what kind of relationship do you like? |
 Jun 21 2007, 02:49 AM
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pretty self explanatory, which sort of relationship do you generally look for?
myself, i look for intimacy- but that usually scares the girl away so i try and start casual or even fling like |
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Jun 21 2007, 03:13 AM
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I'd like/look for a fairly intimate relationship. I beleive thats where my BF and I stand at the moment. Eventually, it'll get more personal and intimate. Very intimate would be... mm, intrusive in my opinion. Depending on whether you like your own personal space or not
 and however long its been going on for...
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Jun 21 2007, 03:34 AM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
By intimacy, do you mean physical intimacy? Or emotional intimacy?
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Jun 21 2007, 03:47 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,658 |
this is what wikipedia had to say: "The meaning of intimacy varies from relationship to relationship, and within a given relationship. Intimacy has more to do with shared moments than sexual interactions..." it goes on to describe the two main forms of intimacy: emotional intimacy and physical intimacy
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Jun 21 2007, 08:56 AM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Well I would want to be in an intimate relationship but it takes a while to get there. So you have to start out at like a casual relationship.
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Jun 21 2007, 09:00 AM
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Nothing like a nice abusive B-I-T-C-H who treats me like shit
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Jun 22 2007, 08:31 AM
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I think it depends on how much I like the person.I would never just have a "fling" with someone, but I also can't see myself having a really intimate relationship with anyone either (in the near future, anywa)
I guess I would say...fairly intimate. |
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Jun 22 2007, 09:19 AM
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very intimate
But I don't go for just any guy. |
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Jun 22 2007, 11:29 AM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
i definitely look for intimacy. that doesn't just mean sex and stuff, like holding hands, hugging and holding each other, that feeling that you can't live without the other. just the closeness and security the other brings.
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Jun 22 2007, 06:54 PM
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 Fellatio. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,122 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,775 |
Casual. I don't need to feel committed to anything, partly b/c its boring and I dont wanna feel trapped. Don't really know if its a fear though. I just wanna be very very
 very good friends with that person, but bot all lovey-dovey and the like.
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Jun 23 2007, 12:10 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Well I'd like it to be very intimate in the long road.
Right now me and my bf are at the fairly intimate stage |
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Jun 24 2007, 10:45 PM
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Very intimate relationship. I actually like it better, because you can be yourself, express yourself, and be more open minded in a more intimate relationship
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Jun 24 2007, 11:20 PM
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^^
Agreed, but it takes time to get to that level of intimacy in a relationship of course, but I do like it once it gets there. The road there is great too of course. |
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Jun 25 2007, 12:56 PM
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 *hugs and kisses* Group: Member Posts: 809 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 493,443 |
Casual to fairly intimate. I want the close friendship to be part of my relationships.
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Jun 25 2007, 01:45 PM
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i like very intimate relationships. of course, i don't go straight for the very intimate kind of relationship though. of course, it starts out and it makes it's way there. i chose "very intimate" though, because thats what i want in relationships. i don't want something that's going to end so soon.
as yobaka3 said, i don't just go for 'any guy'. |
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Jun 25 2007, 02:43 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
Fairly to very intimate, but it takes time to get there so yea.
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Jun 25 2007, 02:46 PM
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It really depends who I'm going out, with what there like, stuff like that. But generally I like to have an intimate relationship.
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Jun 25 2007, 02:48 PM
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I'm not looking for anything serious right now but I definately don't want a fling or something on the side. I would say fairly intimate.
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Jan 29 2008, 09:34 AM
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Very intimate.
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Jan 29 2008, 09:42 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 682 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 580,818 |
i like imtimacy, privacy, and "Do Not Disturb" signs
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Jan 29 2008, 09:49 AM
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RAWWW rellattionnshipp!!
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Jan 30 2008, 01:28 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
i wont deny that i went thru a casual//fling type period in my life. but where im at now..i want a very intimate, committed relationship. ive been in a 5 year and a 2 && a half year, then i went into my casual//fling stage, now im going on a year with someone..so yeah..
