Would you do it at Prom?, sex |
 Jun 25 2007, 10:00 PM
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Ok, I heard that a lot of people after prom "Do it."
Thinking to do it or not. What do you think? Have you done it after prom? 
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Jun 25 2007, 10:11 PM
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 Sing to Me Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
you're thinking of having sex after prom just because you heard that a lot of people do it after prom?
why don't you base whether or not to do it on whether or not you feel ready to have sex? having sex just because its prom night is the stupidest thing to do. |
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| *MyMichelle* |
Jun 25 2007, 10:12 PM
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Eh heh.
Wasn't my prom... I think it's cute if the couple has been dating for a long time, and they make it into a romantic fest. haha It's not so bad to lose your virginity at prom to your high-school sweetheart. ^_^ |
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| *SinfullySweet* |
Jun 26 2007, 01:17 AM
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Prom is overrated
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Jun 26 2007, 02:58 AM
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 say maydayism. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,447 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,344 |
Make sure you're ready to have sex... and just see how it goes.
And if you do it, don't regret it. |
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Jun 26 2007, 06:42 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 816 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,188 |
QUOTE(SinfullySweet @ Jun 26 2007, 02:17 AM)  Prom is overrated Truth. I left prom early to jacuzzi with my lover. But we didn't sex ;D |
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| *steve330* |
Jun 26 2007, 06:56 AM
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Haha prom :)
We stayed the entire thing because we were in a group and we had taken a limo so we couldn't just leave early haha. We had a lot of fun though. They coulda picked some better songs, but a lot of them were good to dance to. |
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Jun 26 2007, 07:36 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 7,149 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,509 |
DON'T DO IT, idk it's a stupid reason.
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Jun 26 2007, 07:56 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,291 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 503,024 |
No, I would't do it.
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Jun 26 2007, 08:07 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,476 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,305 |
No I wouldn't do it thanks
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Jun 26 2007, 12:31 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(brownsugar @ Jun 26 2007, 09:26 AM) Haha, well don't think to yourself, "Prom is over! It's GO time!" But if it just naturally happens...and you wanted to do it, then it doesn't make a difference that it's after prom. Just make sure you have thought about it, and know all the consequences. If you're going to have sex, then make sure you're aware of the responsibilities that could or could not come with it. That way you don't have to make a topic on cB in a couple days, second-guessing yourself like, "I have a headache.  Could I be pregnant "  Agreed. Idk I might do it but what do I know im a freshman.. |
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Jun 26 2007, 02:47 PM
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 you're my path to happiness Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 523,503 |
QUOTE(Endless_Symphony @ Jun 25 2007, 07:11 PM) you're thinking of having sex after prom just because you heard that a lot of people do it after prom? why don't you base whether or not to do it on whether or not you feel ready to have sex? having sex just because its prom night is the stupidest thing to do. agreed. i didnt go to prom with my bf. even if i did, i wouldnt have sex afterwards. what a stupid reason to do so. just because "it was prom". |
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Jun 26 2007, 03:08 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 816 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,188 |
Oh for Christs sake.
If you say, "I might" it means your not ready. I don't know why all these kids, and people, want to rush into having sex when oral can be just as kinky, just as long lasting, and helps you prepare yourself for sex by teaching you how to talk about your sexual needs and feelings. If you suck at oral you suck at being creative. [/end rant] |
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Jun 26 2007, 08:36 PM
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here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
^
 meh. it was a thought because I have a guy in mind. Clarifying: I'm asking if anyone had done it after prom. |
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Jun 26 2007, 08:46 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
If you feel you're ready then sure, don't do it just cause many make it seem as a "tradition".
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Jun 27 2007, 11:42 AM
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sounds good to me
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Jun 27 2007, 03:41 PM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
no i havent =l, and im glad.
