Do you believe in second chances?, Do you? |
 Jun 16 2004, 12:49 PM
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 Tina + Tommy  Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575  |
if ur exs kame crawling back to you and wants you to take them back would you?
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Jun 16 2004, 12:51 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Depends on the circumstances of the breakup. I mean, if your ex cheated on you or something like that, I personally don't think it's worth going back for. Who knows if he/she would be cheating again? But if it were something like, he/she needed space, or if you did, and nothing was actually wrong then...yeah I guess so. I guess it just depends...
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Jun 16 2004, 01:14 PM
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 you need me like a bad habbit Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,755 |
yea i aree with tainted_angel.. it all depends.. i mean if you guys broke up because he was a total jerk.. or he left you for someone else or something.. then i wouldnt take them back. no matter how much i want them back. to me, it would be a matter of principal.. i dont know.. just my opinion on it..
-emma!! |
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Jun 16 2004, 01:30 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
yess depends really.. i would only take one back.. which was my first love!! but the others nahh.
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Jun 16 2004, 03:37 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
depends.
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Jun 16 2004, 04:08 PM
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 t3h koolest guy in cB Group: Member Posts: 2,194 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 513 |
if they f*cked up the first time by doing sumfin dumb, then no. i have gave a seccond chance for that, and thats the only time i will ever do that again.
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Jun 16 2004, 05:26 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
depends...lols...if they really love you...then sure why tha not...but if you know that they're juz gonna use you then...how bout no....
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Jun 16 2004, 08:55 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
well no not rite now cuz im taken, but if i waznt it would depend. if tha guy cheated on me then no, i would neva go bac with him.
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Jun 17 2004, 12:23 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,989 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,691 |
It depends if you still like/love the person.
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Jun 17 2004, 09:26 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
It depends on why we broke up in the first place and what I feel for him now.
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Jun 17 2004, 09:35 AM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
i think it would depend on how much damage he did to your heart.
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Jun 17 2004, 09:53 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
well, it depends on the matter of how we broke up, and what i feel for him now. like, if my ex came back to me, i'd probably go back with him because i still like him, and we split up amicabl. but if he cheated on me, no way.
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Jun 17 2004, 10:00 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
if you feel the person truly learned and deserves that second chance there's no reason why it's wrong ..
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Jun 18 2004, 07:56 PM
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I think I probably would would, but I alrerady know that would be a stupid mistake
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Jun 18 2004, 08:52 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
QUOTE(tainted_angel @ Jun 16 2004, 10:51 AM) Depends on the circumstances of the breakup. I mean, if your ex cheated on you or something like that, I personally don't think it's worth going back for. Who knows if he/she would be cheating again? But if it were something like, he/she needed space, or if you did, and nothing was actually wrong then...yeah I guess so. I guess it just depends... Took the words right out of my mouth 
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Jun 18 2004, 09:02 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
QUOTE(x0xcrzybabyx0x @ Jun 16 2004, 1:14 PM) yea i aree with tainted_angel.. it all depends.. i mean if you guys broke up because he was a total jerk.. or he left you for someone else or something.. then i wouldnt take them back. no matter how much i want them back. to me, it would be a matter of principal.. i dont know.. just my opinion on it.. -emma!! exactly! |
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Jun 19 2004, 06:21 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
i said yes because i dunno thats just how i am...
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Jun 19 2004, 08:58 PM
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 </3 hEaRtS aRe MaDe 2 bE bRoKn Group: Member Posts: 224 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,131 |
yes..
and 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th, 7th, 8th, 9th, 10th... ETC. chances.. i forgive easily..  thats just how i am..
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Jun 21 2004, 03:33 PM
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 100% Puertorriqueńa Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,920 |
It depends on the situation and how bad or good it was.
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Jun 22 2004, 02:05 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 521 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,812 |
no.
 the past is the past, and i like to keep it that way. seems kind of..cruel, especially if the guy didn't do anything, and it was my fault. the good part//there will be no chances for me.  so, yay, justice served. kind of.yes, i'm retarded.
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Jun 22 2004, 08:00 AM
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 I know who you did last night Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,988 |
yea i believe in second chances, not like girls give me that option though
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Jun 22 2004, 03:28 PM
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 [*]i AM your star!![*] Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,520 |
There is no way I would take my Ex back...That punk ask me to marry him then 3months later left me, after I had already picked out my wedding dress....Yah aint that some BS...Guys suck. Luckly I have an awesome guy now but its only been two months so we will see :o)
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Jun 22 2004, 03:33 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
We will bury you.
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Jun 22 2004, 05:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 405 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,232 |
that would depend on why you split up in the first place... i know i would want a 2nd chance. wouldnt u?
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Jun 30 2004, 11:40 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
I usually do .. but it depends what dey did
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Jun 30 2004, 11:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,406 |
i did give someone a second change.. they still didnt treasure that.. so.. it really depends how u feel toward him/her and if u believe u guys can work things out
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Jul 1 2004, 01:26 AM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i think it depends.. it depends on how long its been since the break up.. depends how he/she is.. if he/she is the same person u first fell in love with.. did he/she change.. for better or worst? lol
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Jul 3 2004, 02:11 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
QUOTE(conster @ Jul 1 2004, 2:26 AM) i think it depends.. it depends on how long its been since the break up.. depends how he/she is.. if he/she is the same person u first fell in love with.. did he/she change.. for better or worst? lol ^ exactly what i was thinking. |
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Jul 3 2004, 02:15 AM
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 Pimp Status Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,200 |
Yeah second chacnes depends. I guess there is a fine line between the chances that you get and the chances you want. OFten times I wish I could get another chance with my ex. I think if you really like someone a second chance always exists...