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Feb 3 2008, 11:54 AM
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 Melieized Group: Official Designer Posts: 1,372 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,715 |
i love a relationship that makes me happy
oh! there he is---->  lol
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Feb 5 2008, 01:54 AM
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 Vae Victis Group: Official Member Posts: 1,423 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,227 |
I hate all relationships. Luckily, I've never been in any.
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Feb 5 2008, 02:02 AM
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atm, intensely intimate. my relationship started out pretty serious anyway though.
i don't fool around with relationships at all. i'm not willing to mess with someone's trust in me. young enough to have fun, old enough to know better... |
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Feb 5 2008, 02:53 AM
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Fairly intimate for me.
When it gets too intimate, it just .. I dunno, starts to get superficial and fall apart? |
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Feb 18 2008, 05:48 PM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
VERY, VERY INTIMATE.
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Feb 19 2008, 08:20 PM
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imo, casual.
always |
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Feb 19 2008, 08:49 PM
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Very intimate. I don't like wasting time on relationship if they cannot be intimate at all.
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Jun 22 2008, 07:35 PM
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Intimate, I am a long term relationship gal. :)
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Jun 23 2008, 12:28 PM
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QUOTE(SnarphBlat @ Jun 22 2008, 05:35 PM)  Intimate, I am a long term relationship gal. :) ^Agreed. Very intimate. :) |
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Jun 23 2008, 06:50 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
casual (at least for a while) cuz i HATE when boys start that "i love you" crap after two days.
plus i'm kind of shy with people at first. |
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Jul 2 2008, 01:46 AM
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 Photography & Cheese! Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Jun 2008 Member No: 663,055 |
It depends a lot on whether it's physical or emotional intimacy. I'm guessing you mean emotional intimacy, so I'd like a very intimate relationship. That'll have to build up from a casual relationship, though.
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Jul 5 2008, 02:40 PM
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very intimate..well..yeahh..haha..
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Jul 10 2008, 03:51 AM
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Fairly intimate. When people start full on make out in front of you, it feels weird just looking in their direction.
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Jul 10 2008, 10:23 AM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
I am not too sure in what I want. I mean if this one girl wanted to be with me, I would drop everything for her, but I would just mess around with other girls. Weird eh?
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Jul 13 2008, 01:48 AM
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 /人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
Very intimate. Whats the point of going halfway?
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Jul 15 2008, 11:25 AM
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 <(^_^<) DANCE!(>^_^)> Group: Official Member Posts: 1,304 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 586,621 |
very very intimate and definately long term. no use in wasting time or playing kiddie games.
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Jul 22 2008, 04:09 AM
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Casual..I can never seem to stay with a guy for too long. I get bored easily...and besides, I'm still young and have my whole life ahead of me. It's not fun to be committed to someone so early in life...I want to live my life and basically party, haha.  
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Aug 17 2008, 09:46 PM
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Right now it's casual/fling. I'm still in highschool so I don't need a serious relationship at the moment. Plus I plan on going to college that's fairly far away so I'm not dealing with the long-distance thing. I'll focus on serious relationships when I'm in college.
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Aug 17 2008, 11:06 PM
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 Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
Intimate, very much so.
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Aug 19 2008, 03:39 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
I picked fairly intimate.
At 16, I don't really want something that is extremely intimate. |
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Aug 25 2008, 11:15 AM
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QUOTE(Reconditee @ Jun 23 2008, 01:28 PM) QUOTE(SnarphBlat @ Jun 22 2008, 08:35 PM) Intimate, I am a long term relationship gal. :) ^Agreed. Very intimate. :) Double agree! |
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Aug 26 2008, 05:22 AM
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When I was younger I wanted boys just as friends, I'd date the ones I thought were cute. I could never just 'mess around', I didn't even kiss most of them.
Once I got older I wanted a little more intimacy, but still not too serious. Then I met my boyfriend. I tried to take it slow, but he swept me off my feet. |
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Sep 4 2008, 06:51 PM
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 Killed by the weakness, but forced to return. Group: Member Posts: 123 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 666,374 |
Anything but serious.
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