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 Jun 10 2007, 04:09 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook.  Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383  |
Im starting to have feelings for my ex again. His names Charles and we went out for almoast a month. We hardly ever talk in school so we're always texting eachother (inside/outside school), even if one of us in is school and the other isnt. I already told him that I like him so he knows that already.
We can talk for hours. Yesterday we were texting eachother for like 8 hours straight. In our texts he always acts really sweet and always says sorry and things like that if something bad happens. He also sometimes acts kinda flirty and likes to talk about when we were going out. We went to cedar point for a field trip a few days ago and I asked him if he went on this one ride and he said yeah and I was like awww lucky and he asked if I went on it and I said no. He asked why not and I told him because no one would go with me on it because they were to scared to and he was like "I wouldve gone on it with you." Hes never said anything like that since we broke up. It really made me think. What I need help with is that I want to try to figure out if he has any feelings for me. Any advice? |
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Jun 10 2007, 04:37 PM
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Ask him.
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Jun 10 2007, 05:08 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Throw some Ds on that bitch.
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Jun 10 2007, 08:32 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
just talk to him! just be totally honest and say "hey what's going on here?" you want to see if he's really making advances for you or he's just being that way, you know? i still talk to my ex and yeah we kinda flirt here and there and saying things like sorry for hurting you, but i know its just because he's a nice guy. if we were to get back together than we would be together you know? just ask him full out for the truth.
oh and another thing...is your ex with anyone else? has he been recently? if so i would stear clear for a while. my ex broke up with me because his ex was making advances towards him and since we live far away when we're not in school, he started having feelings for her since i wasn't there. but you get the picture. you don't want to be a homewrecker! just be cautious. he may have moved on...and maybe you need to too. |
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Jun 11 2007, 11:01 AM
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QUOTE(xburnoutx00 @ Jun 10 2007, 05:37 PM)  Ask him. I still don't know why people are still asking that question when the answer is so obvious. If you can't talk about if you like each other, how can you talk about anything else? |
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Jun 11 2007, 11:38 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
^I agree. Despite all that you may write online, none of us will REALLY know better than you if this guy likes you or not; after all, to us, he's a complete stranger. If you like him, gather the courage to ask him about how he feels, because it sounds like you may have a good chance anyways. |
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Jun 11 2007, 03:42 PM
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Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(sweetest_emotion @ Jun 10 2007, 09:32 PM) is your ex with anyone else? has he been recently? Well about 5 weeks after we went out he dated this one girl but they only went out for like a week. Its been about 4 weeks since then and he hasnt dated anyone. Even though we're exes it seems to me that he still feels comfertabul (lol idk how to spell) talking to me about somethings that you dont just go around telling everyone, beacuse I asked him whats up and he said he was moving things and I said why and he got into this big long story that said how his friend had lost his house and he was helping him move his friends stuff out of storage. Thats not something I would think you would go around telling everyone. I want to ask him like who-he-likes/if-he-likes-me but I dont want to just put myself out there I want to like go on a topic and have it gradually turn into "so who do you like?" Advice? |
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Jun 11 2007, 05:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,834 |
Just be like "I like you and you know that, do you feel the same way?"
It really isn't as difficult as you're making it out to be. |
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Jun 12 2007, 02:05 AM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
^ totally. Just be blunt about it. Quit worrying, you're driving me crazy. =p
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Jun 12 2007, 12:07 PM
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Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Lol I know its not that hard but im not use to asking him if he likes me but I just dont want to put like a bunch of presure on him to answer and I dont want to just like through it at him.
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Jun 12 2007, 12:11 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 23 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 529,604 |
ask him if he likes you, everyone tells me to do that
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Jun 12 2007, 12:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,834 |
Well ... be like, "I have to ask you something .... [insert question here]"
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Jun 12 2007, 02:59 PM
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Send him a fax. Phil Collins pioneered this act of class.
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Jun 12 2007, 04:33 PM
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^Who the bloody hell faxes anymore????
