Perks of Being a Wallflower |
 Jul 11 2007, 01:25 PM
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 Home is where your rump rests!  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969  |
Are you usually the participant or the watcher?
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Jul 11 2007, 01:30 PM
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Home is where your rump rests! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969 |
Most of the time I participate, but the select times when I'm all alone and just watching feel brilliant. I'm ridiculously oblivious to like everything, but when I just get to watch and catch the little mannerisms and subtle undertones, I feel like I learn a lot more about the people around me.
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Jul 11 2007, 01:34 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,291 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 503,024 |
I would want to participate.
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Jul 11 2007, 01:39 PM
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 Sharie. Group: Member Posts: 2,429 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 103 |
Geez I love that book haha. I am sort of in between, but I am a lot like him. I watch what is going on and absorb the actions of the people and notice different things.
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Jul 11 2007, 01:49 PM
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 *hugs and kisses* Group: Member Posts: 809 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 493,443 |
I'm mostly a watcher unless I'm in the mood to get involved.
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Jul 11 2007, 01:51 PM
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 Lauren :D Group: Member Posts: 2,105 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 176,997 |
I'm usually the participant...but I've had my good share of being the watcher. So I guess it depends on the activity.
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Jul 11 2007, 01:56 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
"Dear friend, Do you know what 'masturbation' is? I think you probably do because you are older than me. But just in case, I will tell you. Masturbation is when you rub your genitals until you have an orgasm. Wow!"
Sorry, I just LOVED that part of the book.  Anyways, it really depends. I'm a bit of both. When I get comfortable with the people I'm with, I always participate. Sometimes, I just don't feel like doing anything, though. Usually I participate. |
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Jul 11 2007, 01:57 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
it depends..
if im at school, i participate. if its like...doing something im not comfortable doing, then ill watch. |
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| *steve330* |
Jul 11 2007, 02:00 PM
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I like attention
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Jul 11 2007, 02:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 7,149 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,509 |
Depends...usually the watcher sometimes.
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Jul 11 2007, 04:22 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
I'm usually the participant but I've had some good times being the watcher. I still watch people even if im participating though. It all depends on the activity.
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| *davinci* |
Jul 11 2007, 05:23 PM
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Watcher. =) I observe until I get the urge to participate, which may or may not even happen.
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Jul 11 2007, 05:37 PM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
I can be both really. It depends on what were doing and what my mood is.
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| *Mercy* |
Jul 11 2007, 05:41 PM
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Usualy a wallflower suprizingly.
But if i get motivated and land in my "comfort zone" then i start to participate. |
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Jul 11 2007, 06:48 PM
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 BABESTARR Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,634 |
the participator!!
BUT sometimes if I'm not in the mood for chitty-chatter I watch. |
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| *MyMichelle* |
Jul 11 2007, 07:57 PM
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Watcher.
That book was lame, IMO. |
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Jul 11 2007, 08:16 PM
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 Behind every great man is a great woman rolling her eyes Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,483 |
watcher...i love observing haha
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| *stephinika* |
Jul 12 2007, 12:56 AM
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It really depends on the situation for me...I can go either way really.
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| *IVIike* |
Jul 12 2007, 05:44 AM
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participant usually i hate not being involved
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Jul 12 2007, 06:23 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
Most of the time, I'm a water, then a participant.
Depends though, there are times when I'll jump up and be a participant first. |
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