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Jun 27 2007, 04:58 PM
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here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
QUOTE(kimjaydot @ Jun 27 2007, 12:42 PM) sounds good to me Rofl haha. way to end HS right? lol jk |
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Jun 27 2007, 05:18 PM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
prom is overrated
and i know people whos parents set up the prom night for their kids... yeah, err. they get the house prepared and everything for a little tumble love.... creepy. |
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Jun 27 2007, 09:18 PM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ Jun 26 2007, 06:26 AM) Haha, well don't think to yourself, "Prom is over! It's GO time!" Haha, oh my... that actually made me giggle reading that.  But I pretty much agree with Suzzette...if it happens and you are prepared, then sure but not just because its prom... But to answer the question, nope, definitely did not do it after prom.. |
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Jun 27 2007, 09:49 PM
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 Break My Heart Again. Group: Official Designer Posts: 480 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,983 |
QUOTE(brownsugar @ Jun 26 2007, 09:26 AM) Haha, well don't think to yourself, "Prom is over! It's GO time!" laughed out loud at that, haha. well, frankly, no. i haven't had sex after prom, and considering that i already graduated, don't think it's going to happen. (went with guy friends both years anyway) although, haha, after junior prom, a friend found a tube of "personal lubricant" in her car after driving my date & one of our other friends home...and...well...it turned out to be my date's. so who knows what he was thinking, haha.  i think it would have been kind of awkward though. (both years) anyway, after rambling, the point of this is: don't do it just because it's prom...if you feel ready, that's one thing...but you don't want to do just because it's prom...you may regret it later. |
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Jun 27 2007, 09:53 PM
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 *hugs and kisses* Group: Member Posts: 809 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 493,443 |
QUOTE(cheerbee07 @ Jun 27 2007, 10:49 PM) anyway, after rambling, the point of this is: don't do it just because it's prom...if you feel ready, that's one thing...but you don't want to do just because it's prom...you may regret it later. Exactly. Don't do something you'll regret and because you hear that "other people do it after prom" And, I haven't done it either, and I don't regret that. 
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Jun 27 2007, 10:46 PM
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 Why don't you make like a hockey player, and get the puck ou Group: Validating Posts: 167 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,037 |
Man I feel bad for the guy who's going with you. Acording to the posts being left this guy is getting nothing more than a hug/kiss goodbye.
DO HIM! lol |
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Jun 28 2007, 03:27 AM
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I'd do it... if I were ready and loved him/have been wanting to for a while etc.
The occasion just makes it more special 
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Jun 28 2007, 09:38 AM
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 rissa. Group: Member Posts: 621 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,690 |
I believe in getting Married first. Prom is just an opportunity given by school board to have fun and dance. Don't be so immature.
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Jun 28 2007, 11:03 AM
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 ALLISON Group: Official Designer Posts: 3,372 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 310,259 |
no..only if I thought he was the "one"
wow I sound like the movies |
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Jun 28 2007, 11:05 AM
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 Trinie loves you Group: Member Posts: 1,003 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,831 |
when i was in highschool. i was thinking of doing it with my bf after prom. we were both in love with each other, but i decided not to because i wanted to wait until we were both ready.
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Jun 28 2007, 11:21 AM
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 <333 Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 496,434 |
i dont see why not. but if you want to do it, make sure you think it over well and carefully. also make sure you wont regret it or anything like that...
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Jun 28 2007, 08:07 PM
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here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
QUOTE(Chad_man @ Jun 27 2007, 11:46 PM) Man I feel bad for the guy who's going with you. Acording to the posts being left this guy is getting nothing more than a hug/kiss goodbye. DO HIM! lol Wait is it because I'm ugly. haha Anyways hmm.. maybe it's him or not.  And I was "thinking" about it. Maybe I won't.... QUOTE(Aerjae @ Jun 28 2007, 10:38 AM) I believe in getting Married first. Prom is just an opportunity given by school board to have fun and dance. Don't be so immature. eh. yeah I agree with that but I was "thinking" about it. Plus I do believe in waiting until marriage and I just wanted to see "who has done it" since it's such a "tradition". 
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Jun 28 2007, 08:10 PM
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here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
sorry double post
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Jun 28 2007, 10:03 PM
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 former dancerellie714 Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 471,750 |
no. i did not have sex after prom (we stayed at his friend's house with a bunch of other people and it would be the most awkward thing ever)
and i'm fine with that my advice to you is...if it's gotten to that point..and you have the opportunity..and you really want to...and you wont get pregnant...then it's your life. i always told myself i'd wait for marriage (because of religious reasons) but then i was like..you know what? sex is so taboo in this culture and i personally dont think that god has a problem with two people expressing love (not lust!) for each other. i dont agree with casual sex as like a sport with random guys...but just like if you get married to a guy and get a divorce..it's practically the same as dating a guy for a very long time and breaking up. the whole "marriage" deal is just ritual..it doesnt add any extra love to the situation... |
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Jun 28 2007, 10:17 PM
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 sang loves hayden. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,373 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,687 |
I don't think I would do it after prom. Besides Prom usually ends late and get all bummed out at the end of the day, lolz. Unless they are super-active after the after-party or something and get laid (if they wanted to, but I wouldn't do it). I have a couple friends who think they gonna get laid before prom or highschool but I DOUBT they can do it. There dummies and think there the shyt.
