Boys suck, yeahh Options

[x3yeahbaby]

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year, and in the past yes i have lied to him, and he says he always tells me the truth but today i found out stuff that he has been hiding from me, i told him about it and he deinied it, and its not like something little, its major, i dont know what to do..


any ideas?

[x3yeahbaby]

okay so i just posted a topic on this, but i was so mad it probally didnt even make sense, so let me explain and please give me feed back.

Me and my boyfreind we have been together for a year, and i did lie to him a couple of times and yeah he now knows, and he tells me that he never lies to me, so i beilive him that he never lies but today i found an email address that was his, and it turns out he has been talking to girls and sending pictures to them and them sending pictures, and the girls are liek halg naked, and i asked him about it and he denied it, i honestly dont know how to handle this, i hate liars, and i know i have lied ion the past, but i know how bad it hurts to lie, so thats why i hate them. i have no clue what to do..

any ideas?

[*Mercy*]

Dump him.
That is unexceptable and it is considered cheating even though he never did anything.The fact is is hes been talking and looking at other women and if he is to go so low to actualy talk to half naked whores then why should you bother with him anymore.

your too good for that,.He took advantage of your trust.

[*steve330*]

Tell him if he doesn't want to own up to his mistakes he isn't worth the time of day.

Off topic: I find the title ironic ;)

[cori-catastrophe]

Dump him.
That is unexceptable and it is considered cheating even though he never did anything.The fact is is hes been talking and looking at other women and if he is to go so low to actualy talk to half naked whores then why should you bother with him anymore.

your too good for that,.He took advantage of your trust.

agreed.

it sounds to me like he's more interested in whores. so get over him. he's not worth your time and you can do better. it's his choice if he wants a std.

[cori-catastrophe]

please only make one topic. if you feel like it didn't make sence, you should edit it. a mod should close this.

[x3yeahbaby]

i talked to him now. and he said that it was his friend and his dad messing around with the girl... but they used his pictures.. and me and him have our smiley face that me and him only use and that was on the email, i really dont know what to beilive anymore.

[luvsumorethanuth...]

it sounds like he`s just making up excuses.
if he REALLY did want to be with you; then he wouldn`t lie; or be doing any of this.

you should break up with him; and move on.
and he might just be doing this because you lied to him before;
but at least you owned up to it; and he knows.


tha best idea is to just ferget about him and move on with your life.
if he wants to be with a whore; then let him be with one.

you`re to good for him anyways.
[:

[pleasantlycrushe...]

ok. stop calling people whores. its still not nice even though they are. heh. btw. yeah, he's being a dumb bum. he obv. doesn't know what he wants, dont waste anymore time on him.

you can do better.

find a guy who'd rather look at your naked-ness
its always a plus.

[x3yeahbaby]

yeah i know.
its stupid if he is doing it just because i lied to him
but that was the past and yeah i did at least tell.
wow boys suck
thanks for the advice.

[cupcakex]

I think she was making sense, just being vague. It would be nice to have only one thread for the same topic, though.

[cupcakex]

I think that you're not listening to anyone's advice. People have been saying things that should be very helpful, but then you either defend him, or say some dumb shit about yourself. I think you need to take some time to think about this, before you make a decision. I mean, if you were so mad that you had a hard time making sense posting a topic, you shouldn't have. Forums are a dumb place to vent.

Personally, I think you should dump him. Why would his friends use his email adress, or pictures? I'm pretty sure they have their own. That's just a lame excuse, for a lame guy.

[x3yeahbaby]

okay whatever.
i read everyones advice and i thought about it , and i agreed and i never defened anyone.. so whatever.. i was over it and you bring it right back up. pretty lame.

[*steve330*]

If bringing it back up is lame why did you just do the very same thing? That's only going to encourage more repsonses. You would have been better off letting it be and hoping no one else replied/bumped it.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Dump him.
That is unexceptable and it is considered cheating even though he never did anything.The fact is is hes been talking and looking at other women and if he is to go so low to actualy talk to half naked whores then why should you bother with him anymore.

your too good for that,.He took advantage of your trust.

I totally agree.

P.S. The person who wrote this topic really needs to learn how to spell.

[EmoEyelinerx]

he said that it was his friend and his dad messing around with the girl... but they used his pictures..

