered but for some reason i still love him. this other girl isn't pretty and she isn't nice and i'm pretty sure the majority of people would agree. i miss him a lot and i don't kno what to do. is he serious with this girl, or is he just getting me back for being with someone else awhile after we broke up? i want to move on, but then again it hurts, and i miss him. its like i have a feeling that when school does start, we'll b together again. but theres that other girl. what do i do?

[perfezione]

You can't get him, he has another girl who he likes more than you.

Theres more to life than just trying to find love and stupid shit.
Love is really just a made up thing you're lead into believing. Its more like a deep infatuation and desire. now GTFO

[*mzkandi*]

You know, yeah, it hurts but you got to keep moving. I really don't understand why he would tell you all of that and later that night (it was later that night, right?) tell you he has a thing for another girl. Kinda seems like he was leading you on on purpose. But now it doesn't matter now, move on!

[towntown2]

I have a feeling that if you continue this..thing with the boy, you'll end up getting hurt multiple times.
Then, you'll post more topics similar to this one on this forum.
I wouldn't be surprised right now if he knows that this is your weakness and he's using it against you.
If you keep believing what he says and meeting him at the park like you do now, your heart will be shattered even more.

He doesn't really miss you if he has feelings for other girls.
He's just playing you, so don't give in.
Move on and find somebody who really will be worth your time.

[MissFits]

You can't get him, he has another girl who he likes more than you.

Theres more to life than just trying to find love and stupid shit.
Love is really just a made up thing you're lead into believing. Its more like a deep infatuation and desire. now GTFO

You are wrong.
You love your parents, don't you? If you have kids you love them, right? Siblings, cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents, friends? Same thing.
Love is COMPLETELY real.

[blacknailpolish]

Love is really just a made up thing you're lead into believing. Its more like a deep infatuation and desire.

^You poor, cynical person...

Yes, this boy is messing with your head, bigtime. He kisses you like that and then changes his mind...you just need to forget about him. Leave him and his ugly girlfriend be, he can do whatever he wants now.

[sweetest-emotion]

yikes this is no fun!! i know how it feels to want your ex back sooo bad, but he says there's another girl. here's what i did (now my ex and i are getting back together )
tell him how you feel. say all the mean nasty things that you have boiled up inside you. no matter what you say thinking that "he could do no wrong" oh trust me, the harsh words will come out. but that way you'll never have to know "what if" if you hadn't said those words. you know they're building up inside you...
also, sadly, let it go. if he says there's another girl, and you know for a fact there is one he's interested in (with my ex he said that he was still in love with his ex, which turned up to be just to be "i saw her again and since we're 300 miles apart i missed you but geared my feelings towards my ex"), there really is nothing solid you can do. if two people are meant to be together (like you and your ex) then love will find it's way.
don't let it get to you. yes see him and be friends. he'll see what a jerk he was and he'll come running back to you. the saying "never know what you have till it's gone" is SO true. my ex realized that he missed me way too much and thought that what we had was worth going for it again. seriously he'll wake up one day and say what the hell?!
if you guys are meant to be together then it WILL happen! but be prepared to move on if things don't go as planned. you deserve better than this guy! for now just have fun being single, maybe date around see what you like, but never seem too available that you've been waiting for him, you know? just wait. you'll see!