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Jun 30 2007, 12:15 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Proms over and done for me...and I'm still a virgin
99% of the people that went to prom are still virgins so no its not true that people lose their virginities after prom. |
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Jun 30 2007, 08:09 AM
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 people are wrong. women ARE objects. Group: Member Posts: 189 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 540,281 |
After prom was um oceanside views kinda cute huh, too bad i didn't get to hit it hmph
DOINT DISAPPOINTTTTTTTTTT DA DATE |
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Jun 30 2007, 08:41 AM
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QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Jun 30 2007, 01:15 AM) 99% of the people that went to prom are still virgins so no its not true that people lose their virginities after prom. Dunno about the stat, but that sounds about right. Mostly the people f**king after prom have already f**ked before. |
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Jun 30 2007, 08:58 AM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
its too much of a cliche.
no, i would not do it. |
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Jun 30 2007, 09:36 AM
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Nah prom is overrated.
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Jun 30 2007, 02:43 PM
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Sure why not..
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Jul 2 2007, 10:06 PM
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I've never had sex after my proms. My boyfriend and I did get a little cozy last year, if you will, but no sex.
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Jul 2 2007, 10:56 PM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Jun 30 2007, 12:15 AM) Proms over and done for me...and I'm still a virgin 99% of the people that went to prom are still virgins so no its not true that people lose their virginities after prom. hahahaha I feel like I'm the only person... that's posting to say I'm that 1%? I don't regret it, and I guess it's "Overrated" but it wasn't the usual hotel/beach house thing it wass like 1000 better then the movies make it hahaaahaha. So thats like a bajillion no's and one yes? lolol. heeeeelllo cb. haven't been on you in a while <3 |
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Jul 2 2007, 11:08 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
I didn't go to prom. I had a competition and couldn't go, but I initially wanted to go with my boyfriend and it turned out we couldn't go with people who aren't high school students. What bullshit. So I felt better about not going. If I went with him, we would've had sex after, but not just because of the whole myth. I don't think that's so popular in Canada anyway.
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Jul 2 2007, 11:18 PM
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That's such a cliche lol.
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Jul 3 2007, 01:06 AM
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Jul 3 2007, 01:13 AM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Jun 30 2007, 12:15 AM) Proms over and done for me...and I'm still a virgin 99% of the people that went to prom are still virgins so no its not true that people lose their virginities after prom. how daft are you? |
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Jul 4 2007, 04:03 PM
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Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
er...i mean the people that went to my school's prom, not 99% of the people that ever went to a prom. Sorry I didn't make that clear. And fine it might not have been 99%, but the majority of the people that went to my school's prom didn't have sex. And I went to a small school where everybody knew what everybody was up to...so...might be different for big schools.
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Jul 5 2007, 09:32 AM
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Ah, Good ol' Proms.
Sex. Well, I agree with the responses above. MAKE SURE YOU ARE READY. A lot more emotions and ties come along with sex. You are crossing over to another level once sex is involoved in a relationship. |
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Jul 5 2007, 02:49 PM
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Jul 9 2007, 10:36 AM
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Id be too tired to bother trying.
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Jul 9 2007, 10:57 AM
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I genuinely want to understand why you would regret it? If I could I'd do it with 2 or 3. Maybe I'm missing something, but if you're single and the girl is fine with it .... where does regret/mistake/ready come into it? Don't slate me though lol. On the other hand I am probably not going to go prom.
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Jul 9 2007, 02:22 PM
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 BeUnique Group: Member Posts: 124 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,031 |
Prom is such a cliche. i mean if you feel the time is right then no one should tell you otherwise. just dont do it if you know you'll regret it :)
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