His friend and dad I mean come on thats the lamest excuse ever! Why the hell would his dad want to send pics of his son to girls who send pics back who are half naked?

[anf1892]

Dump him.
That is unexceptable and it is considered cheating even though he never did anything.The fact is is hes been talking and looking at other women and if he is to go so low to actualy talk to half naked whores then why should you bother with him anymore.

your too good for that,.He took advantage of your trust.

Agreed.

[EmoEyelinerx]

It depends how major it is.
By the way, can you please stick to only making one topic?

[xBUTTMUNCHx]

it would truly help if you told us what the "major" problem is.
otherwise we can't really help...

[LennonLime]

yeah...without knowing some of the details, I'm not sure I can help you.

[Chicago]

uhh, what the hell did he do?

[Chicago]

send him a picture of you half naked..
then he'll get the picture!

[cupcakex]

okay whatever.
i read everyones advice and i thought about it , and i agreed and i never defened anyone.. so whatever.. i was over it and you bring it right back up. pretty lame.

Um. I'm sorry, for posting on public forums? Lmao. If you don't want your problems 'brought up', then don't put them on the internet, asking for advice.

its stupid if he is doing it just because i lied to him

Where you defended the kid. :]

His friend and dad I mean come on thats the lamest excuse ever! Why the hell would his dad want to send pics of his son to girls who send pics back who are half naked?

Ahahah.

[KayleighKins]

^ thats not defending. She was calling him stupid. Re-read mebbeh? More like she's defending herself, saying that all she did was lie to him.

Which is crap, yeah, but there's no reason to betch over it.

[sillywabit]

I think that you're not listening to anyone's advice. People have been saying things that should be very helpful, but then you either defend him, or say some dumb shit about yourself. I think you need to take some time to think about this, before you make a decision. I mean, if you were so mad that you had a hard time making sense posting a topic, you shouldn't have. Forums are a dumb place to vent.

Personally, I think you should dump him. Why would his friends use his email adress, or pictures? I'm pretty sure they have their own. That's just a lame excuse, for a lame guy.

lame excuse for a lame guy? ok listen. read my own thread. dont share your personel opinions on me. i understand the situation makes me look like a liar but for you to refer to m as lame is obviously hypocritical of yourself. she now knows for a fact that it was my dad and my friend so guess waht? i wasnt lieing! and for all of you who said she should break up with me? hmmm well thats just irational. after all ive done for her in this relationship why would i want to see half naked pics of other girls? just ask samantha yourself. if i wanted to cheat on her i could with plenty of other girls but guess what? i love samantha. man the people on this forums dont think very deeply. you guys just brushed the thoughts away of our past and focused on what she assumed i did. anyone smart would have told her she needs to peronelly think about it and find out the truth. you cant assume someone lieing just becuase it looks like they are. so i leave you with this. im the lame guy? well sweetie i look better then you, have a better education, and if wanted to do these thread things i could relate to alot more people in a much better way. learn to be more sensitive about what you say rahter than spit the first intellectual word you can think of. grow up. to all you others. i have no offense from you. i would have told her to break up with me to. but this was a situation in which i truly wasnt lieing. im sorry for this outbreak its just that the lame comment managed to get to me.

[*MyMichelle*]

ok so my girl friend and me made a deal....the deal was neither of us would go on any forums or ne thing online (kinda like this place) but she always is anyways. she also had a role playing myspace account and a fake bf on there. the other day my dad and my old friend were playing around on my email with some girl. i didnt know but she found out and their were pics on their. my dad came str8 forward and told her the truth and that i wasnt involved. but...you may know this girl. her name is x3yeahbaby on here. and i caught her yesterday on here. also in the forum inwhich she embaressed me horrible she said "i have lied a couple times" well the truth is....she has cheated on me, tried to cheat on me on aim but it was actually me talking to her, role played on myspace and had fake bfs, and sooo many other things. i have yet to lie to her. ill post a pic later but im a good looking guy. i could have lots of other girls yet even though she lies and embareses me i stay with her. now that youve read a little bit about her tell me what you think.

You and your boyfriend are seriously so dumb.

Grow the f**k up and stop cybering with 80 year olds.

[littleswallow]

My goodness, all the drama!

I'm just wondering... why in the world did you guys bring CB into this? Don't get me wrong, but CB has turned into a battleground or something.

