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[ariana8716]

okay so there's this guy,and we both like each other-- but i couldn't figure out why he hadn't asked me out so after we got in a fight i decided i would go ahead and throw it at him asking why we weren't dating and he said because of summer..but he wanted to stay friends with benefits. so i agreed with it that we would be friends with benefits,and then maybe something later.well thursday we went to the movies,and since then he had been acting weird.. kinda being mean and he didn't call me at all, but on AIM he acted weird.. well little did i know the reasoning--at least i think why-- is because i found out a couple nights ago from a friend that saturday night he was at the movies with some girl and they made out and he stuck his hand up her shirt and that the next day he was begging his friend for the details on what she thought..
well he's at the beach right now.. and he doesn't know that i know or anything.. and idk what to do.
tell him i know?
see how he acts when he comes back from the beach?
forget about it bc we aren't dating?

[freeflow]

First thing you need to be positive that it happened. Not saying not to trust your friend but make sure it really did happen. (Not saying it didn't because it sounds like it did but still)

Out of everything you said I wouldn't ignore it. Thats kind of stupid to date the guy if he likes someone else.I would suggest just talking to him about it or in your words "letting him know" but don't turn into one of those girls that gets used by a guy afterward. Keep your eyes and ears open especially if you guys end up getting together. Since you guys were friends with benefits when he was with the other girl, it sucks but technically he wasn't dating you and yea.

Really I think the guy is weird. He doesn't date you because its "summer" but he might end up dating another girl. I think for real though you both need to check your feelings for each other out.

*shrugs*

[JonnyMoseley]

First of all, don't ever talk to that guy again. He probably didn't stick his hand up that girls shirt, or even make out with him. But since he said that he liked you, but he doesn't want to go out with you, that is bullshit. He doesn't like you, he just wants to use you. Guys are very simple, we like a girl, we try to be with them. If they like us we ask them out and they say yes. Since he knows you like him, he us just going to use you this summer to brag. Just stay away from him.

Now for what you should do. Tell him you know and also tell him if he wants to have a realationship, it will either be just friends, or boyfriend/girlfriend. Because if he is friends with benefits, he can be going out with another girl, [b]and[/] have 2 other girls that are his friends with benefits.

I hope this helps with your situation.

[ariana8716]

First of all, don't ever talk to that guy again. He probably didn't stick his hand up that girls shirt, or even make out with him. But since he said that he liked you, but he doesn't want to go out with you, that is bullshit. He doesn't like you, he just wants to use you. Guys are very simple, we like a girl, we try to be with them. If they like us we ask them out and they say yes. Since he knows you like him, he us just going to use you this summer to brag. Just stay away from him.

Now for what you should do. Tell him you know and also tell him if he wants to have a realationship, it will either be just friends, or boyfriend/girlfriend. Because if he is friends with benefits, he can be going out with another girl, [b]and[/] have 2 other girls that are his friends with benefits.

I hope this helps with your situation.

What would be a good way to tell him I know?
And, I really don't like the whole idea of having a boyfriend in the summer anyways.

[Cujiine]

First of all, don't ever talk to that guy again. He probably didn't stick his hand up that girls shirt, or even make out with him. But since he said that he liked you, but he doesn't want to go out with you, that is bullshit. He doesn't like you, he just wants to use you. Guys are very simple, we like a girl, we try to be with them. If they like us we ask them out and they say yes. Since he knows you like him, he us just going to use you this summer to brag. Just stay away from him.

Now for what you should do. Tell him you know and also tell him if he wants to have a realationship, it will either be just friends, or boyfriend/girlfriend. Because if he is friends with benefits, he can be going out with another girl, [b]and[/] have 2 other girls that are his friends with benefits.

I hope this helps with your situation.

Ok woah up there big boy.

Maybe he doesn't want to date her right now cause summer is here and they might not see each other often enough.one of my friends said that. We like each other but because we're gonna see each other like three times over the summer... we decided not to move on the feelings untill september if they're still there.

[ariana8716]

Yeah,Thanks up there ^^.

[EmoEyelinerx]

First thing you need to be positive that it happened. Not saying not to trust your friend but make sure it really did happen. (Not saying it didn't because it sounds like it did but still)

Out of everything you said I wouldn't ignore it. Thats kind of stupid to date the guy if he likes someone else.I would suggest just talking to him about it or in your words "letting him know" but don't turn into one of those girls that gets used by a guy afterward. Keep your eyes and ears open especially if you guys end up getting together. Since you guys were friends with benefits when he was with the other girl, it sucks but technically he wasn't dating you and yea.

Really I think the guy is weird. He doesn't date you because its "summer" but he might end up dating another girl. I think for real though you both need to check your feelings for each other out.

*shrugs*

I agree.

[*steve330*]

Do you really need to ask about someone like that? I'd just say f**k it and come to the realization that he didn't like you that much to begin with if he didn't want to date you and he went to a movie theater and made out with another girl and stuck his hand up her shirt.