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post Jul 31 2007, 01:51 AM
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i have a boyfriend... well i consider him as my ex even though im still attach to him. problem is... i don't like him anymore.. but he's threatening me that if i did break up with him.. he's gonna hurt ALL OF MY FRIENDS... so what i did.. im still with him in order for him not to hurt them.. however, i like this one guy.. and we're kinda going out too.. i mean.. i wanna be with the guy that i love not to my so-called boyfriend who cause me too much problems and also threatens me.. also, my immediate friends tell me that i have a choice but i believe.. my only choice.. is my friends... or me.. both lives are affected. so, if anyone.. please help me.. with this.. i wanna get over with him as soon as i can... and also as much as i wanted to.
 
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 01:53 AM
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report his ass to a counselor..or consider getting a restraint order...
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 02:06 AM
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go to your parents notify the school counselor and get him thrown in juvenile hall for threating the well being of your friends and you.

you should really notify your parents.
So they can notify his.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 02:18 AM
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I read from some article that people who usually pose threats don't really mean it, & just do it to keep you captive. Or something.

But yeah, dump his sorry ass & tell a trusted adult about this.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 02:18 AM
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is he serious? if so then yea.. go tell your parents/school staff.

or do it the "teenage" way and tell one of your protective friends.

i'm not saying there's something wrong with telling your parents or staff though. i recommend telling them so things won't get out of hand.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 08:09 AM
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I think he has an insecurity problem. Try and talk it out with him.. Or find help. RIGHT AWAY
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 08:23 AM
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He's not worth your time of day. Just do w/e you can to get rid of him. Don't let him apologize and get a 2nd chance or w/e either, it'll just happen again.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 09:15 AM
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Try and talk to him.. ask him why he'd want to hurt your friends. Ask him if he's being serious or he's just playing around.

And if he's still persistant.. report it to an adult like your parents or his.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 09:17 AM
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I'm sure she's tried talking already. Report him. Get the popo up his ass. Get a restraining order. Stay as far away from him as possible. If all else fails go to Dr. Phil.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 01:18 PM
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Try and talk to him.. ask him why he'd want to hurt your friends. Ask him if he's being serious or he's just playing around.


I'm sorry, but I kind of had to laugh at this....

Yeah, definetly report him to someone, don't take any chances. If he's not joking (and it sounds like hes not...or else he has a REALLY SICK sense of humor...), I don't think you'd want to give him the chance to act on his words...
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 01:39 PM
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CALL THE POLICE! THERES A MAD MAN AROUND.

^Petshop boys <33 sorry.

But seriously.Thats abuse and dont let him shit on you or make you feel that you have to be stuck with him or else.Thats not love.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 02:35 PM
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Tell your parents, call the cops. Its as simple as that. This is the kind of thing you see on the news, under "womans body found".
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 03:10 PM
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QUOTE(lol lollipops @ Jul 31 2007, 03:18 AM) *
I read from some article that people who usually pose threats don't really mean it, & just do it to keep you captive. Or something.

But yeah, dump his sorry ass & tell a trusted adult about this.


I agree. I had an ex that said he would commit suicide if I broke up with him, but later he told me that he really had no intentions of committing suicide, he just didn't want me to break up with him.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 03:59 PM
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tell ur parents, school counslers, someone... dont hold it all in cuz all ur doing is hurting yourself. you can also go to the police and get a restraining order or a PPO. what ever makes you feel safe.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 05:06 PM
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Report him to a teacher, counselor, principal, or parent right away! good luck :X
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 08:19 PM
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Tell him sternly that you want nothing to do with him.
Be strong about it, too, so he sees that you're not f--king around.
If he looks like he's going to hurt you and your friends, then contact an adult [be it parents, teacher, counselors] immediately so they can take action and prevent further harm.
 
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post Aug 1 2007, 05:41 PM
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kick him in the balls, then proceed to kick his psycho bitch ass...then you should definite call the cops..then maybe an ambulance
 
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post Aug 1 2007, 06:49 PM
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kick him in the balls, then proceed to kick his psycho bitch ass...then you should definite call the cops..then maybe an ambulance

ROFL thats a good one... why dont u just tell her to castrated him. lol. but that could prolly end you w/some sitten in jail. but either way id prolly do it! LOL. but thats not the best way. good but bad no offense dude!
 
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post Aug 1 2007, 07:35 PM
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Deffinately tell the cops and inform your friends of what's going on.
 
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post Aug 1 2007, 09:29 PM
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You realize if he finds out you're seeing another guy besides him, he'll most likely be really angry.


She has a really good point, all the more reason for you to call the cops NOW.
 
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