Anyways, I agree with MyMichelle, grow up!

[*Mercy*]

I am really starting to think Ju-sun should just like delete the Relationships forum off the face of this planet.

Kill this like the dinosaurs.

[Cujiine]

Based on your post and your boyfriend's post, you two seem like a lost cause... You sound like you're addicted to the computer and you seem to have lied to him more times than he did (if he did) to you. You especially, but him also, need to get your priorities in check.

[*Mercy*]

Topics were merged.

[cupcakex]

lame excuse for a lame guy? ok listen. read my own thread. dont share your personel opinions on me. i understand the situation makes me look like a liar but for you to refer to m as lame is obviously hypocritical of yourself. she now knows for a fact that it was my dad and my friend so guess waht?

First of all, you should visit Dictionary.com, because you don't make any sense. And, how is calling you lame making a hypocrite of myself? Rotfl.

man the people on this forums dont think very deeply. you guys just brushed the thoughts away of our past and focused on what she assumed i did. anyone smart would have told her she needs to peronelly think about it and find out the truth. you cant assume someone lieing just becuase it looks like they are.

So, wait a second. You don't want anyone's 'personel' opinion, but now you're wanting everyone to take more time, to worry about your problems? ZOMG U R SUCH A HYPOCRITE!!1/2/1!

im the lame guy?

Yes, that's what I said.

well sweetie i look better then you, have a better education

Omg, you look better than I do. Oh noes! And, I'm preeeeeetty sure you don't have that great of an education, if you can't even spell, or use proper grammer. =]

and if wanted to do these thread things i could relate to alot more people in a much better way. learn to be more sensitive about what you say rahter than spit the first intellectual word you can think of. grow up.

Yes. You could probably do a much better job relating to people on these 'thread things', than I can. But, that's because a lot of them are litele kids, and you can relate. Oh, and I'm sorry to disappoint you, but I usually don't say the first intellectual thing I think of, because I'd attract a lot of attention to myself, much like the kind you're giving me right now. I don't like it much.

[*MyMichelle*]

^ Well, I suppose he's way better than us. His intellect is "far above ours" and his relationship problems require much more "deep thinking" than a regular teenage relationship. Oh noes. Maybe if he sucked some internet dick online, he'd feel better.

These two just need to work it out between them instead of rejecting every bit of advice given to them on this thread.

[*Mercy*]

^ Well, I suppose he's way better than us. His intellect is "far above ours" and his relationship problems require much more "deep thinking" than a regular teenage relationship. Oh noes. Maybe if he sucked some internet dick online, he'd feel better.

These two just need to work it out between them instead of rejecting every bit of advice given to them on this thread.

Wow.

Lets play nice please.

[me1issaaaa]

Okay. I am speaking from PERSONAL EXPERIENCE. I just got out of a relationship like that, and I promise you, that BOYS DO NOT CHANGE. If he's lying now, he'll lie through his teeth in the future, as well.

Listen to me, and let me spare you months and months of more situations like these - don't put up with it. I swear, it's not worth it.

If you only had any idea of how I know exactly what boat you're in...

[cupcakex]

^ Watch out, he'll have an "outbreak", and tear you to shreads, for questioning his sincerity!

^ Well, I suppose he's way better than us. His intellect is "far above ours" and his relationship problems require much more "deep thinking" than a regular teenage relationship. Oh noes. Maybe if he sucked some internet dick online, he'd feel better.

Agreed. Especially the part about the e-dick. Well, he'd have to pull the one out of his ass, first.

Lets play nice please.

No wai, he started it. =x

[*Mercy*]

No wai, he started it. =x

I know but its my job to say it.That way should this really get ugly i can say i tried lmao.

[marzipan]

I am really starting to think Ju-sun should just like delete the Relationships forum off the face of this planet.

Kill this like the dinosaurs.

You know, I'm really starting to agree.

[dispn0ygonekrazy]

show him the goods. chitty chitty bang bang.

naw lol jk, maybe's theres reasons why he hides stuff from you, just like the reasons you lie to him in the past. If there is no common ground on how to understand each other, then thats not a relationship especially if your together with some one but can't trust each other. and you say it's major. what's so major like he's cheating on you? maybe your just not living up to each other's expectations.

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