"HIM", I need advice on how or why I should tell this guy I like him... |
"HIM", I need advice on how or why I should tell this guy I like him... |
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I like this boy, but i'm not sure if he likes me back. There's this other girl that likes him too, and when he found out, he stopped being friends with her...I'm scared if I tell him too, that our friendship will end...WHAT DO I DO?!
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*kryogenix* |
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Throw some D's on that bitch.
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![]() What a sick, masochistic lion. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 ![]() |
Do you value your friendship more than your crush on him? If you do, I wouldn't risk it... but if you really, really, REALLY have a thing for him and get signs that he might like you back too, go for it. |
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,198 ![]() |
Are you good friends with him?
If you are, I think that he wouldn't break your friendship apart just because you like him. I think some simple flirting should work for now. Then when you get some good vibes back at you, I think you should tell him how you feel. You never know what could happen! [; |
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![]() Don't touch me you drink! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 518,707 ![]() |
well....I don't think he should forget your friendship if you tell him you like him.
But you should probably test the waters, don't just jump in. Look for signs that he likes you, too, before jumping in headfirst ![]() |
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![]() The kooks ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 ![]() |
Depends on how much you value your friendship with how much you really like him. Also if there is any indication that he likes you then perhaps go for it. It's just about weighing it all up.
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![]() Hi, Im Brook. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 ![]() |
If your really good frineds with him I wouldent risk it untill you know for sure that he likes you back. For now just maybe flirt with him, but if you start to really really really like him I think that you should tell him.
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if he is really your friend he won't break of the friendship, i just did this recently, like this week recently, and we are still friends and this are a little awkward, but we're still friends.
if you don't know how he will respond ('cuz i knew how my friend would respond b/c of his relationships with his ex-g/fs) then i would make sure to find that out before you do it |
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c[: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 ![]() |
is there any reason that you think that he may like you in return? if there aren't any signs or anything of that nature perhaps it is better to remain friends for now until you think that there may be something there. perhaps then you can talk to him about it. if he was really your friend and mature then he would remain friends with you.
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![]() Tasty. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 ![]() |
okay thats crazy! it's obvious that this guy has some problems with relationships, and he just got freaked out about this girl who said she liked him. let me tell you what i did..
okay so there was this guy that i had the HUGEST crush on for about 2 years (no kidding) and i finally told him i liked him...a lot. and he said that he kinda figured that, and he had feelings for me too! but it wasn't the best time for him to be in a relationship, so we never got together (i'm hoping for it!), BUT we're like the BEST of friends now and we're flirting like crazy. my friends say we're practically dating...and so yeah it's better than ever. i'd say if you really like this guy, and your friendship can withstand this big step, GO FOR IT! who knows! he may like you back! and if he gets freaked out and does the same like he did with the other girl, then forget about him. he obviously has a problem and isn't ready to be in a relationship. but when he IS, then he knows you like him. you really have nothing to lose. |
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