Bad Idea or not?, moving in with a roomate that I have a crush on Options

[skipper5]

I will soon be moving in (same apartment different bedroom) with a girl that I have had a crush on since middle school. I am now a college grad. Is this is bad Idea I would just like some input. My best friends are telling me not too, because they think that it will just cause undue hardships. This girl either has a bf or will soon. Just let me know your thoughts.

[PINKLollyPOP]

in my opinion i think that it's a bad idea.
first off, you are going to become more attached to her, more than likely, and it's going to make it harder on you... not to mention the fact that you are going to see her with guys more often and that is going to diffcult to deal with.

if i were you i wouldn't do it. but who knows, maybe it will end up a good thing.

just go with your heart.

what do you honestly think that you should do?

[*steve330*]

I wouldn't. Her boyfriend or to be boyfriend could get extremely jealous of that (depending on what kind of guy he is), or he can get extremely protective. Also what if he decides to crash there and is a complete slob etc etc. Your feelings for her can't be doing you a service if you're forced to live with her and see her all the time knowing you can't have her at the moment. I would just live somewhere else and be good friends with her, being there if she needs you, and if she's ever single then maybe you two can hit it off.

[KayleighKins]

Do what you want in life.

[animalinside]

dude if yall have been friends since middle school and youve had a crush on her since then...and nothing has happened....sorry to say but it sounds to me like you got no chance.

Think "friend zone"

[Beunique]

dude if yall have been friends since middle school and youve had a crush on her since then...and nothing has happened....sorry to say but it sounds to me like you got no chance.

Think "friend zone"

i agree. maybe she thnks of you as a brother which in my opinion is worse than the friends zone

[EmoEyelinerx]

To me, it seems like a bad idea. First of all, your going to be alot more attracted to her if you start to see her more and more, which is going to make it alot harder on you. Your also probably going to start to see her with alot more guys and your going to start to become jelous and thats going to hurt you even more. Also, if her boyfriend or soon-to-be-boyfrined becomes threatened by you liking her he might become really protective of her. Although, seeing that you have liked her since middle school and you have liked her ever since it sounds like you dont have a really good chance with her. Sorry.

[fathomlessdame]

bad idea.... especially if she doesnt have any interest in you at all.


and since you have a crush on her and if she's potentially gonna have a bf soon, that probably would be hard for you to deal with

[*karmakiller*]

To me, it seems like a bad idea. First of all, your going to be alot more attracted to her if you start to see her more and more, which is going to make it alot harder on you. Your also probably going to start to see her with alot more guys and your going to start to become jelous and thats going to hurt you even more. Also, if her boyfriend or soon-to-be-boyfrined becomes threatened by you liking her he might become really protective of her. Although, seeing that you have liked her since middle school and you have liked her ever since it sounds like you dont have a really good chance with her. Sorry.

Just what I was going to say. If she had the same feelings for you, I'm sure something would've happened. It'll be really hard for you to see her with other guys "wishing" you were that guy. Accept that you have a good friendship with her and don't put that kind of stress on yourself.