...A Little Confused..lol Options

[JonathanK]

K so well there is this girl i like (common situation for me )
And well over the past few months seems we've been getting closer ex. we talk more often, she jogs with me now and then, she asks me to visit her at work. So you know everything is gonig great, I was thinking about asking her out cause i don't know if she really does like me or is just teasing me *shrugs*. So i hear a couple of days ago that she met some guy out of the blue and she kinda likes him.

I don't know im just confused a bit and stuff now. Like i've been really ncie to her and stuff, and there when she had some problems. And iunno kinda just goes out and likes some random guy she met for 15 minutes. Her friend told me she doesn't know what she wants, either to have fun, be in a relationship, or be single. I don't know just kidna cofusing if she does not know what she wants but might start dating another guy. *i guess the random thoughts and choices of a teenage girl*

So i guess my question is what should i do? Like i don't know if this thing with that other guy is gonna last. Last relationship she was in lasted about 3 days. So should i just be a really good friend right now, wait it out see how things last and be there for her when she needs me, or should i just say *screw it* and move on. I have liked this girl for a while now. Thanks for the response. Appreciate It

[*Sandraaa*]

I'd say you wait and see. I'm not telling you to put your life on hold but don't stop liking her. She's confused. If she really ends up liking this other guy, then move on.

[JonathanK]

Hey thanks for the reply. I've been thinknig really and stuff like this takes time. And try not to rush things. I don't want to be like most guys and cofuse her being kind to me, as if she likes me. I guess if i just stay by her side for now eventually it will grow on her.

[EmoEyelinerx]

I think that you should just wait and see what happens with her and this other guy. It seems to me that shes a little confusedIf it doesent work out with her and the other guy maybe try asking her out?

[*Moderator*]

Well, since this girl doesn't know what she wants at the moment, I suggest you don't get too attached. She can either choose to stay single or go for one of her choices. Just don't make her your top priority.

[JonathanK]

thnaks for posting...lol i was starting to think no one would

[*MyMichelle*]

I think you should tell her that you like her... but make sure first that her and the other boy are not actually in the stages of where they're about to date. Maybe she never mentioned that she liked you b/c she just thought you thought of her only as a friend. Or the other way around... either way, you should find out how she feels about you first before just giving up.

[JonathanK]

thanks sounds pretty good. thing is i am like 99.99% sure that she knows i like her. Lately i kinda of made it obvious and stuff and even her friend knows, so im thinknig that if her friend knows she would porbably know either from how i am or her friend telling her.

[*Sandraaa*]

If she knows you like her and hasn't acted upon the hints then she needs time. She probably doesn't want to rush things with you since you're very close friends. If you rush things, you might end up breaking up and not going really far in your relationship because she's confused. Give her some time to figure out what she wants, let her chill and have some 'fun'.

I'm going through this (somewhat) right now, I rushed things and I regret it.

[JonathanK]

hey sry to hear about that. We always learn from our mistakes so i hope you do well in the furute. I value my friendship with her, but always wanted more. But i just need to chill and do what i've been doing from day one and that is a good friend. Give her some time to *chill and have fun* and then maybe her head will clear.