You jsut kinda have to roll along with it and see where it blooms from there.And thats if you dont want to be blunt about it and ask him |
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Jun 12 2007, 04:49 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
Well .. how can you guys talk so much while texting each other but can't talk to each other when you guys see each other during school ? I find that odd , anyhoo. Ask him what's wrong and what's up , you can't go on forever like that.
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Jun 13 2007, 09:01 PM
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ask him out..
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| *MyMichelle* |
Jun 13 2007, 09:47 PM
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I think you should look at the reason why you two broke up in the first place. I mean, you don't want to rewind and replay the same thing over again if it was an ending that was meant to be. Or, maybe your first break-up wasn't complete closure, which is why you two are developing feelings for each other again.
First, you should look at yourself and decide whether you really like this guy again and wanna give it a chance. Then talk it out with him. |
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Jun 14 2007, 11:32 AM
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Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(megan_x3 @ Jun 12 2007, 05:49 PM) Well .. how can you guys talk so much while texting each other but can't talk to each other when you guys see each other during school ? I find that odd , anyhoo. Idk lol I always wondered that too. I guess its just kind of awkward talking to him face to face or something. Thanks for the advice when I txt him or I was thinking of calling him later I think I will just be like a have a question (then I will ask if he likes me)then we will just take it from there. |
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Jun 14 2007, 11:34 AM
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Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jun 13 2007, 10:47 PM) I think you should look at the reason why you two broke up in the first place. I mean, you don't want to rewind and replay the same thing over again if it was an ending that was meant to be. Or, maybe your first break-up wasn't complete closure, which is why you two are developing feelings for each other again. First, you should look at yourself and decide whether you really like this guy again and wanna give it a chance. Then talk it out with him. The reason we broke up was because he found out I was starting to like another guy and my so-called-bff went and told him so we talked about it and broke up. |
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Jun 14 2007, 11:51 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 534,630 |
Man, this is online problem solver:
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| *steve330* |
Jun 14 2007, 01:29 PM
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QUOTE(XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX @ Jun 14 2007, 11:34 AM) The reason we broke up was because he found out I was starting to like another guy and my so-called-bff went and told him so we talked about it and broke up. Sounds like you're a little uncertain and should probably work things out as to whether or not you want him and only him. Of course if you have lone feelings for him and not the other guy, and he has the same for you, I see nothing holding you back. |
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Jun 14 2007, 01:45 PM
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Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(steve330 @ Jun 14 2007, 02:29 PM) Sounds like you're a little uncertain and should probably work things out as to whether or not you want him and only him. Of course if you have lone feelings for him and not the other guy, and he has the same for you, I see nothing holding you back. I wasnt uncertin it was just that me and my ex had gone out for awhile and I was starting to get kinda bored of him sometimes. Plus, the kid I started liking started to sit by me in one of my classes and we would always flirt and stuff and it was hard not to like him. Although when me and my ex broke up I went out with the other kid for about a month Funny thing is that they are really close friends 
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Jun 14 2007, 09:28 PM
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QUOTE(XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX @ Jun 14 2007, 01:45 PM) I wasnt uncertin it was just that me and my ex had gone out for awhile and I was starting to get kinda bored of him sometimes. Yeah, that's probably not good for you two to go out again, because it most likely means that you'll get bored of him again. :T Maybe it'd be fun to keep it just flirty, but not to get into an actual relationship with him. |
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Jun 14 2007, 09:30 PM
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 RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jun 14 2007, 09:28 PM) Yeah, that's probably not good for you two to go out again, because it most likely means that you'll get bored of him again. :T Maybe it'd be fun to keep it just flirty, but not to get into an actual relationship with him. Like this bitch knows anything about relationships, with her loud ass mouth the only thing that whore is sucking are knuckles. Go out with him again, flirty isn't a word so that obviously won't work. |
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Jun 14 2007, 09:35 PM
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This coming from the kid who can't even spell a three-letter word.
