Is there something Wrong with me?, is it that im too f***ing ugly? |
 Jul 9 2007, 03:03 PM
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 BeUnique  Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031  |
Haha seems insane.. (im not conceited)
but all i attract are the (dont want to say it but, ) UGLY GUYS!!!!! what is it that attracts them to me!! HELP!! what can i do to find a hot guy!! TIPS PLEASE |
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| *steve330* |
Jul 9 2007, 03:10 PM
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Well people usually don't glow blue. ;)
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Jul 9 2007, 03:11 PM
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BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
QUOTE(steve330 @ Jul 9 2007, 04:10 PM)  Well people usually don't glow blue. ;) you're really funny.. lol thanx made me laugh |
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| *steve330* |
Jul 9 2007, 03:13 PM
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In all seriousness. Doesn't sound like there's anything wrong with you, sounds like a bit of bad luck.
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Jul 9 2007, 03:17 PM
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BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
QUOTE(steve330 @ Jul 9 2007, 04:13 PM) In all seriousness. Doesn't sound like there's anything wrong with you, sounds like a bit of bad luck. lol yea maybe. well hopefully things will change |
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| *Flair* |
Jul 9 2007, 03:29 PM
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 You know, ugly guys love pretty chicks. |
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Jul 9 2007, 03:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 218 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,112 |
either you have plenty of bold ugly men guys around your area, or they find you attainable
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| *steve330* |
Jul 9 2007, 04:01 PM
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^I hear you like a certain Canadian though...
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Jul 9 2007, 04:11 PM
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 people are wrong. women ARE objects. Group: Member Posts: 189 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 540,281 |
POST A PIC OF YOURSELF
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Jul 9 2007, 04:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,349 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 455,274 |
Well... men like women. No matter how ugly or fine they are... they're thinkin you're good enough for them, or exceeded their expectations.
But there can be many different reasons why lol... So dunno the definite answer. |
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Jul 9 2007, 08:08 PM
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BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
Wait. post a pic of me? mine are on my profile.. anyway thanx for that vid. it was awesome. and yeas i guess i am kinda luchy that i dont have psyco's :)
and who looks canadian? |
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Jul 9 2007, 09:54 PM
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 in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
Maybe the guys around you are just ugly. I know the guys around me are. This is why I'm still single.
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Jul 9 2007, 10:16 PM
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 AttacKATTack! Group: Member Posts: 697 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 536,660 |
QUOTE(gigiopolis @ Jul 9 2007, 09:54 PM) Maybe the guys around you are just ugly. I know the guys around me are. This is why I'm still single. Ahahaha. Yeah the guys around here are quite ugly too.  And how do you know a hot guy doesn't like you?? Maybe they just keep it to themselves better than ugly guys? |
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Jul 10 2007, 12:54 AM
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BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
QUOTE(xKatt @ Jul 9 2007, 11:16 PM) Ahahaha. Yeah the guys around here are quite ugly too. And how do you know a hot guy doesn't like you?? Maybe they just keep it to themselves better than ugly guys? well maybe.. but why is it that ugly people are ganging up on chicks? its seems like all the cute ones are taken :( wow its sad. its a conspiracy.. |
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Jul 10 2007, 01:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,815 |
Hey, maybe there's only ugly guys out there. hahahah
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| *MyMichelle* |
Jul 10 2007, 01:52 PM
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Maybe you should get the cure like in Shallow Hal (the movie).
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Jul 11 2007, 03:10 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(Flair @ Jul 9 2007, 04:29 PM) You know, ugly guys love pretty chicks. LOL that made me laugh so hard. QUOTE(brownsugar @ Jul 9 2007, 04:42 PM) Haha, this video shows it well: http://youtube.com/watch?v=t4hQDgzd7Bw Omg lol that video is too funny. Where yo boyfriend at is he getting you refreshnments? Is he tall? Is he gettin you mike n ikes? Or you like mike n ikes? Is he hefty? Is he comin back? Where yo boyfriend? Where your boyfriend at? ahahahah QUOTE(vietbabiiix3 @ Jul 10 2007, 02:37 PM) Hey, maybe there's only ugly guys out there. hahahah Nah because if their what would become of Orlando Bloom? I attract both hot and ugly guys (not to sound conceded.) |
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Jul 11 2007, 03:30 PM
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BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
QUOTE(XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX @ Jul 11 2007, 04:10 PM) LOL that made me laugh so hard. Omg lol that video is too funny. Where yo boyfriend at is he getting you refreshnments? Is he tall? Is he gettin you mike n ikes? Or you like mike n ikes? Is he hefty? Is he comin back? Where yo boyfriend? Where your boyfriend at? ahahahah Nah because if their what would become of Orlando Bloom? I attract both hot and ugly guys (not to sound conceded.) nope didnt sound conceided. its the truth. lucky ass people.. lol share with the rest of us :P 
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Jul 11 2007, 03:37 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
Haha. Actually, alot of attractive guys have a bad self image of themselves and they're not as brave as the ugly guys.
