101 ways to break up or reject someone, title says it all.. add some!! if u havnt broked up then put r |
 Jul 11 2007, 01:22 PM
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 BeUnique  Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031  |
what are the ways you've been dumped or dumped someone.
ive done one break up.. through text messaging :P 1)text messaging 2)tell them you're bipolar 3)Call them night and day till they take their number elsewhere.. (ive done it :P.. Rejection) 4)"you're not my type" 5)"give them your local rejection hotline number 6)"sorry i dont date ugly people" (it was mean but i didnt know what else to say) 7)"im a lesbian" (it didnt work cause they asked me to makeout with some chick... i didnt) 8)"no speakie english" (didnt work either.. i live in miami.. everyone knows 2 languages) 9)"im not ready to date yet" 10)Be obnoxious as hell Rejection Hotline.. look for your listing so post yours or something that you would say... never know maybe you're helping someone by writing this!! |
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Jul 11 2007, 02:32 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Lol you used "no speakie english" haha thats a funny one. Here are the ones that I have used/used on me/or I want to use:
1. Your too ugly 2. Your not my type 3. Text messaging (broke up by) 4. Call/text them 24/7 5. Be obnoxious as hell 6. "Im bi" 7. "Im a lesbien" |
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Jul 11 2007, 03:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 541,498 |
1) Try to pick out clothes for them
2) Talk to their friends about if they've seen him and wether he wears boxers or breifs (if they go school still and have PE) 3) Spend all day with him then go home and if he like signs onto a messenger or calls you get pissed off that it took him so long to call. |
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Jul 11 2007, 03:50 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
Well, I only dump someone if the relationship is not working out or what not.
But, I've dumped my first bf because he cheated on me: "It's not working. I can't trust you anymore. I think we've only gone out because I just felt lonely and wanted someone, but that's not a good reason to keep carry this relationship on longer." |
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Jul 11 2007, 09:43 PM
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lol all these are good ones lol i can't text cuz i don't have a cell
 but i was on the party line the other day  and some guy asked for my number instead i gaved them the rejection number.lol
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Jul 11 2007, 10:44 PM
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 AttacKATTack! Group: Member Posts: 697 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 536,660 |
I think breaking up with someone in a text or through an instant messenger is really low. Just had to say that.
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Jul 12 2007, 09:05 AM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
Actually, reading this thread makes me kind of disgusted because all of the previous methods posted are very childish.
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Jul 12 2007, 12:17 PM
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BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 12 2007, 10:05 AM)  Actually, reading this thread makes me kind of disgusted because all of the previous methods posted are very childish. haha true. very but i mean i didnt want to break up through texting.. i was grounded cause my mom found out i was dating therefore i couldnt call, or see in person or for that matter use aim anyway.. so how am i supposed to do it? write him some mail so that it gets there 2 days later? lol and yea it may seem that the stuff is really low but what would you do? |
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Jul 12 2007, 12:19 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(Beunique @ Jul 12 2007, 01:17 PM) haha true. very but i mean i didnt want to break up through texting.. i was grounded cause my mom found out i was dating therefore i couldnt call, or see in person or for that matter use aim anyway.. so how am i supposed to do it? write him some mail so that it gets there 2 days later? lol and yea it may seem that the stuff is really low but what would you do? No, no. I'm just saying using the excuse of being attracted to another gender is just a very stupid reason. Not that you text messaged him. |
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Jul 12 2007, 12:24 PM
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BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
^ so if you didnt like anyone you would tell them that, im sorry ur ugly? or im not interested.?
one way or another people use excuses |
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Jul 12 2007, 12:24 PM
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I think in person is the most respectable way, but if necessary at least the phone. IM break-ups / text break-ups, etc are all pretty lame.
