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How long is 'not interested'?, Waiting for the call.
shynsparklie
post Jun 7 2007, 05:21 PM
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To start, I want to apoligize if I'm doing anything wrong. This is my first time here at createblog and I've read the rules but there is a lot of them! So I apoligize if I did something wrong or breaking rules. Sorry! biggrin.gif

Anyway, you should know before I begin that I am very shy.

To the point--
On the last day of school I gave my crush a note with my phone number and I thought he was interested when I gave it to him... but its been a week and a half and no call.
Should I take this as a 'leave me alone' message or are you supposed to wait awhile?
I'm new to this site and am not very experienced with boys.

Again sorry if I did something wrong and have a wonderful day!
 
 
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loveylovely
post Jun 7 2007, 05:35 PM
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Maybe he lost the number. ermm.gif
 
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post Jun 7 2007, 05:46 PM
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Does he have an email you know of, myspace, facebook, xanga, some means of contacting him basically. If you can, just say hello sup whats going on etc etc.
 
shynsparklie
post Jun 7 2007, 06:24 PM
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Thanks for replying!
Well the reason for the note with my number and email address was because he didn't have a myspace.
& I have no way of contacting him so it is all in his hands and he is kinda shy too.
Should I take the not emailing/calling thing as a back-off signal. Because he is a nice person so maybe its his way of trying to tell me to get lost!
 
cupcakex
post Jun 7 2007, 06:33 PM
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You should chill, first. Second, do you know any of his friends? Or, do your friends know him? Maybe he did in fact, lose the number, or something.
 
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post Jun 7 2007, 08:20 PM
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Throw some Ds on that bitch.
 
sadolakced acid
post Jun 7 2007, 08:28 PM
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so i'm going to assume he's a guy and you're a girl, and you're both in high school, and are similar hotness levels. if any of these are not true, then there's your problem.

possible problems:

1- he doesn't know who you are.
2- he's already got a girl
3- he lost your number
4- you wrote your number down.
5- he hates you.

now; i suggest you do something bold. Guys like girls that take the initiative. It's sexy.

call him and say"

"Hey. Hey you. you. i could you be girlfirend"

he'll either be up to it, or else he's not worth it.
 
shynsparklie
post Jun 7 2007, 09:12 PM
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Hey thanks for all the great advice!
The problem was I had no way to contact him!
But actually--speak of the devil--I got an e-mail ten minutes ago!!
Ha ha... I'm pretty ecstatic.
Thank you all sooo much!
& yes I'm a girl and he is a guy... and we're both religious nerds.
Should I wait awhile before I reply back?
(like I wasn't obsessively checking my email?)
 
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post Jun 7 2007, 09:18 PM
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wait till tommorrrow.

maybe later if you want

but yes; wait.
 
shynsparklie
post Jun 7 2007, 09:56 PM
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Okay thanks!
Knowing me I would reply ten minutes later, like the dork I am.
Should I keep it short?
(his was relatively short and VERY formal)
 
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post Jun 7 2007, 10:01 PM
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yes. emulate style.
 
x3yeahbaby
post Jun 8 2007, 04:00 PM
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wait. dont stress about it. its summer mabye he is spening time with some family members her hasnt seen?
 
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post Jun 8 2007, 04:06 PM
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Was it a good email or a bad email?
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