See, ugly guys know they're effing ugly, so they don't care about rejection because they know they'll get rejected. Ugly guys have a strategy to them. Ask alot of pretty girls to go out with them. By asking alot, their chances of going out with one are high. So that's that. Attractive guys on the other hand WORRY ALOT about getting rejected so they don't use that strategy at all. There's your answer. And no, you're not ugly. I thought I was ugly too until I looked in the mirror this morning. 
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Jul 11 2007, 03:52 PM
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BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 11 2007, 04:37 PM) Haha. Actually, alot of attractive guys have a bad self image of themselves and they're not as brave as the ugly guys. See, ugly guys know they're effing ugly, so they don't care about rejection because they know they'll get rejected. Ugly guys have a strategy to them. Ask alot of pretty girls to go out with them. By asking alot, their chances of going out with one are high. So that's that. Attractive guys on the other hand WORRY ALOT about getting rejected so they don't use that strategy at all. There's your answer. And no, you're not ugly. I thought I was ugly too until I looked in the mirror this morning. hahaha makes sense.. thanx! |
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Jul 11 2007, 06:53 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
you know whats weird, the guys you say are ugly...if you get to know one of them, you may end up saying "omg hes so cute"
its a matter of just finding the best in people and putting looks to the side for a bit...if that makes sense. |
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Jul 11 2007, 08:09 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 218 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,112 |
^its true, personality can do wonders for ones looks at times
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Jul 11 2007, 09:39 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
its because there are more "ugly" guys than "hot" guys in the world.
its kind of inevitable someone "ugly" would like you..they out number the "hotties" I quote the words ugly and hot, because everyone has their own perception of what they mean. |
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Jul 11 2007, 10:58 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
QUOTE(Beunique @ Jul 9 2007, 01:03 PM) Haha seems insane.. (im not conceited) but all i attract are the (dont want to say it but, ) UGLY GUYS!!!!! what is it that attracts them to me!! HELP!! what can i do to find a hot guy!! TIPS PLEASE LOL. Happens to me a lot, too. But I don't think it's our fault. |
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| *shotgunFUNERAL* |
Jul 11 2007, 11:13 PM
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you have high standards. stop basing stuff off of looks, but rather personality. i can almost bet that anyone you meet that is 'hot' is not going to be worth your time and you're going to question why you liked them in the first place, guarenteed.
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Jul 12 2007, 08:51 AM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(shotgunFUNERAL @ Jul 12 2007, 12:13 AM) you have high standards. stop basing stuff off of looks, but rather personality. i can almost bet that anyone you meet that is 'hot' is not going to be worth your time and you're going to question why you liked them in the first place, guarenteed. Uh, I don't agree with you. That's just simply generalizing attractive people and saying none of them have personality or depth. I can see what you're saying, but you're just assuming that she's shallow for wanting to date a cute guy. And obviously, that's not the case. Also, it's not people's faults that they judge a person based on looks. It's just the way we humans evolved because we, as organisms, would want to bear offspring and pass our genes down. An attractive person would technically have "good" genes to ensure the survival of YOUR offspring. Why? Because attractive people have a higher tendency to mate and produce viable, good offspring. ANYWHO, looks play a factor. Just face it.
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| *steve330* |
Jul 12 2007, 08:55 AM
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QUOTE(Mini @ Jul 12 2007, 08:51 AM) But I can see what you're saying. It's not people's faults that they judge a person based on looks. It's just the way we evolved because we as orgasms would want to bear offspring and pass our genes down. ORLY? I would agree with what spencer said, and he did say almost which makes it not absolute. Most 'hot' people tend to be full of themselves, but then there are always the hot ones that don't think they're that hot but really are. |
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Jul 12 2007, 08:59 AM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE(steve330 @ Jul 12 2007, 09:55 AM) ORLY? I would agree with what spencer said, and he did say almost which makes it not absolute. Most 'hot' people tend to be full of themselves, but then there are always the hot ones that don't think they're that hot but really are. LOL! Freudian slip, I apologize. HAHAH. I did edit it though but I was too LATE. Damn it.  Honestly, I think there are more attractive people who tend to have a bad self image of themselves and constantly worry about how attractive they are. That's why most people are so vain sometimes. And I'm just saying this because I have a bad self image of myself too and I might just be biased. 
