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 Jul 9 2007, 09:47 PM
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i feel dirty....i am gay and teased alot because of it. i get beaten up, called names and all of that stuff. but still my parents are together supportive of me, love me very much, and im not getting beat up as bad as people in other places. when i think of wishing to be dead, or complaining to myself because i am being ragged on, i feel dirty...i just wanted to tell someone....
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Jul 9 2007, 10:14 PM
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I know what you mean, when I would get beat up I would think the same thing, that I shouldn't feel bad because other people were worse off than me.
You have 2 choices: 1. Beat them back (this is what I was forced to do because no one would help me) 2. Tell someone who can help you. Your parents, a teacher, a counselor, and if that doesn't work (it didn't for me) find a way to protect yourself. |
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Jul 9 2007, 10:19 PM
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 AttacKATTack! Group: Member Posts: 697 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 536,660 |
I'm so sorry. It's good to talk about it though. People are so immature and close-minded. They don't even realise what they're doing to other people.
Please don't ever think about killing yourself or anything like that. Ignorant people aren't worth your life. Cheer up. I'm sure you've got plenty to be happy about.  
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| *karmakiller* |
Jul 9 2007, 10:40 PM
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^ Deffinately.
Find a way to protect yourself from them. Find someone who you can talk to, just talking about it helps. And, hey, if you don't have someone in life to talk to (sometimes things can be difficult to talk to with your parents). There's forums out there too. Don't ever think of hurting yourself, and don't ever feel dirty about who you are. Keep your chin up and things will get better. It's good that your parents are supportive of you. |
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| *Mercy* |
Jul 9 2007, 10:56 PM
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Remember,If anyone hurts you because of race or religion or sexual orientation,its a hate crime.And there are things that can be done to people with no respect for those who are different.
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Jul 9 2007, 11:42 PM
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this makes me sad to hear.
one of my best friends from high school came out of the closet our senior year. everyone - where i'm from - is completely and ridiculously conservative. and they all were extremely mean to him. you just have to learn that if that's the lifestyle you want to live that it doesn't matter what others think, just ignore the comment (if possible) i really do feel sorry for you... ps: how old are you? still in HS? |
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Jul 10 2007, 01:09 AM
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if you do resort to fighting them back...just be sure to keep it above the belt
theres no point in winning a fight if you lose your honor but then again kicking those guys in the nuts can give you the satisfaction of potentially destroying their hateful seed |
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Jul 10 2007, 02:04 AM
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QUOTE(Brilliance @ Jul 10 2007, 02:09 AM)  if you do resort to fighting them back...just be sure to keep it above the belt There can only be honor when your defending yourself. |
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Jul 10 2007, 02:09 AM
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QUOTE(doomXL @ Jul 9 2007, 10:47 PM) i feel dirty....i am gay and teased alot because of it. i get beaten up, called names and all of that stuff. but still my parents are together supportive of me, love me very much, and im not getting beat up as bad as people in other places. when i think of wishing to be dead, or complaining to myself because i am being ragged on, i feel dirty...i just wanted to tell someone.... I was teased a lot even when I wasn't.Now I am Bi.But all I have to say.Love your self,life is both a run way and mountain.Strut it the best you can.Secondly who ever beats you up,take a motha f-cking bat and bash their heads in.Make them realize that you are their life switch,and that if you turn it off,they will never come back :D. Oh and btw people who find the smallest things "gay" are gay them selves so dont worry about them much =] |
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| *MyMichelle* |
Jul 10 2007, 10:21 AM
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You're not. Just be strong and never forget yourself.
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Jul 10 2007, 10:24 AM
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Talk about it a little more. You don't deserve to get hurt. You do deserve to be listened to.
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Jul 11 2007, 03:21 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Wow, this is really incredably sad to hear. First off, its not your fault that they are so inmature, close-minded and ignorant. People like that are not worth your life. Becides, theirs alot of people out there who would be torn into pieces if you died. Second, you have two things you can do. 1. Beat them back (even if it comes down to below the belt) or 2. Tell someone like a parent, relative, teacher, principal, or counsler. If that doesent work try to find a way to protect yourself.
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Jul 11 2007, 03:30 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
WHO THE F**K IS DOING THAT SHIT TO YOU?
Tell me names. I'll rape their asses. Those cunts. Okay, I love your parents. At least they're really supportive. My family don't agree with my being gay at all, and they don't want to have anything to do with it. But yeah, we're in opposite situations I suppose because everyone I meet, they love me and they don't care. I agree with beating their f**king arses. Actually, no. I'm not that violent. Uhm, I suggest you not associate with those people. Middle school kids are so immature. God damn. I had so much crap to deal with in middle school. PS: And you're not dirty. Don't listen to anyone. Respect and love yourself. You should know better. If you can't love yourself, then please work on that. I would offer my love to you but I don't know you that well. Sorry. |
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Jul 12 2007, 07:16 PM
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those jerks.
 i hate people that can't accept homosexuality. just stick up for yourself. have pride in who you are, who cares what they think?
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Jul 12 2007, 09:34 PM
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You're only thinking of killing yourselves because you are fed up with bad people around you.
Keep fighting, striving, and aim for the best. Who says life was going to be easy and will have it in your way. Again, bad people arent worth of your time. |
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| *SinfullySweet* |
Jul 13 2007, 01:22 AM
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Thats absolute bullshit. You shouldn't put up with people like that. Who are they to judge? I seriously dont get what goes through these idiots minds when do such retarded acts.
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Jul 13 2007, 07:20 AM
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Kids are cruel, period.
You cannot help who you are; take pride in yourself and make sure anyone that is bullying you does get reported. It may seem a scary step to take, but adults and authorities take this sort of offense very seriously. You have the support of everyone on here. |
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Jul 14 2007, 11:33 AM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
beat them up ill help you! and then you can take a shower since ur dirty.
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Jul 14 2007, 07:40 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
The important thing is that your family loves you and supports you.
They'll get you through it. |
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