major problem, about this guy Options

[marzipan]

Okay, so I'm crazy about this guy.
He's really amazing, and I've really gotten closer to him this year.
My problem is that I'm leaving for another school this next school year. :[ I'm going to see all my friends again, but it's still hard that I'm not going to see him all summer.
I want him to know that I like him, but I don't want anything to be awkward. School's out now, and I also don't know HOW I would tell him since I won't see him for a few months.

I don't know what to do about it.
He means the world to me.
I'm told to get over him since I won't see him very much, but I can't. I know I won't be able to.
I mean, I want him to know I like him, but then again I don't.
It's confusing me, and I don't really know how to explain.

Does anyone have any advice? Should I let him know? And how?

[AimeeLynn]

Well for me, If you really like this guy and you don't tell him you will regret it. When you think about him it would always remind you that you never told him you liked him and you would question yourself all the time "What happens if I told him?" or "Did he like me?".

I think just follow your heart. Feel what's right at the moment. If you feel like he feels the same way go!

Take it from a girl that had it happened to her.

Good Luck =]]

[marzipan]

Thanks for the reply.
I don't know how to let him know.
I guess what I'm most afraid of is his reply. I don't want to be rejected by him, and I don't want anything awkward to happen. I was thinking of writing him a note, but would it mean more if I told him?

I don't know when I'll see him again, so I want to make the most of any time I have with him.

[manaway]

well what you should do is tell him doesnt matter how he replys you will feel better that you got it off your chest and if a girl told me she liked me i would be flattered i would love it i have never seen a girl go up to a guy thought so when your alone with this guy just be like hey i really like you just tell him straight up

[marzipan]

Okay, thanks for the reply.

I really want to tell him, but I just hope it won't be awkward. I mean, after I tell him, I don't want him to not say anything...I don't really know what he'd do.

[*steve330*]

Lol give a disclaimer.
"I know this might be weird, and if it totally weirds you out I'm sorry but I just wanted you to know that I really like you. I'm having to go to a different school and I might not see you all summer and if I didn't see you again I would hate myself for not having told you how I feel about you. I know you might not feel the same way, and if you don't that's ok, but if you do that's awesome. There! Got it off my chest, so how's life ^^?"

[EmoEyelinerx]

Call him. If you dont tell him your going to regret and always wonder: "What would have happened if I told him?" "Did he like me" and stuff like that. I say go for it. Thats would be awesome if you wrote him what steve said^. I think if I was a guy and got a note like that I would feel really special.

[Jules19]

how won't you see him all summer if school's out?? but anyways, i know how you feel! i had this one guy who i was CRAZY about but we were going really far away for college. but i told him i liked him and he said that he did too! (he had some crazy ex probs so we never got together ) but hey i told him!
you will DEFINITELY regret not telling him how you feel. what's the worst he can say? no? sure, but if you're friends now, reassure him that you want to still be friends even if he doesn't like you. i guess the sticky part is if he does...well hey it's summer so i would say enjoy it while you can!! and try it out during the school year. if you can see your old friends, why not him?! me and my guy still talk pratically every day, sometimes for hours on aim, and we still make it work even though we have feelings for one another (but he now has a gf, and me i had a bf but we broke up). so hey you never know until you say something!!! just go for it!!

[ariana8716]

tell him,
you'll regret it if you don't.

[marzipan]

how won't you see him all summer if school's out??

I don't really hang out with him that much.
I mean, we're friends of course, but he has baseball practice and basketball practice and so many events going on that he can't go to any parties or socials that everyone else is going to.

Thanks for the replies, everyone.
I really want to tell him. I know I need to, but I'm going to have to figure out how to make the right moment the next time I do see him, which won't be for a few months. >_>;

[*steve330*]

Go to his events. If he kinda likes you and he knows you like him, you going to his sporting events will mean a lot to him. I love it when my girlfriend goes to my soccer games, even if she just reads a book for most of it lol.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Oh but you WILL get over him. Especially if you never get together. No worries :)

[marzipan]

Hm..
Well, now the problem is that I'm 90% sure he likes one of my best friends.
>_>

He used to really act like he liked me.
And now he's just...different.
So I don't want to waste my time telling him if I know he doesn't like me. That would be embarrassing on my part.


^ But I really don't want to get over him....

[shynsparklie]

note: I'm new to this sorry if I mess up!

I really think you should give him a note, it worked out great for me. And if he is going to a different school and it turns out he doesn't like you, you won't be around him that much to make it awkward. Notes work great, but if you can tell him in person that would be better. You definately have to say something, it will either make a relationship or getting over him all the more easier.
The worst thing that could happen is it could creep him out.
Thats not as bad as living the rest of your life saying 'what if?'

[minioligo]

Hm..
Well, now the problem is that I'm 90% sure he likes one of my best friends.
>_>

He used to really act like he liked me.
And now he's just...different.
So I don't want to waste my time telling him if I know he doesn't like me. That would be embarrassing on my part.
^ But I really don't want to get over him....

Ouch. That's a difficult one. I'm sorry, Kristaaaa.

I think you should tell him anyway. Even if he might like someone else, even if it might be a little embarrassing, it'll give you some sort of a closure. But, who knows, even if he does act different, maybe he still likes you? :D I don't think anyone can ever predict what a guy thinks. If things don't work out though,you'll definitely be able to find another guy to like afterwards. I know it sucks, and I know that you don't want to get over him, but you will eventually. :) Good luckk.

[marzipan]

Thanks for the comments.
I'll try it...the next time I see him. And I'm pretty sure it's going to be pretty soon.

Thanks Julia.