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Jul 12 2007, 09:18 AM
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 -i-twitch- Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 544,541 |
I think you're just having a bit of bad luck. I've attracted a couple of ugly guys before. Well one was ugly and perverted, but the other... He was really ugly and psycho. Otherwise the rest of the guys I attracted were pretty cute, just too stupid and skanky. I can't say that about my current boyfriend though. He's pretty cute, sweet, and sane.(Thank god.)
So yeah, don't worry about it. I'm sure good luck will strike eventually. |
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Jul 12 2007, 09:24 AM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
You know what?
Maybe, you're just NOT taking the initiative to introduce yourself to cute, smart, emotionally stable guys. PEOPLE! You can't expect people, especially ATTRACTIVE people, to COME up to you and hit on you. That's not how it works. Use the ugly guy strategy. Hit on as many people whom you're interested in and it'll work. Sheesh. AND DON'T EXPECT YOUR LUCK TO CHANGE. That is just wishful thinking. |
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Jul 12 2007, 10:40 AM
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Maybe you've just got a really high opinion of yourself. I know now that Johnny Depp was never going to come into my college and sweep me off my feet. Someone else did.
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Jul 12 2007, 10:44 AM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
QUOTE Maybe you've just got a really high opinion of yourself. I know now that Johnny Depp was never going to come into my college and sweep me off my feet. Someone else did. Well, he could've if he met you and was "exposed" to you. HAHAHAHHA <3 |
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Jul 12 2007, 11:19 AM
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Actually, my phsycho-babbling friend - that may be true.
/exposes self NOW SWEEP ME OFF MY FEET, GODDAMNIT! |
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Jul 12 2007, 12:14 PM
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BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
i have tried out the ugly guys!!
one ws super sweet but then he got obsessed. so i dont know about him.. lol and i do put looks aside. a lot of the times. so im not shallow. i mean is it so bad that i want to beb withsomeone attractive looking? and yes maybe i will use the ugly guy approach toward the cute ones.. :) |
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Jul 12 2007, 07:23 PM
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in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
QUOTE(Beunique @ Jul 9 2007, 09:54 PM) well maybe.. but why is it that ugly people are ganging up on chicks? its seems like all the cute ones are taken :( wow its sad. its a conspiracy.. Haven't you heard? Guys are like toilets. They're either taken or full of shit. |
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| *Moderator* |
Jul 12 2007, 09:18 PM
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You can't expect every one of them to be drop dead gorgeous. Looks aren't everything. I'm not saying that they don't matter but, what good is a hawt guy but for one thing?
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Jul 12 2007, 09:30 PM
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Maybe you have a great an ideal appearance and personality that attracts "ugly people". Generally "ugly people" prefer someone who doesn’t look like a total slut and flashy.
Maybe, "hot guys" are attracted to skinny sexy curvy chicks that you aren’t. You may not fit their standard. Study shows that women are able to have a longer lasting relationship with "ugly/average" people than an extremely attractive man with great model-like features. Generally, hot people date hot people. |
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Jul 14 2007, 08:49 PM
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 tacos and freedom. Group: Member Posts: 12 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,927 |
i have the same problem.
and i'm not totally unattractive. just learn to love it, you'll find a great one some day. it does happen. |
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| *SinfullySweet* |
Jul 14 2007, 10:09 PM
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QUOTE(ThomasC @ Jul 14 2007, 08:51 PM) The cute guys that you're around arn't attracted to you...  Exactly. You cant expect everyone to be smokin' 
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Jul 21 2007, 11:56 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 540,065 |
nothing wrong with you.i think that you just have bad luck, and anyways, i've once dated an ugly guy (idk why i did) but he was really sweet and he was one of the nice-est guys i've dated...then he moved away..=(
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Jul 22 2007, 12:10 AM
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 ^ I might look scary but i'm the nicest person in cb! Group: Member Posts: 1,364 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,979 |
No one want to be ugly. We can't change it. When an ugly guy talk to you don't run away. Give him time to present himself. You don't have to date him. Friend is good enough.
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Jul 22 2007, 03:09 AM
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BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
well i found a guy that likes me and i like him.. and i like how he talks to me and hes cute :) so i guess when i stopped looking i found him
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