Prom night, lasting forever? |
 May 19 2007, 09:19 AM
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 here, here, and here  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103  |
Ok. Here's the deal. I asked this friend of mine to prom. He is a Sophomore and I'm a Junior. Alot of people told me that why go with him and all. I told them ,since I only thought of him as a friend at that time, that I wouldn't dance with him. I did of course. He wasn't the best "grinder" but he was a great slow dancer. I never ever felt that way slow dancing with someone before. I wanted it to last forever. I don't know. I regret not dancing with him more than I should. To the point, I fell for him. I don't know if he feels the same way. His family is Portuguese and my family is Filipino. Portuguese is stricked when it comes to dating and so is Filipinos.They would never approve me if i was his gf. I just can't stop think about him. In my dreams, riding in the car,and typing right now.
 I don't want to get hurt again by a guy. What should I do? |
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May 19 2007, 10:39 AM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Well since you dont wanna get hurt again theirs not much you can do because the chance of him likeing you is probably slim to none. You said you went as friends, so when you were dancing with his it was just as friends. I doubt he changed his mind about crushing on you -not so sound harsh-
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May 19 2007, 11:50 AM
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 unrequited love Group: Member Posts: 1,007 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,788 |
yeah i kind of agree with brook, you did go as friends and he probably still sees you in that way. i dont know what the nationality scheme had to do with anything but if he really liked you, he wouldnt care what his parents would think.
anyways, if you really want to know ask him, but you should be prepared on getting hurt cause its hard to tell with these things. |
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May 19 2007, 11:53 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
Do you have any idea if he likes you too?
I think it was just a one-time feeling you got... Even though it's still around now, it was probably just the atmosphere of the night or something. If you didn't like him before then, I think it's just a temporary crush. However, if you feel there's potential and a way to get your families to allow you to date, try. If not, it's not worth the hurt. |
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May 19 2007, 11:54 AM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
Bad Grinder? What the....
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May 19 2007, 02:02 PM
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i'm so bored. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,261 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,614 |
Bad grinder? LOL. XD
Well, you never know. It could be just the lust of finally being with a guy you'd consider, y'know? Some guys don't consider grinding and slow dancing to be something as big as a 'crush' or whatever. Try and see how things are with him after prom. If things are still like what you felt during the slow dance, you may have a chance (: Family approval is hard to deal with, though. Are you sure they wouldn't accept you? Think about if causing tension between families is really worth it to you or not. |
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May 19 2007, 02:15 PM
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here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
well he asked me out as a date to tomorrow. Maybe it could be more?
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May 19 2007, 03:22 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
There's definitely potential, and the asking you on the date probably means that there's something more there
 I don't see any reason why he would hurt you. Both of your parents shouldn't mind too much. They let you go to prom together right?
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May 19 2007, 06:55 PM
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i'm so bored. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,261 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,614 |
QUOTE(capricorn826 @ May 19 2007, 3:15 PM)  well he asked me out as a date tomrrow. Maybe it could be more? Good for you! :D Of course that means more than just a friendship. Just watch how your relationship between you and him go.  Don't let things go too fast...it could ruin everything. I know from experience. 
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May 19 2007, 08:14 PM
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 Lauren :D Group: Member Posts: 2,105 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 176,997 |
Take a chance.
If it works out, good for you. If it doesn't, hopefully you guys can still be friends. |
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May 20 2007, 09:52 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 235 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,772 |
agreed with all the above ^^ if he really likes you then he wouldnt care what his parents said and never give up, so why not give it a try? it wouldnt do you harm if you give him a try *n.n* lol im not allowed to date japanese(cuz im Chinese) but i did in the past, but now im dating a filipino guy, if i could do it then you could do it =-D
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May 20 2007, 12:05 PM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
QUOTE(Smilessss @ May 20 2007, 7:52 AM) agreed with all the above ^^ if he really likes you then he wouldnt care what his parents said and never give up, so why not give it a try? it wouldnt do you harm if you give him a try *n.n* lol im not allowed to date japanese(cuz im Chinese) but i did in the past, but now im dating a filipino guy, if i could do it then you could do it =-D Wow, is your name Stephanie Golahi? |
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May 20 2007, 12:57 PM
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here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
My parents say it's "ok" for me to hang out and all but no [yes I know] kissing and etc..
They don't want me to have a real relationship. Come on. I'm 16 going on 17. That annoys me in so many ways. 
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May 20 2007, 01:28 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
QUOTE(Ma Ass is WOW @ May 20 2007, 9:05 AM) Wow, is your name Stephanie Golahi? what the...QUOTE(Smilessss @ May 20 2007, 6:52 AM) agreed with all the above ^^ if he really likes you then he wouldnt care what his parents said and never give up, so why not give it a try? it wouldnt do you harm if you give him a try *n.n* lol im not allowed to date japanese(cuz im Chinese) but i did in the past, but now im dating a filipino guy, if i could do it then you could do it =-D wowowowowoowowowowowowowow yes yes, you're just like me XD |
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May 20 2007, 03:16 PM
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 CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
It sounds like you can't help how you feel, so you should go for it. Taking chances are not easy, but you owe it to yourself to find out where it might lead. For better or worse.
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May 20 2007, 03:47 PM
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here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
QUOTE(Chessboxxa 101 @ May 20 2007, 4:16 PM) It sounds like you can't help how you feel, so you should go for it. Taking chances are not easy, but you owe it to yourself to find out where it might lead. For better or worse. I feel it's true. When I danced with him, everything didn't matter. Everything was gone and it felt that it was only me and him. EDITT:// HE LIKES ME!<33333 |
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