do you have any problems.., finding a place to be alone? Options

[fathomlessdame]

i'm sure the older ppl have no problem lol. but for those ppl like me that have to worry about your mom or dad coming in or whatever on you..

but yea, i have no clue what to do about actually having some alone time with my bf where we can make out and stuff with no one catching us..cuz i would be in big shit if my mom saw me doing anything. my bf came over last night, and i wouldnt really do anything with him cuz i didnt want my sis to turn up and tattle, or even worse my mom. once the school yr starts, david and i will probably do what we did last year--go to this one stair way that goes like no where and where no one goes and have fun there..but its so easy for a teacher or someone even more important like a bouncer or dean to find us.

but does anyone else have problems like this? what do you do?

[temporary-insani...]

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[Comptine]

What about his place?

It's quite obvious what me and boyfriend do when we lock ourselves in his room but his mom doesn't really care.

[silver-rain]

Well with my ex, we would go to him place and his family/parents didn't care. They would treat me as part of the family. And during the school year, we would hang out in the park and had a little nook where we would go that no one else visited where we'd make out.
Eh, with this current guy we have no where to go really, so we stand on my block and kiss/make out and sometimes it gets really awkward when people walk by ahah.

[nosylilme]

My parents don't like my boyfriend and I upstairs alone so they send my sister to tag along. Eventually, she gets bored and leave us alone in my room. Then we can do whatever. Well almost whatever.
His parents dont really care, or aren't there when I go over to his house. That's when we can do whatever.

[Becks539]

I have never had this problem. Last ex we'd just go in his basement and his parents never go down there, half the time I don't even think they knew I was there...

But now with my current boyfriend, my parents love that kid. I can go in my room and have the door shut and they won't once come in. When we're in the basement with the door shut and my parents need me they just yell from the stairs.Haha, I love my parents.

But now at his house, it's a really wide open house and when we go in the basment usually his dad is just dying to do something on the computer that minute and comes down and sits down there for a good chunk of time...

So yeah, not really a problem..

[sweetest-emotion]

oh hunny wait until college! then you'll have some fun! lol. umm well whenever i had a bf in high school and he came over we always went to my basement and had fun then. my parents knew to respect my privacy, and your's should too! how old are you? if you know you're going against your parents rules then maybe you should just talk to them about it. have you ever thought about going to his place?