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 Jul 24 2007, 07:38 PM
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maybe it is just me but just recently i broke up with my boyfriend of two years. me and him had some ups and downs. but this past few months have proved to me that nothing in our relationship seems to be going right. first he starts to tell me that i cant go out wiht my friends so i was sorta mad about it. afterwards he goes out with his friends on top of that he makes plans with me but he cancels out on me because he has to go hang out with his friend so i pretty much couldn't take it anymore and broke up with him. he's telling me im being stupid but i honestly think it was the right thing to do
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| *Michelle* |
Jul 24 2007, 07:41 PM
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erm... that doesn't sound like very much to me (from what you've described). I think it would have been a better idea to discuss with him how you feel. It may have been just him being a little more protective than you are used to, and you didn't like it. Just ending it b/c of a few mishaps and errors is not always the best thing to do.
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Jul 24 2007, 07:45 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
So...what's the problem? He was being dumb and you broke up with him...what's wrong?
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Jul 25 2007, 12:55 AM
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 ~a caged bird sings what you can't understand Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 550,749 |
Trust your instincts. But keep in mind working relationships require compromise and communication.
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| *Elba* |
Jul 25 2007, 01:10 AM
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I hate it when they cancel on you for their stupid friends
 Anyway, if he is "allowed" to go out with his friends, then you should be "allowed" to go out with yours. He sounds a bit childish. I think it was a good idea to break up with him. You don't need a guy who is going to be setting rules like that. It's just stupid. |
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| *Sandraaa* |
Jul 25 2007, 01:39 AM
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Definitely a good idea. He's got NO right telling you what to do. His excessive jealousy is just starting, good thing you got out early.
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| *Elba* |
Jul 25 2007, 01:40 AM
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You say you were with him for two years--was he always like that?
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Jul 25 2007, 09:38 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
Did you ever try to work on the problem prior to the break up?
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Jul 26 2007, 12:37 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(Elba @ Jul 25 2007, 02:10 AM)  I hate it when they cancel on you for their stupid friends Anyway, if he is "allowed" to go out with his friends, then you should be "allowed" to go out with yours. He sounds a bit childish. I think it was a good idea to break up with him. You don't need a guy who is going to be setting rules like that. It's just stupid. Agreed. |
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Jul 28 2007, 04:58 PM
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you don't need him.
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