I dont want to like him, but i think i do, I don't want to like him Options

[itsnever4ever]

so i have this friend and he's really cool and nice and he is really easy to talk to, this problem is i think i'm starting to like him, and he has a girlfriend. It's weird like last month i was fine and i didnt care but i noticed him flirting with my friend like with his arm around her and she was leaning into him and i felt realllly realllly like jealous and angry at her.

I think I'm starting to like him, but i don't want to ruin our friendship, and i don't think that he would feel the same, plus he has a girlfriend.

what can i do?

[dustbunny]

self control/restraint. back off from him cause obviously if anything happens it will just end up in major drama. why was he flirting with other girls anyways? basically if you continue the way you do now, it's just a matter of time before you fall for him hard..SO, i guess this sucks but hang out less, talk less, that stuff.

[*Moderator*]

I know your heart may not be telling you to, but I think you should just back off of him. He has a girlfriend and I'm not saying to not like him, that's perfectly fine. Restrain from flirting with him and just be cool. This kind of situation is hard. You can choose to tell him or you can choose to leave it as it is.

[cupcakex]

You should think about what kind of relationship you want to have with him. Give it some time, it might be a crush that'll only last for a few days. But, if you feel you like him that much, you shouldn't keep that locked up.

[*kryogenix*]

Throw some Ds on that bitch.

[*steve330*]

Continue to be his friend. Things might f**k up with his girlfriend, and you might be there for him, and he might really like that, and he might start to like you. Or you can do some cliche breakup tactic found in many a chick flicks.

[Dreamers]

Don't try n break them up. You him to be happy, right? Just be a goof friend. That's about all you can do right now, right? Like other's have said, back off a little, don't flirt, etc. G'luck

[*MyMichelle*]

Honestly, I think you should probably restrain yourself and try not to like him any more (like him less, if you can). If he's flirting with someone else besides you AND his girlfriend, it's most likely he would do that to you, too, if you were dating him. :T

"What he does for you is what he will do to you." So, basically, if he flirts with you against his girlfriend, then he'll probably do that to you, too.

I guess you can just stay friends with him if you want to.

[OhSnap]

I'm sorry to sound negative but (I'm assuming you're in high school) high school relationships are so overrated sometimes. He's probably a flirty guy, and that's just the way he is. So if you were to pursue a relationship with him, you wouldn't like it if he was flirting with another girl, right? I agree with the others, try to restrain yourself. He's just a boy. Go hang out with your friends and have fun instead of worrying about crap like this. Good luck.

[demolished]

Pride or love?

it's your choice.

as for pride, you do whatever to stay away and not be dependent on him. you are willing to work out yourself and work your own goal.

as for love, you just fall hard on someone like a dog.