Hahahaha I love that Cosmo has an emergency hotline you can call if you're stuck with a really bad date. They'll pretend that they're a distressed friend, other boyfriend, parent, etc. to get you outta there. |
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Jul 12 2007, 12:28 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(Beunique @ Jul 12 2007, 01:24 PM) ^ so if you didnt like anyone you would tell them that, im sorry ur ugly? or im not interested.? one way or another people use excuses No, I would be blunt with them and say the actual reasons. Excuses are different from explanations. |
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Jul 12 2007, 12:28 PM
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BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jul 12 2007, 01:24 PM) I think in person is the most respectable way, but if necessary at least the phone. IM break-ups / text break-ups, etc are all pretty lame. Hahahaha I love that Cosmo has an emergency hotline you can call if you're stuck with a really bad date. They'll pretend that they're a distressed friend, other boyfriend, parent, etc. to get you outta there. \ u see and thats an excuse too. is it that people are afraid to hurt the other persons feelings? i always say i think of you more as my friend and i like it that way.. to my friends that start liking me |
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Jul 12 2007, 12:33 PM
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BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 12 2007, 01:28 PM) No, I would be blunt with them and say the actual reasons. Excuses are different from explanations. it is better to be blunt at times cause then the person still thinks they have a chance if you give excuses so i don understand but for me its not in my nature to hurt peoples feelings by being truthful. but i guess in the long run if you give an excuse and the person tries again then i guess they wowuld get hurt even more. unless they got the message |
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Jul 12 2007, 12:38 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(Beunique @ Jul 12 2007, 01:33 PM) it is better to be blunt at times cause then the person still thinks they have a chance if you give excuses so i don understand but for me its not in my nature to hurt peoples feelings by being truthful. but i guess in the long run if you give an excuse and the person tries again then i guess they wowuld get hurt even more. unless they got the message Sometimes, the truth hurts. What can you do about it? It's in both parties' best interest to be honest. No joke. Hopefully, you'll see the wisdom behind it sooner or later. |
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Jul 12 2007, 12:42 PM
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BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 12 2007, 01:38 PM) Sometimes, the truth hurts. What can you do about it? It's in both parties' best interest to be honest. No joke. Hopefully, you'll see the wisdom behind it sooner or later. maybe lol 
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Jul 12 2007, 12:59 PM
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This topic was so misleading. Haha. I thought there was actually going to be 101 ways listed out on breakups/rejections, rather than ten. :[ Oh well. Haha.
Nonetheless, I think that break ups should happen in person. I admit my last break up was over AIM, and it was wrong. However... he just crashed his car and I didn't want to have to drive him home after breaking up with him... and he started arguing with me on AIM first  lol.
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| *MyMichelle* |
Jul 12 2007, 01:23 PM
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QUOTE(elbaliava @ Jul 12 2007, 12:59 PM) This topic was so misleading. Haha. I thought there was actually going to be 101 ways listed out on breakups/rejections, rather than ten. :[ Oh well. Haha. Me, too! |
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| *SinfullySweet* |
Jul 13 2007, 01:28 AM
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ROFL. Tell them you're bipolar. Haha. I would love to date someone who was bipolar. Oh god, that would be too funny.
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| *jeanna* |
Oct 25 2007, 11:51 PM
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- i was blind in one of my eyes and have regained sight.
- the booze finally wore off. |
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Oct 27 2007, 12:17 AM
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So...
You lied to your boyfriend to get out a relationship as fast as possible, without taking into consideration of what would happen afterwards. (i.e. telling someone you're bi/lesbian when you're really not, and having nasty rumors spread.) All of this makes me look down on the people who do lie while involved. I've had a few friends who lied to their boyfriend to get out a relationship; It always backfired on them, and I was left cleaning up the mess. But to each their own. My suggestion is to just tell them exactly how you feel about the relationship, and why it isn't working out. All of the other suggestions are rather childish... |
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Oct 27 2007, 06:37 PM
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QUOTE(aestheticYOU @ Oct 27 2007, 12:17 AM) So... You lied to your boyfriend to get out a relationship as fast as possible, without taking into consideration of what would happen afterwards. (i.e. telling someone you're bi/lesbian when you're really not, and having nasty rumors spread.) All of this makes me look down on the people who do lie while involved. I've had a few friends who lied to their boyfriend to get out a relationship; It always backfired on them, and I was left cleaning up the mess. But to each their own. My suggestion is to just tell them exactly how you feel about the relationship, and why it isn't working out. All of the other suggestions are rather childish... i dont think this thread was actually serious. i didn't take it that way 
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Oct 27 2007, 06:59 PM
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 AKA RockIt Studios Group: Official Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 421,809 |
kekeke...
text message. 
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Oct 27 2007, 07:14 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
I suck at rejecing people -___-.
aestheticYOU, we have the same avatar XD |
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Oct 27 2007, 09:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,801 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 568,102 |
QUOTE(omgomgKATHY @ Oct 27 2007, 07:14 PM) aestheticYOU, we have the same avatar XD Hehe, that we do, that we do. And, it's completely true. (That rhymed, hehe.) I'm not worried about whether or not it was a serious thread. I'm just saying. Having your emotions screwed around with sucks. 
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