Crush Help, and I need lotz! =P Options

[LilBlueChibi]

Weyo I like this guy and I have alot of problems with it. and theres practically alot
1-We never talk in person for some reason. Only on aim. When I think about it, I really have nothing to say to him really. But being friends with him is such a hard task...
2-He says he likes someone else but we kept exchanging glances at each other and it gets me thinkin that he may like me
3-He's popular. To tell you the truth I don't like popularity and I don't want to recognize it when it when it comes walking up to me. But since they placed me in the "middle" it just seems like...I can't like him or anything.....
4-If we ever we're a couple I'm afriad it wouldn't last. I know relationships at my age and they just don't last unless the people are shy to say "we're breaking up"
5-He used to date this other girl that he had a crush on. She broke up they're relation ship. She's pretty, smart, and cool. I keep thinking to myself "how can I compare to her?"

love iz soooo confusin

[mai_z]

1- maybe you should try 2 talk 2 him in person, it'll probably give u a better understanding of ur relationship

2- he may just be 2 shy 2 say that he likes u

3- popularity is stupid, and shouldn't have anything 2 do with it

4-it can last if u both want it to last, a lot of relationships don't last because people don't work to keep it going, and just sort of take it for granted

5- don't compare urself, you're probably pretty, smart, and funny yourself....and probably 10 times 'cooler'

[177emories]

ugh like someone else... theres many guys out there...

[*Kathleen*]

1-Yes, at least talk to him in person or on the phone more.
2-Hmm...guys are like that - they do flirty things. Once again, just try to talk to him more in person and you'll be able to tell if he likes you or not.
3-Who cares about that? If you really like him, popularity or not would not matter.
4-You can make it last if you truly want to - remember that.
5-Don't think that way. You're a whole other person, and he'll see that if you be yourself. Just be true to yourself.

[conster]

1 - haha thats ok me and my ex started out talking on aim and thats about it and he ended up liking me lolsss

2 - theres a chance he may like u ;D

3 - jus cuz hes popular doesnt mean u cant like him, forget what others think

4 - i think if u guys do get together, al u should worry is are u happy with him? tahts the most impt question does he make u happy? cant worry about the future if u guys will last or not cuz... u cant plan ur future like that, future is a mystery

5 - never compare, if u wana compare y dont u go compare ur body with a model? and the brains of Einstein? cant do that, he should like u for who u are, the most perfect human being is the most imperfect

[SarahxJoy]

1-Try to find some common ground with each other and see if you have any of the same interests. Then you can talk about that. Or you can talk about anything casual, like music, tv shows, movies, anything that the regular teen is accustomed to. He has to know about at least one of those things. LoL.

2-If he's passing glances at you, then yeah, it's most likely because he can't keep his eyes off of you. For all you know, he likes you too and is just too nervous to say so.

3-Forget about the social status thing and don't worry about it. Because if you like him and he likes you, what else would matter? I think you'll have to find out how he feels about you though.

4-I don't think it'd matter on how a relationship lasts. Just enjoy it while it's there. Because you never know what you've had, until it's lost.

5-Comparing yourself to someone else, especially his ex, isn't really a good idea. Everyone is different in their own way and should dance to the beat of their own drummer. If you'd have to change yourself for him, then maybe it's not worth it.

[islandkiss]

I think you should talk to him. or you could constantly flirt with him and he'll probably get the picture sooner or later..

[pnkstar]

first things first, dont compare yourself to his ex gf. be self confidant in yourself enough where you know that youre good enough for him! also, who cares about all the cliques and popular crowd things, etc. if you like him and he likes you thats kewl! i relaly hope things turn out good between you and him!

[topsyturvy]

1-We never talk in person for some reason. Only on aim. When I think about it, I really have nothing to say to him really. But being friends with him is such a hard task...
2-He says he likes someone else but we kept exchanging glances at each other and it gets me thinkin that he may like me
3-He's popular. To tell you the truth I don't like popularity and I don't want to recognize it when it when it comes walking up to me. But since they placed me in the "middle" it just seems like...I can't like him or anything.....
4-If we ever we're a couple I'm afriad it wouldn't last. I know relationships at my age and they just don't last unless the people are shy to say "we're breaking up"
5-He used to date this other girl that he had a crush on. She broke up they're relation ship. She's pretty, smart, and cool. I keep thinking to myself "how can I compare to her?"

Omg, I'm in the exact same situation! Except he's got no ex.. he's DATING someone right now. Or so the rumors say.

What do I do?? I can't stand the fact that he's flirting so much yet still has someone else.

Sorry about stealing the attention.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

1- if you have nothing to talk about, find something. i usually think what will i say to him, but when i walk up to them and say hi i`ll just start talking about the latest school scandal thingy, or about a tv show or something

2- when he looks at you, it doesnt always necissarily mean he likes you. maybe he just looks at you cos he wants to talk to you, besides on aim, or maybe he looks at you cos you looked at him,

3- so what if hes popular. you cant help what your heart wants. you can like whoever you want, i hate it when punk ass breezys try to say `no you cant like him bla bla ` just tell them to shut they jaw and say you could like whomever you please.

4- you shouldnt be afraid of what you dont know, but be happy that you might be a couple.

5- dont compare yourself to anyone, at all.

does he even know you like him ?! tell him you like him. if he doesnt feel the same way, dont mope aroundand feel sorry for yourself, but move on and still stay his friend. (:


sorry im blunt straight forward and random. lol.

[yukichan]

1- maybe you should try 2 talk 2 him in person, it'll probably give u a better understanding of ur relationship

2- he may just be 2 shy 2 say that he likes u

3- popularity is stupid, and shouldn't have anything 2 do with it

4-it can last if u both want it to last, a lot of relationships don't last because people don't work to keep it going, and just sort of take it for granted

5- don't compare urself, you're probably pretty, smart, and funny yourself....and probably 10 times 'cooler'

i agree..talk to him a person would help...a lot of ppl r different on the internet..

[angelrevelation]

wow that's like exactly what happened to me! i talked about it with my friends, and they said that like... (paraphrasing)
"maybe you're just the girl that he's looking for. that special someone that's different from everyone else."
"Who cares about popularity? if he likes you, he does. you cant help liking someone, popular or not."
"most relationships won't last, but you might as well take the opportunity."
i'll post more later if i can remember... hope this helps