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Jun 14 2007, 09:36 PM
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RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
No comeback so you resort back to a picture that I originally posted WILLINGLY, and some how thinking it embarrasses me, you never cease to amaze...
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Jun 14 2007, 09:51 PM
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RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
QUOTE(brownsugar @ Jun 14 2007, 09:39 PM) RyanWasHere: I know MyMichelle has exasperated the situation in some threads, but I have specifically told you to cut out your member bashing and rude comments. After reading through a page of your posts, all I see is bashing and negativity. Straighten up your act, or the next time you will be verbally warned. If this continues, consequences will follow. That sounds hardXcore. |
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Jun 14 2007, 11:14 PM
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QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 14 2007, 09:30 PM) Like this bitch knows anything about relationships, with her loud ass mouth the only thing that whore is sucking are knuckles. Go out with him again, flirty isn't a word so that obviously won't work. You've consistently made yourself look stupider and stupider. |
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Jun 15 2007, 02:24 AM
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RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
QUOTE(steve330 @ Jun 14 2007, 11:14 PM) You've consistently made yourself look stupider and stupider. I'm starting to think there's something going on between you and the hyper Asian, you seem to consistently post on her behalf. |
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Jun 15 2007, 04:23 AM
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omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
zomg ryan u r so smrt!!/1!1
I'm hoping to an extreme point, that you're joking. |
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Jun 15 2007, 11:22 AM
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QUOTE(RyanWasHere @ Jun 15 2007, 02:24 AM) I'm starting to think there's something going on between you and the hyper Asian, you seem to consistently post on her behalf. There might be something going on. |
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Jun 15 2007, 11:23 AM
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RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
QUOTE(cupcakex @ Jun 15 2007, 04:23 AM) zomg ryan u r so smrt!!/1!1 I'm hoping to an extreme point, that you're joking. I'm not sure which way you mean that, if you mean that in a way like of course there's something going on between them I'm sorry if I missed something but I don't invest to much time looking into the private relationships of online forum members... And I hope to god this isn't an online relationship because if it is that is f**king hilarious. |
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Jun 15 2007, 11:25 AM
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Yet you turned to looking at my profile to find a reason to insult me. sigh*
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Jun 15 2007, 11:25 AM
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RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jun 15 2007, 11:25 AM) Yet you turned to looking at my profile to find a reason to insult me. sigh* As you did to me. Don't be a hypocrite. Once again is this an online relationship? |
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Jun 15 2007, 11:27 AM
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I did it after you did it to me, lolz.
You can guess if it is, just like I "guess" that your stories about sex are all fake and internet stories only. xo |
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Jun 15 2007, 11:29 AM
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RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
LOLOMGWTFLMAOHAHA that is f**king hilarious, see that right there makes me better than you, thank you for once and for all giving me the upper hand.
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Jun 15 2007, 11:31 AM
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O_o
What are you talking about? If you want to know whether we're dating in real life or not, you can try to stalk my other posts like you have been previously doing. |
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Jun 15 2007, 11:33 AM
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RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
It's ok I will just continue to assume you and Steven are complete and total social rejects and losers.
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| *MyMichelle* |
Jun 15 2007, 11:34 AM
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Like this kid?
Once again, nuff said. Thank you so much for posting that picture, hahhahaa P.S. You can ask anyone who actually knows Steven and I about whether we're "social rejects and losers." At least we don't try to post up fake sex stories on the internet. 
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Jun 15 2007, 11:37 AM
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RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jun 15 2007, 11:34 AM) At least we don't try to post up fake sex stories on the internet. And you can back that statement up? Don't reply with a question like usual. |
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| *Mercy* |
Jun 15 2007, 12:05 PM
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Enough of the fighting in here.Suzzette has asked you guys,Continue on a verbal warnings wil be sent out.
I hate doing the mod thing. |
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Jun 15 2007, 12:08 PM
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RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
I'm done arguing with her in ANY thread.
So don't worry about it, it's over as far as I'm concerned. |
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Jun 15 2007, 12:10 PM
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Ok thank you
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