what are you supossed to do |
 Jun 24 2007, 11:09 PM
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what are you supossed to do
when you have been hooking up with the same guy for like 6 months and you like him a lot but now he starts going out with your best friend and he tells your best friend the same things he used to say to you |
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Jun 24 2007, 11:20 PM
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 just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
the guys an a-hole
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Jun 24 2007, 11:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,723 |
talk to your friend about it. i hope your friend realizes it aswell
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Jun 24 2007, 11:27 PM
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 Sex-Ed is a joke Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 475,330 |
That guy is good. I mean I have two different things I say. So when I am going for a girls friend, I have to change the script. But anyways, tell her, he is saying the same things to you that he said to me and I don't really think he likes you.
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Jun 24 2007, 11:28 PM
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does your best friend know you like him?
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Jun 24 2007, 11:50 PM
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 you're my path to happiness Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 523,503 |
if she's ur best friend, she wouldnt do that to you.
talk to her about how you feel. and if you're her best friend, you wouldnt let her go through the same thing you went through. b/c obviously, that guy is an ass. |
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Jun 25 2007, 01:25 AM
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If you still have feelings about him, you should've made it clear to your best friend.
 If he's doing the same thing to your friend as he did to you, inform your friend about it. Communication is key.
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Jun 25 2007, 01:39 AM
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 :) Group: Member Posts: 1,234 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 146,496 |
i've been in a similar situation.
 this boy i used to like, said all this sweet stuff to me, and we hooked up for awhile, now he's onto my friend.  we're not that good of friends, but we've talked and hung out before. it doesn't mind me much anymore, since i have a boyfriend whom i love dearly, but i'm sure if i didn't have my current boyfriend i'd be more hurt with the situation. the guy is an a-hole. as much as it may hurt & be extremely hard, you just need to move on. he obviously only wanted a little fun, which he got, since you've been hooking up with him for 6 months, but seriously he is not worth your time!  your "bestfriend" needs to know that this bothers you. honestly, a "bestfriend" shouldn't do that to you. maybe you should warn her or tell her how much it bothers you. she might think that it's okay. let her know how you feel & if she choses her relationship with him over your friendship, she isn't that much of a friend. 
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Jun 25 2007, 02:31 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 816 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,188 |
Cry?
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Jun 25 2007, 07:57 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,136 |
speakin from a guys perspective hes a f***ing a-hole who is tryin 2 play the game!! play with fire your goin 2 get burnt? ever heard the phrase!! i think u need 2 speak 2 your "best m8" and burn the git
u shld treat every girl as the one and special and unique!! ok some things r goin to b the same like greetings mayb but apart from that u have 2 change ya tune!! every girls different so treast her different |
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Jun 25 2007, 10:34 AM
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 *hugs and kisses* Group: Member Posts: 809 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 493,443 |
That guy isn't worth it, then. And, you should also try talking with your friend.
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Jun 25 2007, 10:38 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,815 |
he'll probably do the same thing to ur best friend as he did to you. you should tell her, don't let a guy get in the way of friendship.
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