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Jul 3 2004, 12:59 PM
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it definitely depends on what they did. be careful, once a cheater...always a cheater.
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Jul 3 2004, 08:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
it all depends on what the guy did to you
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Jul 3 2004, 10:19 PM
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 Liz Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,374 |
Yeah, I believe in second chances.
With the boyfriend I'm with now, we went out last year before school started for about 2 weeks. The next year, about the same time, we started going out again. I didn't think it would last long, but its been going strong for over 10 months now. I never thought that me and him would of gone out again. Hes used to be one of the people who liked a lot of girls, but didn't really go out with them or keep up a relationship. Heck, his longest relationship before me was for 29 days, and he didn't even really like them. Me and him are eachothers longest, and pretty much eachothers first "real" love. He means the world to me and vice versa. Sometimes, second chances can happen unexpectably, and you might not think it'll work out, but it does. And I'm glad it did.  Sorry if I sound so sappy. lolo. - L i Z (Happily in love with Randy )
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Jul 4 2004, 10:47 PM
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 weeEee *smack* Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,490 |
Yes, but their's a difference between being tolerable and being a pushover. You need to know where to draw the line. Sounds so cute with miss tragedy and her boyfriend though..good example of second chances working out
-Teressa |
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Jul 5 2004, 09:41 AM
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it depends on if i could trust him again or not....
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Jul 14 2004, 01:08 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
it depends
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Jul 14 2004, 01:23 PM
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Liz Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,374 |
QUOTE(xoterezza @ Jul 4 2004, 10:47 PM) Yes, but their's a difference between being tolerable and being a pushover. You need to know where to draw the line. Sounds so cute with miss tragedy and her boyfriend though..good example of second chances working out -Teressa Awwww, thanks.  - L i Z |
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Jul 14 2004, 01:51 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
if the person really loved u then u shouldnt have broke up in thje first place, unless its they tell u they made a mistake ..... i guess u should give it another shot.... other wise NO!
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Jul 14 2004, 01:53 PM
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 i`m in love & always will be Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,769 |
Yeah I do believe in second chances.. all the time.
i guess thats just how I am. everyone makes mistakes & stuff so yeah. but if the guy dosent give me a chance to give him another chance then its over |
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Jul 14 2004, 02:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Depends on the situation.
If the guy cheated on you, nope. Sorry, but I'm not attracted to jerks. If it's because you fighted and broke it off just like that, then I guess I would. Especially if I still liked him. 
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Jul 14 2004, 02:39 PM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Depends on what really happened to make us break up. But overall, I believe in second chances..
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Jul 14 2004, 07:24 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
depends wht they did
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Apr 7 2007, 10:35 AM
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well, do you still like him? if u guys broke up because of sth stupid, sure why not. if he did something unfaithful to you then its really up to you. if you bother thinking "if there are second chances" then 70% of your heart feels that you want to get back with him. but.. couples break up for a REASON, unless the reason is really lame, most of the time, if you get back with him, the reason will come back again and you guys might break up again .
like my situation, i was with my ex for 9 months on and off going? we were together for 4 straight months and then.. it was just on and off. the reason was that we didnt see each other and we just had lame excuses. back then i didnt care because i really liked her . and yes i do believe in 2nd chances. however, i gave her my 2nd chance, even my 3rd, even my 4th, and at the end, she cheated on me while i was gone . hmm yeah. ask you friends.. see how they feel about it. |
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Apr 7 2007, 10:39 AM
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Usualy its a no.But some occasions ill give another chance.
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Apr 7 2007, 01:40 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Depends on the situation really...with my current boyfriend, if we were to break up, and if he were to ask for a second chance I'd give it to him because I know him well enough to know that he wouldn't do things on purpose to hurt me.
But for stuff like cheating...nah. I doubt I can forgive him if he were to do that. |
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Jan 9 2008, 01:18 AM
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 CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
Yeah, I do. Everyone makes mistakes and can change their ways especially if they put their heart into it. Just be certain that they do deserve another shot and won't just waste your time by not even compromising. Some people will never change, not even for themselves.
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Jan 9 2008, 10:59 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
It may not make sense to my friends, but I would take him back in a second.
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Jan 9 2008, 11:00 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,782 |
Depends. But if you broke up with them once for some reason, would it ever really work again?
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Jan 9 2008, 11:12 AM
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 Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
Yes and no.
If my trust were utterly betrayed, then absolutely not. |
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Jan 9 2008, 11:23 AM
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 I am a ninja. Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 605,151 |
Probably not. I don't really do second chances, especially if someone completely screws me over.
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Jan 9 2008, 11:24 AM
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 This bag is not a toy. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,090 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 583,108 |
Not anymore.
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Jan 9 2008, 12:40 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
Definitely not. Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on ME.
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Jan 9 2008, 05:25 PM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
It doesn't depend for me. I know what constitutes as "screwing me over," and if I entrust that much in a person and they still mess it up, f**k them.
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Jan 9 2008, 05:27 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Depends on the case.
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Jan 9 2008, 05:36 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Jan 9 2008, 05:25 PM)  It doesn't depend for me. I know what constitutes as "screwing me over," and if I entrust that much in a person and they still mess it up, f**k them. Amen to that. |
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Jan 10 2008, 06:30 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,750 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,581 |
I believe in second chances.
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